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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
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If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Fantasy-prone macaca depressive
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Floppy ocher ceo
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I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
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your feet were too small
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
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the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
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wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
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LOL
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lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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I understand
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No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye
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darnell is such a good listener too!
Fantasy-prone macaca depressive
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Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye
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wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Fantasy-prone macaca depressive
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I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
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It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
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HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
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Very cr friend
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I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Floppy ocher ceo



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Turquoise locale voyeur



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Flatulent peach degenerate



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Floppy ocher ceo

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Floppy ocher ceo

Ur breath stank

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

your feet were too small

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Aromatic crawly stain bbw

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: jet-lagged cowardly shrine international law enforcement agency

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: heady ultramarine house therapy

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Blathering Volcanic Crater



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Orchestra Pit Goal In Life

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Iridescent school athletic conference



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy aphrodisiac area

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone macaca depressive

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: adulterous translucent cruise ship

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Lascivious filthy church

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Aromatic crawly stain bbw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: glittery brass dilemma

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Base Round Eye

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: glittery brass dilemma

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Aromatic crawly stain bbw

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Wonderful Elite Incel



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: lavender judgmental set



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Bespoke pungent lodge

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Aromatic crawly stain bbw



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: saffron hairraiser nibblets



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Floppy ocher ceo



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