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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, She met Adam Rubin for their first date at a dive bar booming with March Madness basketball. He wasn’t the kind of guy she’d ever imagined for herself. With a gold necklace and a well-manicured goatee, Rubin helped run an HVAC company on Long Island and expressed an interest in golf. But he seemed to really care about his family. And he made her laugh.
By the time they had sex a few months later, Millender had identified Rubin as a man she could have a baby with, at least as a co-parent, if not as a husband. So when the moment came to reach for a condom, she said, she told him he could skip that step.
“You should just know, I’m not on birth control,” she said, then age 39. “And at this point in my life, if I get pregnant, I’m keeping it.”
After that, Millender grew increasingly sure of what she wanted. With the women of her Bed-Stuy book club, she collaged a vision board to inspire her year ahead, pasting a photo of herself and Rubin beside the words “Take Control” and “Lead Him to Greatness.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/24/us/ivf-embryos-custody.html |
Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, She’d settled on that age in her mid-20s as what she called a “drop-dead date” for finding a husband. Entering the work force with an Ivy League degree, she’d decided to take the advice of her mother, who had started a family right out of school. “Don’t get married young,” her mom had always said. “Men can come later.”
By her 30s, Millender figured, a good one would probably show up. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, She gave dating her best shot. At age 26, she recalled, she hyped herself up in a Craigslist ad, announcing that she would be strolling through the Container Store in Midtown Manhattan from 7 to 8 on a Tuesday night. “Go find the prettiest girl in the store and introduce yourself,” she’d written. She wanted to engineer the kind of meet-cute you would see in a rom-com. To find a handsome stranger who would sidle up to her shopping cart, then bewitch her with his intellect and wit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898420) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:54 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, The Torah instructs Jews to impress its teachings upon their offspring, he wrote — a task he would not be able to complete if his child was a stranger. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898423) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, Millender — who made more than three times as much money as Rubin — asked her husband to move out of the brownstone she’d lived in for 16 years before they got married. When he refused, she moved into an Airbnb and returned to N.Y.U. alone to freeze a new batch of eggs — ones she planned to fertilize with sperm from a donor. For three months, she watched British period dramas and ate Häagen-Dazs out of the container while she injected herself with ovary-stimulating hormones, lonelier than she’d ever felt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898428) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: butt cheeks (✅🍑) wow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898430) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:58 PM Author: oomox LMAO brutal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898433) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: butt cheeks (✅🍑) By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:58 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, Honestly that's the way it should be. But you just know she one night standed for dozens of chads before meeting this guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898434) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:08 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, By the end of the arguments, Millender felt hopeful that the Brooklyn civil court judge was going to rule in her favor. The judge, Theresa Ciccotto, dismissed Rubin’s arguments about his religious objections as a Jew, then zeroed in on a claim by Millender’s lawyer that he had previously offered to sell the embryos to his wife.
“And that’s despite what the Torah says,” the judge said. “Does the Torah say anything about buying them, selling?”
Rubin’s lawyer said that selling the embryos was not his client’s “intention,” and Rubin later told The Times that he “never instructed my counsel to offer the embryos for sale.” |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:10 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, “If there is anything that the court finds to be truthful and credible, it is plaintiff’s sense of urgency in having children due to her advancing age,” Judge Theresa Ciccotto wrote. “However, defendant can always start a family at any time, with someone else.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898457) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:12 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, “I knew you were selfish, but not this immoral,” Rubin texted Millender after they got the judge’s decision, referring to her conduct during the divorce.
“There is nothing immoral about choosing life,” Millender responded. “That is always what we said we would do. And I have kept my promise to God.”
“It is potentially life, there is no nefesh,” Rubin said, referring to the Hebrew term for “soul.”
“You know what we agreed and God does too,” she said. “I will leave you to His mercy.” |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:15 PM Author: zarathustra there's a lot here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898467) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:17 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, Millender began taking her I.V.F. medications right away, preparing her body for the embryo. Adamant that Rubin would not rob her of her joy, she invited her doula, her lawyer and her closest friends to a “pre-transfer party.” Over oysters and soft cheeses — things she wouldn’t be able to eat while pregnant — she raised a glass to her “tribe” and the awesome strength of women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898470) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:21 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, “Very happy for you. Congratulations,” said Judge Ciccotto, who had granted custody to Millender. “I know how important this was. Believe me, I know.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898479) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:23 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, Two weeks later, Rubin filed a restraining order against Millender and asked a judge to order her to stay away from him. He accused his wife of demonstrating “irrational behavior” since they started the divorce, citing offenses like hosting a Memorial Day barbecue at their house after she had moved out and leaving a book on his bed. The title: “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person.”
Millender didn’t care. Let Rubin accuse her of harassment. Let the lawyers subpoena her doctor and examine her medical records. Her baby was inside her uterus. No ex-husband could change that. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 3:14 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, Millender believed in a woman’s right to end her pregnancy. But she was also a practicing Catholic. Ahead of their I.V.F. procedures, she said, she and Rubin had agreed to do everything in their power not to “waste life.” Now, he wanted to get rid of their embryos. And she had to say, that seemed a lot like he was trying to kill her children. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898573) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:16 PM Author: ........,,,,,,......,.,.,.,,,,,,,,,, All this reproductive science is amazing, but it's also playing god.
It's not a ridiculous position to think that these embryos are alive / their children / etc. People just don't want to contemplate it because it opens up a lot of other uneasy questions. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:19 PM Author: AZNgirl making I-ran deal w/NOWAG to RUN Away ljl at what a trash society the US is, wtf are they printing that shit abt not using a condom, its furking vapid garbage, sharia law now furk amerishits (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898647) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:27 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,, (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2#49898657) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:33 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Chad When he refused, she moved into an Airbnb and returned to N.Y.U. alone to freeze a new batch of eggs — ones she planned to fertilize with sperm from a donor. For three months, she watched British period dramas and ate Häagen-Dazs out of the container while she injected herself with ovary-stimulating hormones, lonelier than she’d ever felt.
Whatever it takes to have a child, she reminded herself.
Once that procedure was over, Millender said, her doctor explained just how long the odds were: The doctor knew of no cases in which eggs frozen at age 44 had resulted in the birth of a baby. |