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Date: May 12th, 2005 3:47 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond ?
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Date: May 12th, 2005 3:48 PM Author: Lavender bawdyhouse This is stupid. It's much more prolific among TAs/students. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765554) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 3:50 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond Really? Is it even allowed with professors?
And do students try to raise their grades this way? |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 3:55 PM Author: Lavender bawdyhouse duh. It definitely happens with TAs & students, although it's not allowed. i've never heard of it happening with students & profs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765606) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 4:33 PM Author: cracking hominid it happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765951) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 4:35 PM Author: mildly autistic mewling gay wizard persian i would agree with this. i know two girls who hooked up with TAs, but i cant think of any girls who hooked up with profs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765974) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:35 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur One prof was supposedly dating a senior and has done so before. This is much much much more prevalent at female only schools. Even janitors get play there. My friend from Smith said that it was a common sight to see students leaving the houses of some profs in the morning. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766455) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:47 PM Author: opaque foreskin That's strange. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766569) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:49 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur If I pursue academia, then you know which type of schools I'll be aiming for :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766586) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:56 PM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre consider mount holyoke then ;) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766652) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:17 PM Author: opaque foreskin won't all the girls there be bull dykes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766832) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:38 PM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre no, not at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768104) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:18 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur Gladly :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766850) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:39 PM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre nice. we have a good ir department, tons of international students, and scores of women....you'd love it here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768120) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:10 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur Heh, maybe I shouldn't drop out afterall. This does sound like an ideal environment for me. If it were in/near a large international city, then it would be perfect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768829) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:31 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre that's what a lot of students here say. well, boston and nyc aren't too far. though i dont know if you'd consider boston an 'international' city.
[p.s. im besoffen |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 5:51 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur what does your p.s. mean? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2775815) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:17 PM Author: opaque foreskin how many more yrs do you have left before you get the phd? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766842) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:52 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur Too many. I am only a first year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767192) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:36 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy shrine corn cake You will be officially old by the time you received your Ph.D.
"OMG I'm now 30! Ahhhh" |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 5:52 PM Author: Kink-friendly voyeur what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2775824) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:57 PM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre i dont know about janitors, but i have heard of students getting with dining services/other staff members. i know of some profs that sleep with students, but i dont know if we're higher/lower than any other school (coed or all female). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766663) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:47 PM Author: opaque foreskin are you hot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766571) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:53 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed Are you a prof.? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766623) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:16 PM Author: opaque foreskin No. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766824) |
Date: May 12th, 2005 3:50 PM Author: supple aquamarine state i would if i were so high up the food chain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765574) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 4:28 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy shrine corn cake I wouldn't mind. Then again, I don't know if 40+ year old men still have erections. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765900) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:12 PM Author: diverse roast beef Life is pretty much over after 25. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767913) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:35 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy shrine corn cake According to Seal, it isn't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768076) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:09 PM Author: Charismatic hideous skinny woman Seal knows all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768815) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 4:36 PM Author: grizzly big house mad cow disease a bunch of people thought my friend will was sleeping with his french teacher because he never went to class and got an A in it. He insists that he wasn't. If that is the case, I might be taking that class.... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2765980) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:29 PM Author: chestnut useless brakes organic girlfriend Yeah, I know someone who married one of her male professors and a few more girls who briefly dated or slept with them. I also know a (slightly older) male student who ended up in a relationship with his female professor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766393) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:37 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed It's much more taboo now than it used to be. (For example, one of my teachers in HS had a relationship that started when his now-wife was an 18-year-old senior, he was 22.) It was accepted at the time (I don't think she was in his class) but now would have gotten him fired.
In college, I'm pretty sure nothing bad would happen as long as the student wasn't in his class. For example, occasionally TAs will ask out their students 30 minutes after finals, and this is considered acceptable. I don't know if professors have the same freedom, or if there's an expectation of a more defined barrier between professors and students.
In any case, vishna, it's not common, and the only times anyone knows about it are when there's a nasty scandal.
I (21/m) did once almost date a professor (~28/f), though not one at my college. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:55 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "For example, it's common for TAs to ask out their students 30 minutes after finals, and this is considered acceptable."
Not only that, you're looking forward to it. Right?
