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How to overcome mental hurdles re fitness/eating right

Jesus. I need to get over my self-destructive actions. Const...
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
Honestly, no one gives a fuck how you feel at the end of the...
Albert Clifford "A.C." Slater  06/10/12
how often do u work out? i used to have motivation but knowi...
....................,.......,....  06/10/12
"200 lbs and ugly" are you talking about like 5...
Box Is Fucking Dead  06/10/12
5'3"/200 lbs. sounds like right around where things sta...
Louis Posteur  06/10/12
looks matter a lot in obtaining confidence/compatibility. gi...
,,,...,,......,,....  06/10/12
Working out is secondary. Focus on eating well first. Big...
Louis Posteur  06/10/12
my mentality is all fucked up. my wife has been out of to...
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
You get over that. You just have to gut it out for a while, ...
Louis Posteur  06/10/12
ya man im the same way now that im married. when i was singl...
,,,...,,......,,....  06/10/12
It's hard to set a reset button when you have the same routi...
squash soup  06/10/12
huh?
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
go rent a kayak for the day or something
squash soup  06/10/12
This is cr as fuck.
fatd00d (265bs)  06/10/12
Just learn to hate your body, bro.
SLIDE AND LET DO+  06/10/12
i hear ya... just buy a gym membership, and make it part of ...
Walker, Texas Ranger  06/10/12
before work is tcr.
..,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,,,...,.,.,.  06/10/12
before work is the ultimate lifestyle, but it takes good dis...
,,,...,,......,,....  06/10/12
if you overeat just do structured eating for a while that ha...
MarlboroReds  06/10/12
You gotta start cooking. Buy healthy ingredients and cook.
Talib Kweli  06/10/12
I do..for a day or two. And then I inevitably go back to the...
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
cr
.,.,,..,..,.,.,:,,:,...,::,...,:,.,.:....:.,:.::,.  06/10/12
Use the myfitnesspal app.
fatd00d (265bs)  06/10/12
even better is to just eat meat and veggies and drink coffee...
.,,..,..,.,..:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.,:,  06/11/12
think of TEH SEX you could have if only you didn't have thos...
Scholarly Gasp!  06/10/12
it doesnt motivate me when i can "sex" 10's all da...
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
then quit porn too while you're at it
Talib Kweli  06/10/12
thats a monumental undertaking. porn has been a regular part...
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/10/12
porn doesnt compare w/ new pussy, man
,,,...,,......,,....  06/10/12
just do brazilian jim jitsu bro
....,,,......,,.,..,.,.,....,,,  06/10/12
you sound like a chill, low-T bro.
Crossfit bro stylin on partner in moment of hubris  06/10/12
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.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/11/12
keep yourself busy all day. if you have down time, fill it w...
nudedood  06/11/12
i get so distracted. i lose mental focus so quickly
.,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,  06/11/12
get up and take whatever caffeine or whatever you need to ta...
and when i started to squeeze the bar brother  06/11/12
stop being such a little bitch. you are addicted to shit foo...
Old Rough 'n Ready  06/11/12
tbf they only kick it for 8 hours and then go right back and...
and when i started to squeeze the bar brother  06/11/12
Just work out at home for 10 mins a day. Do bodyweight exerc...
" " " "  06/11/12
Just do Tim Ferriss' Slow-Carb diet, bro. I was almost co...
Flock of WOC  06/11/12


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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:33 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

Jesus. I need to get over my self-destructive actions. Constantly eating like shit and not working out is fucking killing me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862868)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:34 PM
Author: Albert Clifford "A.C." Slater

Honestly, no one gives a fuck how you feel at the end of the day. They do give a fuck about how you look. Remember that when your "mental hurdles" kick in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862875)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:36 PM
Author: ....................,.......,....

how often do u work out? i used to have motivation but knowing i'm an objective 8 and not getting any ass anyway is making me hate myself even more. It's like even if i were 200 lbs and ugly, i would still be equally unlikeable and virginistic anyway. Looks don't matter as much as confidence/compatibility does, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862881)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:41 PM
Author: Box Is Fucking Dead (hedgehog owner)

"200 lbs and ugly"

are you talking about like 5'3 doods man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862912)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:45 PM
Author: Louis Posteur

5'3"/200 lbs. sounds like right around where things start getting interesting for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862928)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 10:57 PM
Author: ,,,...,,......,,....

looks matter a lot in obtaining confidence/compatibility. girls just react much better to u when u say hi when ur in an shape bro, which makes it much easier to hit it off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864495)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:44 PM
Author: Louis Posteur

Working out is secondary. Focus on eating well first.

