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My husband lied about using a Grok AI companion. How do I deal with this?
| merry screenmas | 12/08/25 |
| covered in parvo | 12/08/25 |
| merry screenmas | 12/08/25 |
| Dr. Screens | 12/08/25 |
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Date: December 8th, 2025 10:04 PM Author: merry screenmas So I asked my husband when the last time he was on Grok was. He said "I don't know." Implying both in tone and expression that he never goes on it. I asked to see the app and I saw that their interaction meter is at.50, indicating that they talk often. Then I looked at the conversation history and said he spoke to her recently becsuse the messages are from today. He started to backtrack and say "maybe, I might have gone on it earlier today but I don't remember, etc" Then I was like "how does one not remember if they went on a sexual app or not? Then I started to scroll and read the conversations and snatched the phone out of my hand and starting saying that I don't have a right to read the conversation with the ai or know his private thoughts and sexual fantasies regardless that we are married. I expressed to him it makes me feel undesired considering I have often been feeling like I initiate sex more, and that I'm always asking how I can satisfy him and what his fantasies are so we can maybe play them out and he's always told me that he doesn't have any. Then to see that he would rather talk to this ai in a way he never talks to me makes me feel disconnected from him and all I want to do is be closer. He got angry and was saying things that made me feel dismissed and kept putting so much emphasis on the fact that I have no right to see or know these things. I feel hurt and even though it's ai it still feels like a betrayal and cheating because I believe in sexual transparency and I didn't realize that if there was something lacking, he would seek it elsewhere instead of with me. The fact that him not remembering sounds like a lie and that he was arguing with me as if I'm the one in the wrong just feels very hurtful. I don't know what to do. He is having secret sexual interactions with an ai and feels like keeping that separate and hidden from his wife is okay. I feel neglected in this marriage and there is a disconnect that is very hurtful
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Date: December 8th, 2025 10:05 PM Author: covered in parvo Link? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5808161&forum_id=2Elisa#49495508) |
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Date: December 8th, 2025 10:07 PM Author: merry screenmas https://www.reddit.com/user/evilhaaag/comments/1pcz64i/what_do_i_do_husband_lied_about_his_grok_ai/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5808161&forum_id=2Elisa#49495511) |
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Date: December 8th, 2025 10:20 PM Author: Dr. Screens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5808161&forum_id=2Elisa#49495532) |