FYI, while that might be LEGALLY acceptable and acceptable by school policy, at least at Caltech everyone considered that extremely creepy, sketchy behavior. Unless you want to virtually guarantee a repeat of your Carleton experience at Wisconsin, I'd recommend against it. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:57 PM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre "Unless you want to virtually guarantee a repeat of your Carleton experience at Wisconsin, I'd recommend against it."
haha, wow man, you can be kind of rough. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:06 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma From what I've heard, he's had this explained to him quite a few times and never listens. Subtlety is entirely lost. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766730) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:10 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed Joe Caltech is a pathetic douche who has some perverted Internet crush on "use a toothbrush" (who, by the way, has a boyfriend much cooler than JoeCal). Because "use a toothbrush" dislikes me (for unknown reason) and is into personal attacks, he imitates. He takes it upon himself to launch an irrelevant personal attack on me at every opportunity. He's a smug assclown who believes his Caltech degree entitles him to say anything and be taken seriously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766762) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:24 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "Joe Caltech is a pathetic douche who has some perverted Internet crush on 'use a toothbrush' (who, by the way, has a boyfriend much cooler than JoeCal)."
Not true on the first part. I have a long-term girlfriend myself, you know. (And no, I didn't meet her by hitting on girls in my section.) And on the second part, I don't deny it (not knowing him, of course), but if he's so cool what might it say that he chooses to date someone who obviously has a very, very different opinion of you?
"He's a smug assclown who believes his Caltech degree entitles him to say anything and be taken seriously."
I don't really think any sort of a degree "entitles" anyone to be taken seriously, and I'm not sure how you'd draw that conclusion, either. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:27 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed "if he's so cool what might it say that he chooses to date someone who obviously has a very, very different opinion of you?"
I honestly don't know what he sees in her. I'll concede that she's very intelligent, and that they both seem to have similar interests.
I don't follow the a-friend-of-my-enemy-is-my-enemy logic. If someone I liked started dating you, I'd still have a positive opinion of her, I'd just seriously question her taste. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:32 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma I'm not asking you to make him your "enemy" (although, in your default-victim mind, you obviously collect enemies like I collect coins), just asking what it might mean. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766985) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:33 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed About him? It means that he isn't going to stop dating someone because she doesn't like one of his friends. I wouldn't either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766999) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:34 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma He's your FRIEND? Or you just think he's cool? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767013) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:36 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed Not close friends, but we get along well. He's a good guy. Anyway, let's leave him out of this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767030) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:36 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Hehe. All right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767041) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:02 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed You're a fucking doucheczar for spinning this into a personal attack. You really need to find something other than the Internet to wipe your smug, self-entitled ass on, k?
After finals, she is no longer one of the TA's students. (Ok, unless the TA was responsible for grading the finals, in which case he ought to wait until grades are turned-in.) This means that it's no more sketchy for him to date her than for a generic graduate student to date a generic undergrad, which is not considered unacceptable at every university I'm familiar with. If Caltech was uptight about such things, that really explains a lot about you. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:16 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "Self-entitled"? Huh? How does that even make any sense? I'm from a middle-class family (parents are a public school reading teacher and a small-town newspaper editor) and am, in fact, probably quite poor by the standards of this board. I think it's pretty fair to say I've earned what I have, but I'm curious about how you came to the conclusion that I haven't.
I'm surprised you didn't use "doucheczar" or tell me I'm a "septed fool"--you do so love your made-up words, don't you?
EDIT: OH GOD I CALLED IT! YOU ***DID*** CHANGE IT TO "DOUCHECZAR"--HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
"If Caltech was uptight about such things, that really explains a lot about you."
"Uptight" is one of the last words I'd use to describe Caltech--just how uptight can something in southern California BE, anyway??--but I wouldn't be too concerned about that, because you'll never have to worry about it anyway. Hopefully, for you, I'm wrong in extrapolating, and all those undergrads in UWisc math classes will welcome grad students coming on to them. I have to say that I certainly can't see it going over well at U-M either, though. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:20 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed Dude, I said that it was common for graduate TAs to ask out undergrads after classes are over. I didn't say that I was planning on doing it, myself. Frankly, the college girls (at Carleton) I'm familiar with are, for the most part, too immature to date. I don't expect to be hitting on undergrads, myself, especially not college freshmen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766877) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:21 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond Not to cut into the quibbling, but am I the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with a grad student asking out an undergrad (and vice versa?) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766886) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:24 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma 30 minutes after the final? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766916) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:29 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed If the TA were grading the final, I agree that this would be irresponsible. (At least at Carleton, professors grade the finals.)
I think that, once the TA has no further direct influence on her grades, it's acceptable to for him to ask her out.