Biggest mistake is thinking you have to lead this punishing all-out lifestyle just to be healthy. Find foods that are legit healthy (not stupid bullshit like sugary yogurt cups with fruit on the bottom - whole foods, not processed, high protein, low cal, healthy fat, low sugar/carb, etc) and learn which ones you can incorporate into your diet on the reg. Learn to cook lean healthy protein and make that your staple at every meal.

Instead of worrying about working out, just do active shit you enjoy. The trick with all this is finding stuff you enjoy and can sustain over the long run, not something you can force yourself to do for three months where you're on a paranoid and neurotic fitness kick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20862925)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:56 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

my mentality is all fucked up.

my wife has been out of town for the past week. on thurs, i had a big burger and fries. on fri, i had thai food for dinner. on sat, i had indian food. on sunday, i had another burger and few scoops of ice cream.

when im alone - and even when im w the wife - my mind associates good/desirable meals with crap foods such as chick fil a, burgers, pizza, etc. i never *naturally* crave something healthy and low-fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863011)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 7:59 PM
Author: Louis Posteur

You get over that. You just have to gut it out for a while, then the shit food cravings go away and it's easy. You just have to grow some balls for a while.

Also, you can eat shit foods from time to time and be healthy. Feeling like you NEED a burger and ice cream every time you're hungry is the equal of drinking a case of beer every time you feel like having a drink. You are basically acting like a chick when you convince yourself that every meal needs to be some kind of opulent indulgence. Food is fuel - 75% of your meals should just be filling up with healthy food, not some kind of dopamine rollercoaster of carbs and salt and fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863030)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 10:59 PM
Author: ,,,...,,......,,....

ya man im the same way now that im married. when i was single it was much easier cuz i was constantly hitting on girls and shit. that was a strong motivator for avoiding unhealthy food.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864516)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:03 PM
Author: squash soup (Le Tigre)

It's hard to set a reset button when you have the same routine everyday.

Do something crazy this weekend. I find that when there's a sudden change in lifestyle, it's easy to make other changes to go along with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863059)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:20 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863170)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:21 PM
Author: squash soup (Le Tigre)

go rent a kayak for the day or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863178)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:50 PM
Author: fatd00d (265bs)

This is cr as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863430)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:20 PM
Author: SLIDE AND LET DO+

Just learn to hate your body, bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863173)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:22 PM
Author: Walker, Texas Ranger

i hear ya... just buy a gym membership, and make it part of your routine after work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863184)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:49 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,,,...,.,.,.

before work is tcr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863424)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 11:01 PM
Author: ,,,...,,......,,....

before work is the ultimate lifestyle, but it takes good discipline for a few weeks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864532)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:23 PM
Author: MarlboroReds

if you overeat just do structured eating for a while that has a calorie deficit, for like say one workweek, then increase your caloric intake a bit, and add in some cardio (you should be active at least 30 minutes a day, but really an hour)

one thing i found huge when i was dieting is, after you eat, before going for seconds or finding an after meal snack, wait 30 minutes, and you'll notice u feel fuller

cut things that add calories to your diet like soda (at the very least replace with diet, but really you should try to drink more water) that don't really satisfy your hunger but add weight.

don't try to do too much at once, you'll quickly burn out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863194)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:43 PM
Author: Talib Kweli

You gotta start cooking. Buy healthy ingredients and cook.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863371)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:44 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

I do..for a day or two. And then I inevitably go back to the unhealthy shit.

I must admit that when i do, i get on a green smoothie diet. - nothing but green smoothies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863388)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 9:10 PM
Author: .,.,,..,..,.,.,:,,:,...,::,...,:,.,.:....:.,:.::,.

