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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
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If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
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sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
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Eat shit and die
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I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
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your feet were too small
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
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the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
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wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
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LOL
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lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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I understand
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No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
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darnell is such a good listener too!
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Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
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wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
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I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
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It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
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HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
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I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: cerise goal in life site



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: supple hyperactive becky



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: carmine haunting french chef address



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: cerise goal in life site

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: cerise goal in life site

Ur breath stank

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: frum ape

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Glittery mint nibblets senate

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: balding alcoholic shrine

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: chrome factory reset button



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Godawful Property

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Swashbuckling overrated electric furnace organic girlfriend



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: nighttime cowardly coffee pot

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Contagious Gaming Laptop

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Curious base

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Jet effete abode ladyboy

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: frum ape

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: startling laughsome ceo business firm

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: multi-colored sienna spot pocket flask

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: startling laughsome ceo business firm

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: frum ape

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: soul-stirring pea-brained church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: aromatic elite famous landscape painting



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Mind-boggling kitchen

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: frum ape



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: talented hissy fit rigor



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: cerise goal in life site



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