(Now, the TAs I know who did this both got rejected. It wouldn't be my approach.) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:33 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "Now, the TAs I know who did this both got rejected. It wouldn't be my approach."
I'm not surprised on the former (I also wouldn't be surprised if word got 'round pretty fast about it), and I'm glad to hear the latter.
And the timing has nothing to do with grading the final. It's just a bit too "I've been stalking you all semester waiting for this moment" for me. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:37 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed With that, about the timing, I agree. I think the guy appears too over-eager by doing that. It's definitely not a suave move. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767056) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:42 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma You really do think it's all about "suave moves," etc. don't you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767111) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:46 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed No, but asking a student out 30 minutes after the final is definitely not one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767139) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:56 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Well, at least we agree on that. Your original post certainly implied otherwise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767231) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 3:19 PM Author: Overrated death wish "I've been stalking you all semester waiting for this moment"
Sounds like Pensive to me. The rumors, his over-eagerness, and the fact that he never realizes that his motives are all too clear make this scenario all too plausible in the future.
He's one of those guys who seems intelligent enough but consistently misgauges the ability of others to see right through him. His behavior is typical of the socially awkward type that treats social interaction as a way of achieving goals. Unfortunately for him, these types are prone to believe that extreme behavior is conducive to achieving these ends. It's the makings of an attention-starved tool.
Pensive, since you seem familiar with the application of Occam's Razor, you tell me what's more plausible, a tool being labeled sketchy for his awkward and uncomfortable advances, or a dorky guy being mass stalked by several girls and then ruined in a several-year-long, elaborate, "bizarre," and deliberate conspiracy of gossip and malice.
That's why nobody believes you. HTH. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 4:12 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed I realize that what happened to me is bizarre and highly improbable.
It's not that unrealistic to believe that, after a guy rejects a girl rather tactlessly, five or ten of her friends gang up on him to get back at him, maybe spreading a rumor or playing a prank on him. We're talking about catty college freshmen, after all. What's amazing and bizarre is that they kept doing the shit for 2 fucking years, making my college experience miserable. That's what happens when one runs afoul of sick, persistent people.
I found out that one's uncle was arrested for child pornography. Several in that social group had been paid off by him to assist in the biz; though they weren't proven to have done anything illegal, they had their hands dirty. When I found this out, I used it as blackmail leverage, and that's why they stalked me for only 2 years instead of 4. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:25 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed No, you're not. Joe Caltech is a tool with an axe to grind, and you shouldn't pay him any attention.
There is something wrong with a TA asking out, having a relationship with, or sleeping with, one of his students. Other than that, there's nothing objectionable about it except among dumb people who are going nowhere in their careers and try to shoot down others with pointless gossip.
Practical concerns are at hand: the undergraduate and graduate lifestyles are very different, and this might make relationships difficult, but it certainly doesn't make them wrong. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:26 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Now, what is that axe I might have to grind? I'm at a loss, really, to see how you might think I have any personal interest in this at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766944) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:37 PM Author: cocky preventive strike scourge upon the earth Ladies and gentlemen, one of the future academic leaders of America! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2769170) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:56 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Or (thank goodness) not, most likely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2769451) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:21 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed Yeah, you'll go places. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2769675) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:27 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma On my way. You? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2769745) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:37 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed PhD in math > Masters in engineering, in prestige. I know people who would pwn at LS admissions, who are happy just to place in a top-25 math department.
Wrote a card game with approximately 2000-3000 players worldwide, on a $0 promotion budget; considered by hard-core card game buffs to be a serious contender for "next Bridge" status in the 21st century. (Let's see you pull this off.)
Have won national writing competitions (including a National Gold Award in Scholastic Writing, which was judged by professional comedy-writers and humorists) and various publications.
Two top-100 Putnam finishes, as you know. Won Goldwater Scholarship, 2004.
Turned down high five-figure consulting opportunities (with excellent income trajectory) for graduate school.
HTH |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:38 PM Author: mahogany church building Caltech > Carleton
Rhodes Scholar > You
HTH |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:41 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed I chose to go to Carleton, when I had a 60% or better shot at any school in the country. At the time, I thought the rural LAC environment was best for me, and that's what I pursued. I certainly will not argue that CalTech isn't more selective than Carleton. Why does this matter? So the worst kid who got into Joe's school is smarter/more able than the worst kid who got into my school... but seeing as I'm not that worst kid let-in (and to be fair, Joe certainly isn't either) the comparison is useless.