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863598)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:48 PM
Author: fatd00d (265bs)

Use the myfitnesspal app.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863414)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:54 PM
Author: .,,..,..,.,..:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.,:,

even better is to just eat meat and veggies and drink coffee / unsweetened tea. eat nothing else but eat as much as you like. have one cheat day where you gorge out on junk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866894)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 8:53 PM
Author: Scholarly Gasp!

think of TEH SEX you could have if only you didn't have those nasty love handles and bubble gut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863452)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 9:09 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

it doesnt motivate me when i can "sex" 10's all day long at fapdu.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863587)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 9:13 PM
Author: Talib Kweli

then quit porn too while you're at it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863626)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 9:25 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

thats a monumental undertaking. porn has been a regular part of my life for the last 15 years. nothing else has had more of a daily presence in my life except for eating and sleeping.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20863774)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 11:02 PM
Author: ,,,...,,......,,....

porn doesnt compare w/ new pussy, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864542)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 11:17 PM
Author: ....,,,......,,.,..,.,.,....,,,

just do brazilian jim jitsu bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864661)



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Date: June 10th, 2012 11:30 PM
Author: Crossfit bro stylin on partner in moment of hubris

you sound like a chill, low-T bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20864838)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:04 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866644)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:06 PM
Author: nudedood

keep yourself busy all day. if you have down time, fill it with a physical activity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866656)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:08 PM
Author: .,,.,.,.,,,,,.......,.,,

i get so distracted. i lose mental focus so quickly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866665)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:46 PM
Author: and when i started to squeeze the bar brother (service guarantees citizenship)

get up and take whatever caffeine or whatever you need to take, throw a little yogurt or fruit in your stomach to shut it up and get out the door. drink a lot of water, carbonated if the bubbles make you feel more full. you can have a "normal" lunch if you're a lunch person, have a piece of fruit, vegetables, whatever. if you're going to eat bread sparingly now is the time to do it, two normal slices with a sandwich with plenty of meat. lean meat is that good shit.

get those bags of baby carrots at the store and just eat those during the day if you're hungry. they take a while to digest and will make you full as fuck.

for dinner do something centered around meat sans carbs. lots of decent dinner vegetables. You can make a soup with water, no broth, that is full of a shit ton of vegetables and eat as much of it as you want and you'll feel full as fuck. don't eat before bed and don't stay up so fucking late that you get hungry again. drink a shitton of water all day.

really just avoid eating shit. if you had crackers or something during the day before, eat carrots. if you ate a lot of pasta, rice, etc. dinners, switch it to meat + vegetables. you won't really notice the difference after a week and if you go back to eating shit food it probably won't have the same WOW I NEED THIS FAT+GREASE+SALT factor right away again. give up drinking if you're strong enough, it's a major calorie drain. this is the hardest for me but if you go for stretches with no booze you really notice it.

gl bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866847)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:51 PM
Author: Old Rough 'n Ready

stop being such a little bitch. you are addicted to shit food because you're a self-indulgent pussy. all you have is a fucking "mental block." that's nothing. retard niggers on the street manage to kick heroin and drag themselves to hellish jobs every day to scrape by. you are actually complaining that you can't stop wolfing down cheeseburgers? you should probably just kill yourself for being such a pathetic stain on humanity. this is what it has come to - some fat, whiny piece of shit who can't stop cramming burger king in his face whenever his tum-tum feels a little hungry. you = the apex of modern faggotry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866882)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:55 PM
Author: and when i started to squeeze the bar brother (service guarantees citizenship)

tbf they only kick it for 8 hours and then go right back and shoot up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866898)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 12:57 PM
Author: " " " "

Just work out at home for 10 mins a day. Do bodyweight exercises. You'll feel fitter and more motivated in no time.

Being able to work out wo going to the gym helps a lot at first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866910)



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Date: June 11th, 2012 1:04 PM
Author: Flock of WOC

Just do Tim Ferriss' Slow-Carb diet, bro.

I was almost concerned by how much weight was coming off.

Never exercised. Never felt overly hungry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1967950&forum_id=2#20866964)