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POLL: which one of the 2 mindsets describes you
| lemon fat ankles | 02/24/17 |
| Floppy Gaped Native Gay Wizard | 02/24/17 |
| Stimulating juggernaut | 02/24/17 |
| Hideous Chad | 02/24/17 |
| Bespoke crimson lay | 02/24/17 |
| Impressive stage | 02/24/17 |
| lemon fat ankles | 02/24/17 |
| soul-stirring cruise ship stain | 02/24/17 |
| olive territorial set affirmative action | 02/28/17 |
| exhilarant crystalline parlour | 02/24/17 |
| Motley telephone | 02/24/17 |
| ruby angry center | 02/24/17 |
| salmon bearded church building prole | 02/24/17 |
| bisexual fortuitous meteor rehab | 02/24/17 |
| talented tan goal in life step-uncle's house | 02/25/17 |
| Trip School Kitty Cat | 02/25/17 |
| salmon bearded church building prole | 02/24/17 |
| Motley telephone | 02/24/17 |
| contagious bawdyhouse crotch | 02/24/17 |
| salmon bearded church building prole | 02/24/17 |
| gold stead | 02/28/17 |
| fuchsia irradiated theater stage pervert | 02/28/17 |
| fantasy-prone degenerate | 02/28/17 |
| fuchsia irradiated theater stage pervert | 02/28/17 |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:02 AM Author: lemon fat ankles http://m.imgur.com/eEiYvh5 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689696) |
Date: February 24th, 2017 7:05 AM Author: Floppy Gaped Native Gay Wizard retarded dichotomy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689697) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: Stimulating juggernaut In reality and speaking from experience, failure is a growth opportunity. Faggots. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689701) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: Hideous Chad Now explain chilmata. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689702) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:05 AM Author: Bespoke crimson lay Fixed mindset all the way. Look how great I turned out! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689826) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:19 AM Author: Impressive stage piC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689860) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:20 PM Author: lemon fat ankles Sad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693838) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:07 AM Author: soul-stirring cruise ship stain it's a pity that the growth mindset people have to mix their insistence on optimism about whether you can improve your skills with practice with an insistence that there is no such thing as innate ability whatsoever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689831) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 5:04 PM Author: olive territorial set affirmative action apparently the key to mental health is to delude yourself. CBT depression stuff is pretty much just do ignore reality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721097) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:25 AM Author: exhilarant crystalline parlour http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/05/31/17/34CC6BEF00000578-3618322-image-a-17_1464713483203.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689877) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: Motley telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695502) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:22 PM Author: ruby angry center Did you steal this from some HR lady's LinkedIn account? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693861) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 10:33 PM Author: salmon bearded church building prole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695115) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:25 PM Author: bisexual fortuitous meteor rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695480) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:21 AM Author: talented tan goal in life step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695687) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:28 AM Author: Trip School Kitty Cat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695712) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:27 PM Author: salmon bearded church building prole i diddnt see gorilla minndset in ur link fagt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695491) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: Motley telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695499) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:28 PM Author: contagious bawdyhouse crotch I'm a fixie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695495) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: salmon bearded church building prole i cant imagine anybdoy who poasts on xo is grwoth mindset (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695500) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:10 PM Author: gold stead Neither. Chad mindset. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32720767) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:23 PM Author: fuchsia irradiated theater stage pervert The 'failure is just a step to success' self-help schtick ignores psychology. Events can't neatly be categorized into 'success' and 'failure,' with the individual merely choosing how to interpret one or the other. The events that these self-help books call 'failures' may include serious psychological traumas, incarcerations, injuries resulting in limb amputation, etc. It's quite clear that these types of events aren't 'all a matter of mindset.' It's entirely possible for an event to be legitimately crippling, at least if your goal was really specific.
Further, even in more moderate cases, it's not always clear that one can re-interpret failure as a positive. It's possible, but it depends on your pre-existing drives, needs, constitution etc. These people who get stubbornly motivated by failure are usually a particularly hungry type, with a really strong lust for whatever they're after, or perhaps just a need for it.
I know the 'headspace' the self-help books are getting at. I've been in situations where I really wanted something hard-to-obtain when alone in a new city, and yeah, I was able to grind through all the funny reactions to eventually find it. But there have been other times when I've wanted something but certain sensitivities prevented me from pursuing it; in these cases the 'failures' or 'rejections' had an overwhelmingly demoralizing effect that ran deeper than mere matters of 'attitude' or 'perspective.' |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: fantasy-prone degenerate I don't think viewing failure as a positive is healthy in the long term. It leads to fetishizing SPS decisions and often obscures the credited course of action for people.
The best way to handle failure is to view it as a neutral outcome while maintaining a strong desire to succeed. |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: fuchsia irradiated theater stage pervert Yeah it can lead to a certain 'chill' kind of masochism, which interestingly enough is a good place to have someone if you want to take all their money with self help courses and the like. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721046) |