As for the Rhodes Scholarship, I don't care. I honestly don't, and while I otherwise might be impressed, in this case I'm not. I never applied. The Rhodes Scholarship requires team sport membership, which I didn't have. If someone I liked got an RS, I would certainly congratulate him, but I'm not going to worship some otherwise toolish guy because he got an RS.
Joe is turning into 174, without the redeeming qualities. Moreover, 174's forgivable because it's so obviously a schtick. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:18 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "The Rhodes Scholarship requires team sport membership, which I didn't have."
Uh, you know, neither did I. It doesn't require team sport membership--not sure where you got that idea. I was involved in marching band and occasionally played pickup basketball. I also like to ski. That's the extent of my athletic experience.
I think basically, you just can't be the guy leading the sedentary lifestyle. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:29 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed Huh, I guess I was wrong. I thought it required team sport membership (because of the teamwork element component of character) which is why I didn't apply.
I run, hike, and I'm learning golf, but those are all individual sports, and I'm also not very good (run about a 7'30 mile, total n00b at golf) at any of them.
In any case, I'd like to request a truce for our mutual benefit. If you don't make personal attacks on me, I won't make them on you (and I'll go back and redact some of my more pointed attacks). Despite your toolish behavior toward me, I've done some reflection and you have a lot to offer the board, and it would be useless for either of us to get a damaged reputation here. I don't get anything out of "beating" you at some silly stomping contest. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:35 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma "the teamwork element component of character"
All that really means is "plays well with others," or even better "leads others." They like evidence of leadership, etc. It doesn't necessarily have to come through sports at all.
"it would be useless for either of us to get a damaged reputation here."
My reputation is long-established from over 7 years of posting. I'm not too worried. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:58 AM Author: fantasy-prone fragrant temple coffee pot While your reputation is of course a good one, and I normally find you a clearly informative and reasonable poster, you haven't acquitted yourself very well in this little cat fight. I'm not going to say that pensive hasn't made a few petty comments in this ongoing dialogue you all have, but his original remarks were fairly harmless and were not at all a personal attack on you. For you to respond to them by insulting him and speculating about his character when you don't even know the guy is pretty low.
Maybe you should stick with dueling NYCFan, you always come off better in those exchanges.
Just giving an impartial perspective. HTH |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:01 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Yeah, I guess the problem is that I have outside knowledge of pensive. (Also there are a couple other threads--have you seen them?)
I take your comments seriously. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:03 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed From where is this "outside knowledge"? I don't believe you do. You might have outside speculation, or toothbrush's opinions of me, or even my own admission that I met some randomly-targeted, bizarre adversity at Carleton. None of which qualifies as special knowledge or makes your opinions any more valid than anyone else's. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770530) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:09 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma I'm not the type to reveal my sources. It's certainly not just toothbrush, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770547) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:09 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre hi@ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770550) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:11 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770560) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:12 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre im just a bit beosffen. whats up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770565) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:13 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Not too much--I have a paper I should be reading and I'm avoiding it. Bad thing because I'm supposed to explain how the system they used works to my prof tomorrow.
You? |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:38 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre i never thought ofyo uas a procrastnator. nice. it makes me like you more. maybe if i go to oxford for soem reason net year, we should meet uip. you and timothy smith are the posters i could see myself meeting, it hink. or maybe jane, she seems really cooll. [edit]: and scheisse _ adc and usea toothbrush.
im getting more sober, i have to pack to go home. i can't wait to go home,m my hair straightener arrived there today. yum yum. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:54 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Yes, we should definitely meet up if you go to Oxford next year (or the year after, too--I'll be there for two years).
I also plan to travel all over Europe during the break periods.
I'm one of the biggest procrastinators I know. How could I be on this board and not be? :-) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 7:22 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre im not sure if youre interested in soccer at all, but i'll be right around berlin around the world cup time. so if you venture down to that....we could meet then too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2772621) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 2:25 PM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Whether I am interested or not, I have a feeling half of Oxford will probably try to make that trip, so I might go along just for the experience!
I need to get one of those "England" jerseys anyway, if I go--I think they look sweet and it would make a good souvenir of my adopted home for two years.
