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EPAH, how is your ex-wife doing? What else is going on?

Regale us with tales of your life.
Passionate karate jew
  03/23/17
She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda w...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/23/17
nice. When will she get out? Any new big paydays on the h...
Passionate karate jew
  03/23/17
She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober l...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/23/17
How can you surf but you cant swim?
dashing bisexual resort
  03/23/17
life jacket?
Passionate karate jew
  03/23/17
seems awkward but i guess that could work
dashing bisexual resort
  03/23/17
Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/23/17
oh geez i really misread that!
dashing bisexual resort
  03/24/17
can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack o...
Contagious Bonkers Knife
  03/23/17
She may have just been doing it for pleasure
Frozen Crackhouse Philosopher-king
  03/23/17
...
sienna embarrassed to the bone deer antler
  03/23/17
Wait- do you not know how to swim?
razzle senate
  03/23/17
lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons
racy range genital piercing
  03/23/17
Why do you think he married a black woman?
Chrome Motley Toaster
  03/24/17
(rimshot)
Turquoise very tactful useless brakes mad-dog skullcap
  03/24/17
didn't LORD HALFORD save her?
histrionic kitty elastic band
  03/23/17
Yeah
Navy hyperactive stead national security agency
  03/23/17
TRULY a Saint.
histrionic kitty elastic band
  03/23/17
...
razzle senate
  03/24/17
Boondock saint
orchid double fault locus
  03/24/17
whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is ...
chest-beating tattoo
  03/23/17
Still on appeal but don't out me breh
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
godspeed, won't out you
chest-beating tattoo
  03/24/17
wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?
balding self-absorbed office
  03/24/17
I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my e...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
lol it was on the beach or something
balding self-absorbed office
  03/24/17
That's her. Big fakes?
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
yeah she had a rockin bod
balding self-absorbed office
  03/24/17
Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to pla...
abnormal stage affirmative action
  03/24/17
awwww id watch a gritty art house film based on your marria...
bright aromatic box office
  03/24/17
Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, ...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her m...
chestnut curious striped hyena
  03/24/17
A year or so I guess idk
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it ag...
Mind-boggling rehab
  03/24/17
Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out o...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom ...
Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal
  03/24/17
Y'all got a sister?
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
Haha sorry but nope. Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too...
Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal
  03/24/17
Calm down, dr phil
orchid double fault locus
  03/24/17
Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's li...
Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal
  03/24/17
Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increa...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
...
abnormal stage affirmative action
  03/24/17
are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts...
chestnut curious striped hyena
  03/24/17
They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there f...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't real...
chestnut curious striped hyena
  03/24/17
Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to s...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17
Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in...
Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal
  03/24/17
Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've...
vivacious quadroon
  03/24/17
Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if y...
Impertinent Puce Trailer Park
  03/24/17


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Date: March 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: Passionate karate jew

Regale us with tales of your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899279)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda wild b/c she's not exactly back to normal; like a wild animal that you catch and try to tame.

Nothing else exciting. Just coaching a lot of LL, going to swim lessons, stuff like that. Poasting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899347)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: Passionate karate jew

nice. When will she get out?

Any new big paydays on the horizon?

How is coaching LL? Did you play baseball in HS or college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899372)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:59 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober living environment" for six months or so while she becomes domesticated again.

I think if this class gets certified, we'll settle within a few months for millions and billions.

Love it. I have more fun than the kids do. Played 1B in high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900963)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:15 PM
Author: dashing bisexual resort

How can you surf but you cant swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899412)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: Passionate karate jew

life jacket?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899414)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: dashing bisexual resort

seems awkward but i guess that could work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899429)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900945)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:25 AM
Author: dashing bisexual resort

oh geez i really misread that!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905983)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:17 PM
Author: Contagious Bonkers Knife

can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack or did you give her enough spending money to cover all that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899420)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: Frozen Crackhouse Philosopher-king

She may have just been doing it for pleasure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899426)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: sienna embarrassed to the bone deer antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899452)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:21 PM
Author: razzle senate

Wait- do you not know how to swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899459)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: racy range genital piercing

lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899540)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:07 AM
Author: Chrome Motley Toaster

