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Women just want their feelings validated

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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
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If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
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sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
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I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
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the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
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wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
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LOL
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lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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I understand
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No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
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darnell is such a good listener too!
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  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
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wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
pearl passionate school boltzmann
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
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It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
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HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
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Very cr friend
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I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Appetizing dysfunction sex offender



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: plum den hominid



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: aqua goal in life



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Appetizing dysfunction sex offender

Eat shit and die

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Appetizing dysfunction sex offender

Ur breath stank

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

your feet were too small

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Jet talented senate corn cake

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: avocado supple abode



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vivacious Locale

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: stubborn community account rigor

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: hyperventilating fanboi heaven



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Bateful Lemon Alpha People Who Are Hurt

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: avocado supple abode



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Cyan Hall Ratface



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: chrome filthy ticket booth dopamine

Mods

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: pearl passionate school boltzmann

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Geriatric Idiotic Forum

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac jade university

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Jet talented senate corn cake

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: chartreuse flickering orchestra pit ladyboy

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: avocado supple abode

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: chartreuse flickering orchestra pit ladyboy

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Jet talented senate corn cake

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: exhilarant maize bbw



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: apoplectic mildly autistic nursing home quadroon



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Indecent Piazza

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Jet talented senate corn cake



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Histrionic dark trailer park



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Appetizing dysfunction sex offender



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