My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
What did she see on the nanny cam?	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the pho...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost th...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a min...	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
24 year old white woman with a college degree in child devel...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
pics?	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face th...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
probably should just keep her around	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up wit...	greedy bistre property	10/26/17
Lol and pay child support?	tan stage	10/26/17
he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while ...	greedy bistre property	10/26/17
...	Wonderful point athletic conference	10/26/17
Nah state mandated guidelines are 4:1 ratio and I pay for wh...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
after 1, part time away at a nursery is ideal for most kids....	Coral Main People	10/26/17
lol every shrew mom rationalizes dumping their kid with tran...	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
Again, I had a choice. My mom was fine watching him 5 days/...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
if my only other choice was being around you or your mom i'd...	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on ...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
"Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking sh...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
True. It’s my goal to raise him not to become one.	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
Nightmare on XOXO: My Son is a Pumo!	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
"You think that's bad, mine is a quotemo!"	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
*pan to Maury audience members shaking heads in dismay*	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
TMF and MND's half-retarded kid walks out, Montell calls in ...	startled buff hospital	10/31/17
go ahead and make little nutelliot an account on r/hapas	180 Out-of-control Indirect Expression Casino	10/26/17
Instead you will school him in the art of only using pumos t...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/26/17
Nutelliot, this is how you sock-puppet	Crystalline fragrant dilemma mad-dog skullcap	10/26/17
"No son, those people are haters, and they are #neverwi...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/26/17
Don't you also use pumos to sock puppet? So in addition bei...	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
...	180 Out-of-control Indirect Expression Casino	10/26/17
in this particular case i'm not sure babby isn't BENEFITING ...	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
LMAO, never not obsessively trolling for the way you choose ...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/26/17
>I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. ...	Massive principal's office giraffe	10/27/17
"I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit...	startled buff hospital	10/31/17
i think he meant per month.	Charcoal Trump Supporter Faggot Firefighter	10/31/17
lmao never change xo, "wife sees nanny being shitty, ta...	startled buff hospital	10/31/17
how many kids you planning?	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
After this bullshit, I don't think I am going to double down...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
the investment obviously becomes better with MORE kids, wors...	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
It becomes more expensive to have two kids when you are divo...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
true, but then just hie to a country that isnt shiTTT	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
This isn't a real option for 99% of white people.	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Don't want my kid(s) to grow up without a dad.	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
oh they'll have a dad alright. lots and lots of "dads&...	deep mind-boggling trailer park striped hyena	10/26/17
...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
lol at your kids being raised with only one tiny pink pe...	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
cr, OP's kids will have a "darker" perspective.	dull odious antidepressant drug house	10/26/17
...	stirring ruddy cruise ship idiot	12/19/17
move back	Onyx puppy	10/26/17
the only cr	racy light hominid legend	10/26/17
I just got a new job here and don't think I can get my old j...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
on 2nd thought congrats on escaping Austin	racy light hominid legend	10/26/17
LOL. Fuck that over-hyped humid shithole	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Better than SoCal	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
IDK about that. I am not in tech and got a better job here. ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
You can get a nice 1br in a safe part of Austin for $1k 20 m...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
Where are you talking about living? Right by Round Rock?	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
From the 45 to the 103. South of there until downtown prices...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/los-angeles-ca/aust...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
Give her your resume and email password, and tell her she ne...	drab home	10/26/17
LOL	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
You the guy who occasionally poasts about regretting moving ...	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
Yeah	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
You guys need to have a serious discussion about making deci...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
No shit. She is incredibly impulsive and makes rash decision...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Try speaking to her in a somewhat more stereotypically femal...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
what's the game plan? to get her to go back to work or to ge...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
Those are short-term, surface problems. I think the bigger ...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Yea agreed.	Coral Main People	10/26/17
lol, talk about things that will never happen.	Crystalline fragrant dilemma mad-dog skullcap	10/26/17
Well, maybe. Can't know until you seriously try, though.	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
...	Charcoal Trump Supporter Faggot Firefighter	10/31/17
...	Crystalline fragrant dilemma mad-dog skullcap	11/14/17
(guy who thinks his wife would never impulsively divorce him...	Vermilion business firm regret	10/27/17
Congrats. Having a true SAHM will be awesome. You should ...	shaky parlour skinny woman	10/26/17