The last soccer game I saw live was an Olympic semifinal in '96. Brazil beat Venezuala, I think. Good game, and the fans were CRAZY. I took that trip down to the Olympics with my dad. Man it was a good time. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:10 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed You're very talented at making shadowy people up. What have you heard? Pop it and I'll tell you the story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770555) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:12 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma Making shadowy people up?? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770564) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:13 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed "Sources". Bullshit. Anyone can say they have "sources" that another person is a shady character, or even make up colorful lies. It doesn't take much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770576) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:17 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma OK. And yet, I'm not lying. :-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770591) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:20 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed I have a large animal in my basement. I won't show him to you (he's invisible, and magical) and I certainly won't tell you how I got him, but he could eat you alive if I wanted him to. Beware!!!
Occam's Razor: You got nothing. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:24 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma But my statements fit in with your other conduct on this board. I think that's all the confirmation anyone needs.
I'd believe in your animal a lot more readily if you left out the magic and posted photos of his shit in your basement on the board. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:28 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed "[Your] statements" about "outside sources" are bogus. You might have one friend who knows me and doesn't like me: big deal. Consider how many trolls on the law board claim to have "outed" 174 or to know him in real life, and of course not one has ever given a convincing argument with evidence.
My "other conduct" shows that, yes, one of my personality flaws is that I don't turn down nearly as many fights as I should, and that I tend to get vicious once in one. I've known this about myself since I was 6, and have been working on it for several years. I'm sure you won't believe me, but I've been working to be less confrontational. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:29 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma In the other thread, you also basically blame Carleton and women in general for any "girl problems" you might have had.
From my perpective, that (which I was tipped off to initially by the very, very odd expectation that dating prospects would be better in a math graduate program than at a majority-female LAC) is a lot more strange than picking a fight. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:33 AM Author: dashing stage half-breed What happened at Carleton is that I was stalked for 2 years by multiple people, in concert. I don't want to hijack this thread and turn it into a discussion of that, but yes, that kind of adversity causes social difficulties, including in dating life.
In any case, I agree that I've done a lot of retroanalysis of the situation and assigned a lot of blame; some of it falls on myself, some on others. The blame game ends in June, and if I fuck up in Madison (I won't) then it'll be my fault. |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 1:15 PM Author: Aromatic gaped stain brethren 7:30 mile is awful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6217444) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:20 AM Author: Slate stirring macaca friendly grandma I'm not going to list my resume here. Google me if you care that much. You're right, you won't find me hyping any card games on it.
I will point out, though, that I already *have* the master's in engineering, while you have yet to even begin work towards that math PhD. And given that and the fact that I intend an academic career, where in the world would you get the idea that I'm stopping at the master's? |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 5:27 PM Author: White location pozpig haha, you're a supernerd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2775596) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:14 PM Author: Racy Flesh Crotch "In any case, vishna, it's not common, and the only times anyone knows about it are when there's a nasty scandal."
This is not true. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:55 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed On second thought, no, it's probably not true. In general, though, people keep pretty hush about professor/student romance. So when a large body of people knows about the relationship, it's normally a scandal case. In non-scandal cases, knowledge of the relationship is usually more contained. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770008) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:21 AM Author: titillating talking forum Pensive is slightly more prestigious than Joe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770210) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 4:52 PM Author: exciting theater stage Thou shalt eliminate the word "slightly" from thy statement and its veracity shalt not be questioned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2775351) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:38 PM Author: lascivious field Subject: what, people give in to their sexual impulses? Never happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766480) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:43 PM Author: Bearded Rough-skinned Area Chad Sarcasm? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766538) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 5:46 PM Author: lascivious field Subject: Sarcasm? Never from me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2766563) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:22 PM Author: Bearded Rough-skinned Area Chad You assume this has never ever occured? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768954) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:44 PM Author: supple aquamarine state the thread title is so appropriate for the discussion!!
