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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
supple drab selfie boistinker
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
alcoholic abode rigor
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
ivory pocket flask principal's office
  06/28/25
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umber heaven
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
thirsty giraffe
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
beta background story
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
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  06/28/25
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Disgusting Chrome Psychic
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
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  06/28/25
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Hyperactive stain depressive
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Scarlet Trust Fund Stead
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
umber heaven
  06/28/25
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Avocado Hot Parlour Fanboi
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
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  06/28/25
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shimmering electric keepsake machete rigpig
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orange charismatic gaming laptop messiness
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
alcoholic abode rigor
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
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  06/28/25
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Disgusting Chrome Psychic
  06/28/25
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orange charismatic gaming laptop messiness
  06/28/25
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  06/28/25
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  06/28/25
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  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Copper Tanning Salon
  06/28/25
nobody cares
Disgusting Chrome Psychic
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
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  06/28/25
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Hyperactive stain depressive
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
Underhanded twisted toaster bbw
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Trip Theater Stage Gay Wizard
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
vivacious dun forum sneaky criminal
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
shimmering electric keepsake machete rigpig
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Copper Tanning Salon
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Hyperactive stain depressive
  06/28/25
a jew
Copper Tanning Salon
  06/28/25
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Disgusting Chrome Psychic
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
floppy drunken space
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: supple drab selfie boistinker

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: alcoholic abode rigor

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: ivory pocket flask principal's office

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: umber heaven



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: thirsty giraffe

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: beta background story

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Sapphire aromatic faggotry whorehouse

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Disgusting Chrome Psychic



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: chest-beating appetizing menage

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Hyperactive stain depressive



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Scarlet Trust Fund Stead

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: umber heaven

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: Avocado Hot Parlour Fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Copper Tanning Salon

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone wagecucks



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: shimmering electric keepsake machete rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: orange charismatic gaming laptop messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: alcoholic abode rigor

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: nighttime aquamarine ticket booth partner

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Disgusting Chrome Psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: orange charismatic gaming laptop messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: nighttime aquamarine ticket booth partner

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Irate Lay Factory Reset Button



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: big deer antler idea he suggested

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Copper Tanning Salon

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: Disgusting Chrome Psychic

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Trip Theater Stage Gay Wizard

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Hyperactive stain depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: Underhanded twisted toaster bbw

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Trip Theater Stage Gay Wizard

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: vivacious dun forum sneaky criminal

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: shimmering electric keepsake machete rigpig

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Copper Tanning Salon

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Hyperactive stain depressive

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Copper Tanning Salon

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: Disgusting Chrome Psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: floppy drunken space

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056402)