Why do you think he married a black woman?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:42 AM
Author: Turquoise very tactful useless brakes mad-dog skullcap

(rimshot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906127)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:08 PM
Author: histrionic kitty elastic band

didn't LORD HALFORD save her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901052)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: Navy hyperactive stead national security agency

Yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901181)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: histrionic kitty elastic band

TRULY a Saint.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901187)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:57 AM
Author: razzle senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905269)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: orchid double fault locus

Boondock saint

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906356)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:13 PM
Author: chest-beating tattoo

whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is on appeal or whatever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901083)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Still on appeal but don't out me breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903747)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:29 AM
Author: chest-beating tattoo

godspeed, won't out you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905044)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:11 AM
Author: balding self-absorbed office

wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903682)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my ex and future wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903743)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: balding self-absorbed office

lol it was on the beach or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903746)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:20 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

That's her. Big fakes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903759)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:52 PM
Author: balding self-absorbed office

yeah she had a rockin bod

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: abnormal stage affirmative action

Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to play house let her move back in, but you're a stupid mother fucker if you remarry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905275)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:43 AM
Author: bright aromatic box office

awwww

id watch a gritty art house film based on your marriage/life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906142)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:45 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, "man have I got a story for you Terry."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906154)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:27 AM
Author: chestnut curious striped hyena

how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her move back in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906017)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

A year or so I guess idk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906116)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:52 AM
Author: Mind-boggling rehab

that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it again. even if the odds are "only" 10%, the consequences are terrible for both you and the kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906212)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out on their own. Better than being motherless I think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906219)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:06 PM
Author: Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal

Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom who has no issues abandoning her kids.

You have to think about what sort of message you're sending to your kids by letting her move back in and remarrying her. There are consequences to her actions and one of them is that she doesn't get to live a normal family life and pretend nothing happened just because she swears she's sober this time. You're risking more instability in their lives by letting her back in. I know you're a great dad but I also unfortunately think you care too much about your ex to stay strong enough to make sure she's far away from these kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906310)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Y'all got a sister?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906321)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal

Haha sorry but nope.

Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too good in that you want to give her the benefit of the doubt. Wish you luck and for the kids' sake, I hope she really is changed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906603)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:14 PM
Author: orchid double fault locus

Calm down, dr phil

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906363)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal

Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's like whenever I see news stories about child abuse or hear about somebody commuting suicide who had kids, I have this visceral reaction. Like I can understand in the abstract how you're an addict or so depressed that you can't think rationally so you abandon your kids. But it makes me just so angry. I guess it's called having feelings or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906623)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increased empathy for babby doods than increased blaming/judginess at the bad guy (not saying that's not justified 100%, just saying that's how mine's manifested). Like I can't watch news stories about babbies getting hurt or cancer-pwned or anything like that, and cry all the time during movies about babbies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906960)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: abnormal stage affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906644)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: chestnut curious striped hyena

are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts or codependents themselves?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906320)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there fine; you can still bring them here if you want, but I don't think they really need it." A therapist who I was paying money said this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906331)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: chestnut curious striped hyena

tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't really understand it well. when they're older they might get some benefit from talking to someone who specializes in counseling families of addicts. i don't agree with nutella that there's no hope for addicts and that they all deserve to be punished forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906353)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to someone as they get older. But they still in elementary school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906366)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:22 PM
Author: Gay Bossy New Version Son Of Senegal

Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in and remarrying her and essentially having things go back to a normal family after a year is insane and risks more instability for the kids. The consequences for her abandoning her entire family is that she needs to prove she can stay sober living on her own for at least 2-3 years, ideally even longer. I don't think she should be punished forever. She can have a relationship and visitation with the the kids but she doesn't get to live with them in their home after just a year of being sober. After all, EPAH has said she relapsed after many years of sobriety when she abandoned them the last time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906405)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: vivacious quadroon

Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've come into more $? If not, are you worried she'll leave you for half?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906357)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:24 PM
Author: Impertinent Puce Trailer Park

Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if you can prenup as to custody? Recent CA bar takers pls advice thank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906935)