*spits out coffee* tyft. OP, your workload will manage...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Cr. I have reconciled myself to living in filth.	deep mind-boggling trailer park striped hyena	10/26/17
lmao	Honey-headed theater stage	10/26/17
Is this from a 1932 NYT column?	bateful lilac theatre	10/26/17
You don't even have to go back that far.	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Sadly true	floppy chartreuse stead	10/26/17
...	aphrodisiac sandwich area	10/26/17
lol	deep mind-boggling trailer park striped hyena	10/26/17
...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
LMAO. She will be shoving our daughter in my face at 6:00 sa...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bix44C1EzY	glassy menage	10/26/17
...	bateful lilac theatre	10/26/17
she handles the money? how do you know you can trust her?	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
I handle the money. Everything goes on charge cards where I ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
lol	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
...	marvelous narrow-minded crotch state	10/26/17
<>	dashing library mexican	10/26/17
180 poast	Comical Navy Son Of Senegal Queen Of The Night	10/26/17
I was thinking of this thread last night as I sat in my easy...	deep mind-boggling trailer park striped hyena	10/27/17
OUT the foreign language	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
...	Charcoal Trump Supporter Faggot Firefighter	10/31/17
wasn't she a doctor? i think the writers are getting a littl...	Lascivious azure site	10/26/17
She is a doctor. TBF, she is proposing working one day a wee...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
6k net or gross? If net, that’s awesome and go for it. I...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
Gross. She doesn't want to do it long-term. But it will like...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
I think it’s obvious she needs to stop unilaterally make dec...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
Yes, this is 100% correct. She is a 100% emotion-driven deci...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
hope she’s not a surgeon	Laughsome hell	10/26/17
She is in a BS lifestyle specialty	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
stop talking shit about neurology	peach masturbator national	10/26/17
Sounds like doctor material to me.	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
This is why educating women is wasteful	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
...	Motley becky	10/26/17
*gets out calculator* *types some numbers* "That's ...	Rose arousing native cumskin	10/26/17
...	floppy chartreuse stead	10/26/17
Unless you make $30K/month, you should be the SAHM.	Vivacious flesh temple dysfunction	10/26/17
We shouldn't be here is my point. Our baby could be taken ca...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Medicine is literally the definition of a job that can be do...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Yeah, but the market is weird. You can make tons more in Tex...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Not really, depending on specialty	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
This is quite a twist	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
...	slate range circlehead	10/26/17
move to omaha bro	razzmatazz dingle berry	10/26/17
I told her that was what we needed to do before the baby. We...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
:( your son could've been a future Millard North standout	razzmatazz dingle berry	10/26/17
Creighton Prep standout actually	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Uh wut....she can’t just unilaterally decide to quit. she’s...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
why is SGV hell isn't there good food and schools	Lascivious azure site	10/26/17
It's hot there and OP is white.	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Yeah, this is no place for people like me	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Good food, but terrible weather and awful suburban sprawl. ...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
ted H turned out just fine. after grinding at AZN high i'd ...	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
...	Motley becky	10/26/17
LOL @ moving for the woman's job opportunity jfc	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Marriage is insane	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you let it get insane	frum citrine haunted graveyard generalized bond	10/26/17
There's two people in every marriage bro. I mean, congrats i...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
Yeah, I am in a living nightmare	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Avoiding complete insanity isn’t that difficult if you watch...	Crystalline fragrant dilemma mad-dog skullcap	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you marry the wrong person or for the ...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
Sure, but (1) that's often only apparent in retrospect, plus...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
Nah there are always warning signs before marriage but peopl...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
Why You Won’t Be the Person You Expect to Be You Won’t Stay...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
Yes people change over time, priorities change, different li...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
agreed. i remember when my first friend from high school ...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
To be fair, I was talking more about priorities than persona...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
I was a better and smarter person overall before 21, but inc...	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
Can confirm. I am late thirties now and she is in her early ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
It's cognitive bias. You see it now so clearly but if it wor...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
Probably CR...but I was infatuated with her, lonely and afra...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Having been married to a 180 wife for over ten years, I am s...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
agree with this like 95% - for the most part the pre-marriag...	Laughsome hell	10/26/17
"People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s.&...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/26/17
...	bipolar orchestra pit	10/27/17
If find that there are two kinds of people who give this adv...	Saffron Internet-worthy Nowag Clown	10/26/17
I'm actually on board with Nutella's point here.	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Yes, because you're perfectly content as a marriedmo. People...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/26/17
As I've stated elsewhere in this thread, "marriage"...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
cr A good marriage is great.	Comical Navy Son Of Senegal Queen Of The Night	10/26/17
