Accepted offer, but want to now accept a different one
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Date: June 16th, 2012 8:34 AM Author: ...........;;;';';;.
I got an offer about a week ago at Firm A. Firm A is still doing background check/conflicts check, etc., and no official start date is set.
Meanwhile, before and since this offer, I was interviewing at other firms. I got another offer for about 30K more that I want to take.
How bad is it to back out of Firm A and tell them I found something better?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20897131) |
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Date: June 16th, 2012 10:33 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,...,:::,.;..,:,.,.:,.:.,:.::,
this is credited
they will forget your name halfway through the phonecall in which you retract your acceptance
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20897302) |
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Date: June 17th, 2012 4:08 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
Yep. The world where employers and employees have obligations based on professionalism is long dead.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20904158) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 9:55 AM Author: .,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,....,,,,,....,.,.,.,.,.,
how is this even a question? lol
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20897200) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 10:27 AM Author: ..,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,,,.,..,,.,.,,,
Take the second offer. It's just fucking business. As the poaster above indicated, Firm A would buttfuck you in a heartbeat if it worked to their advantage.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20897295) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 10:29 AM Author: .,..,..,...,...,....,;;::::..,,,,,
Why don't you just refer to your employment contract? Don't have one? That's because the initial firm wants to be able to shitcan you whenever they want.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20897298) |
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Date: June 17th, 2012 4:11 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20904168) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 4:33 PM Author: ...........;;;';';;.
Thanks for the advice in this thread. I think the environment may be slightly better in Firm A but I'm not sure about that anyway and at this point in my life the money is more important.
Bonus structure in Firm B could make it more like a 50K or more difference.
I'm about 90% sure I'll be calling Firm A Monday morning to turn it down. Firm B's offer is official, they already did the checks they are going to do.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20898650)
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Date: June 16th, 2012 9:17 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,,,..,.,...,.,.,,..,.,.,.,,.,...,.,.,.,,,,
ive accepted 2 offer and have been sitting on both for months. i know where ill go, but i dont weant to back out until im 100% sure its a go - e.g. no dewey - like calapse.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20900107) |
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Date: June 16th, 2012 9:28 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,,,..,.,...,.,.,,..,.,.,.,,.,...,.,.,.,,,,
thanks.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20900212) |
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Date: June 16th, 2012 9:24 PM Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,
us youngs gotta start looking out for ourselves breh. 180
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20900171) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 10:54 PM Author: .....,.,,,,,....,,,.,.,
Just show up 4 days a week at firm B and 3 days at firm A for a few months. Tell them you're having medical troubles but are making the work up from home/anticipate getting better soon. The weekend time will solidify your ruse. By the time you get canned at A you'll have copped $$$ for little additional work. Then segue back into fulltime at Firm B. Profit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20900859) |
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Date: June 17th, 2012 4:10 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20904167) |

Date: June 16th, 2012 11:04 PM Author: .;.;.;....;,.,,,,.,;..,;...,;,.,;,.,;
A man's word is his bond. You should stick with what you said you would.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20900928) |
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Date: June 17th, 2012 7:50 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,..,.,;,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.
yfwgi
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20902547) |

Date: June 17th, 2012 8:44 AM Author: .,.,,..,,,..,,.,.,,..,,,..,,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,,.,,.,.
this is why you all are poor.
tell Firm A that you got a better offer. ask them to BEAT the offer (or match it), or you'll go to the other firm. make it a bidding war.
(you all are retarded. that has to be repeated.)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20902575) |

Date: June 17th, 2012 12:24 PM Author: illtown
I guess it is implied you actually accepted Firm A's offer? If so, there are ways to go about backing out, but you don't do it with a phone call. It is a bit delicate, and you don't want to piss people off, seriously.
I would talk to someone IRL -professor, career services, etc about it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20903002) |

Date: June 17th, 2012 12:57 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,,,..,.,...,.,.,,..,.,.,.,,.,...,.,.,.,,,,
they made a bisuness decision in offering you what they did. they certainly know their offer was low. you should take firm b and tell firm a another firm offered 30k more. this is how theyll learn
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20903141) |
Date: June 17th, 2012 4:10 PM Author: ,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.................
tell them the truth, that you got a much better offer. law firms are evil cogs in a rotting machine. you owe them nothing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1971928&forum_id=2#20904165) |
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