but here is a memorable quote from ratemyprofessor.com about the chief advisor in my math dept:)
Not a very good prof. I didnt understand anything said or wrote so class time for me was competely useless. He was funny, and I loved the fact that he always wore his sunglasses inside, but his comments about inviting female students to his office for tea kind of freaked me out. |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:45 PM Author: dashing stage half-breed It would have been worse if he had invited her for "tearoom trade". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767131) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:45 PM Author: Deep yarmulke brunch it's not so much sweet as it is a Hersheys' bittersweet morsel. it's enticing enough at first, but it always leaves you wanting more than the crap that has just been deposited in your mouth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767134) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 6:54 PM Author: Maize People Who Are Hurt of coure, it's the reason men become profs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767213) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 7:07 PM Author: Racy Flesh Crotch One of my TAs was fucking the prof. The TA happened to be the ex-fiance of a friend of mine (I did not find this out until midway through the semester) and he showed me a bunch of printed out emails between the two of them (the prof and the TA, I mean - she hadn't changed her email password and he'd invade her privacy regularly). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767301) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 8:15 PM Author: massive greedy kitchen I was considering sleeping with the female professor of the class I'm most worried about in order to get an A. She's not bad looking and she always looks at me. I should have given it a shot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2767937) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:23 PM Author: chartreuse swashbuckling karate Ever see the movie "Seven Beauties" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768970) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:05 PM Author: chartreuse swashbuckling karate Most profs just jerk off to the co-eds they don't actually date them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768762) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 10:14 PM Author: Lavender bawdyhouse oops n/m. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2768865) |
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Date: May 12th, 2005 11:41 PM Author: smoky bonkers senate double fault My mom used to work with a woman who met her husband when she was a student in his class. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2769914) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:33 AM Author: pearly self-absorbed theatre yeah, i knew a guuy last summer whose nparents met liek that, too. <3 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770316) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:33 AM Author: bat-shit-crazy shrine corn cake Feminists would say it's a violation of gender and status hierarchy. Old men are evil to exploit young women just barely out of their teens and unaware of their surroundings away from home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770327) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:35 AM Author: mahogany church building And men in the same situation would say "SCORE!"
It's a funny world we live in. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 8:56 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond Which "feminists" are you talking about, exactly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2777487) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 8:58 PM Author: mahogany church building The ones with hair armpits and mullets. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2777508) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:36 AM Author: mahogany church building John Nash did well with his student. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770345) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:36 AM Author: bat-shit-crazy shrine corn cake Too bad he was a schizo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770349) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 1:10 AM Author: massive greedy kitchen Probably mostly with male students. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2770552) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 10:34 AM Author: charcoal multi-colored liquid oxygen Blow Job
A professor at BU told one of his students that if she gave him a BJ she would get an A. He never gave her the A afterwords and I think she complained. He was the head of the department but he got demoted and this new professor took over. Now these two professors have a rivalry. And the new head uses the old heads name in class assignments as jokes, well it a very similar variation to the name.
Now the old head has to keep his door open at all times when he has office hours. |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 12:27 PM Author: massive greedy kitchen SMG, I'm sure. It.'s not called Sex Money Greed for nothing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2773376) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 2:35 PM Author: abnormal jew digit ratio Oh there is this really hot and intelligent half asian political science prof at my school who's the soccer coach too. Looks just like Keanu Reeves in Speed, but so much more intelligent. I would make sweet love to him if he wasn't 30. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2774183) |
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Date: May 13th, 2005 8:58 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond so what? how old are you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#2777514) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 2:18 PM Author: Scarlet Property Sweet Tailpipe They marry them too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6217761) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 4:41 PM Author: Crawly Marvelous Box Office Incel I know a bunch of TAs that slept w/ their students (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6218784) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 4:42 PM Author: cobalt wagecucks therapy prestigious (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6218794) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 4:43 PM Author: Crawly Marvelous Box Office Incel it takes a lot of skill to pull that off and not get in trouble (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6218803) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 4:48 PM Author: cobalt wagecucks therapy what kind of trouble could you get in?
i suppose the students aren't interested after the class is over. |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 5:05 PM Author: Crawly Marvelous Box Office Incel TA would get kicked out of school.
i know TAs that slept with their students before the semester was over.
a good friend of mine was looking through his TA evals. one of them had a comment saying "i want to fuck his brains out." he recognized the handwriting and called her the next day. she was a 9.rweq |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 6:57 PM Author: charcoal multi-colored liquid oxygen i actually know of a professor in an ivy league school, upenn, who is currently going out with one of his previous students. i dont know if they were dating when she was a student of his. but i assume so since she is so young and theyve been dating for over 2 years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6219630) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 8:28 PM Author: motley black travel guidebook There is a rising senior at Princeton in the Classics Department who has been known to sleep with a married professor. It is extremely dicey for a TA to do such a thing though because I'm sure they would have to forfeit grants and position if exposed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6220257) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 8:31 PM Author: pontificating giraffe generalized bond I do not remember making this thread at all... or most of my vishna shtick (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6220269) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 8:49 PM Author: sepia mentally impaired stage codepig open up a bulletin. it has a note in it regarding this topic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=180638&forum_id=1#6220391) |
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Date: July 15th, 2006 8:54 PM Author: sepia mentally impaired stage codepig There's an official policy:
http://www.college.columbia.edu/bulletin/universitypolicies.php
Scroll down to: "Romantic Relationship Advisory Statement" |