Does anyone dispute this? You guys are so hilariously de...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/27/17
i sure hope her legal advice is better than this	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
...	Charcoal Trump Supporter Faggot Firefighter	10/31/17
No, this is the ego-fed view of it, amounts to no more than ...	Magical aqua foreskin	10/27/17
...	stirring ruddy cruise ship idiot	11/22/17
Something to be concerned about is when she decides in 2 wee...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
"it's exhausting, no breaks, etc." I LOLed.	Cracking halford	10/26/17
I LOLed at this once, too, IRL. I learned to never LOL at i...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Isn't the kid sleeping 15 hours per day?	Cracking halford	10/26/17
yeah, she is sleeping right now. She sleeps all the damn tim...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Throw all of this out the window and repeat: There is nothi...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Lol you work from home. You should know how exhausting it i...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
I'm exaggerating slightly. My wife is (mostly) level-headed...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
dealing with only one baby is basically a vacation	Low-t trip space police squad	10/26/17
There are some women who are laid back and would just laugh ...	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
I told her that last night. And now we are stuck in a lease ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Lmao so much to unpack here. She caused you guys to move ...	Motley becky	10/26/17
Correct on all accounts. We moved this summer a month before...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Whoa, she dumped her OBGYN in the last MONTH of pregnancy? A...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
It has been a nightmare brother. Her mom died recently and s...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
That should've caused alarm bells to ring in your head befor...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Yeah, they were going off but she was pregnant	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
But you needed to get that last raw pump in, right?	Chest-beating rigor lodge	10/26/17
lolwtf? You moved a month before the baby was due? You g...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
*impossible	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Kids need their mom. You shouldnt have got her pregnant if a...	Beady-eyed Flushed Internal Respiration	10/26/17
...	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
For the third month in a row, prospective homebuyers in Los ...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Lol at any home in LA for $575k being worth buying	Titillating snowy meetinghouse	10/26/17
Yea that's just median. Most neighborhoods are bad. Most pla...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Hey dickhead, I was fine with her being a SAHM. I was not fi...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Didn't she want to go to the beach and stuff as one of her r...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
LMAO. We have gone twice and it has been a fucking nightmare...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Aren’t all the beaches just filled with mexis now?	Lemon hairraiser set	10/26/17
Yeah, they are pure trash. Disgusting.	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
...	Motley becky	10/26/17
If the move was such a bad idea then why did you agree to it...	Crawly gaping	10/26/17
medicine pwns law so she has authority to cuck him at all ti...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
Harsh, but fair. I am not a lawyer, but have a good job and ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
and now both of you are totally unhappy. thanks, feminism...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
As a doctor, if maximizing income were the goal, you’d move ...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
"So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making ...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Well, maybe now that she wants to quit that won't be the tru...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Only silver lining here...the relocation decision is going t...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
I'm sympathetic to the notion that family decisions should a...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Are both your families from the same area (Omaha?) Take your...	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
Are her parents rich? How can you just toss a MD into the ga...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
...	Motley becky	10/26/17
Does seem a little hasty. If they move near family, she can ...	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
"she can transition to full time work if she wants"...	frum citrine haunted graveyard generalized bond	10/27/17
MD is paid off, she has no loans. She could work part-time a...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Good Lord.	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
man, we all warned you about this	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Yeah, I have myself 100% to blame unfortunately.	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
:( we feel for you breh	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
wow	Motley becky	10/26/17
Think of the alimony payment OP will be getting soon	tantric roast beef	10/26/17
I think Thunder Collins needs to have a little chat with dir...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
...	Hilarious round eye	10/31/17
She is from the East coast and has two brothers in Atlanta. ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
She won't consider Omaha because she thinks it is prole and ...	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
It's also "his" and not "hers" and the l...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Bingo. She would be "sacrificing" for me and would...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
I once floated the idea of moving back to Buffalo (my hometo...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Yeah, it sucks. I really wanted to move to Denver because I ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Has she even seen Mork & Mindy?	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
I dunno, Buffalo is pretty bad. Denver sounds great though.	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
I NO RIKE A BUFFARO	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
I no rearry rike a buffaro either, tbf, but being hugged by ...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
Staying here worked out but by pure luck. Buffalo would h...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
It's also complete shit. lol at living in Omaha	Talented Dark Station	10/26/17
I am pretty easy about where I live. Lincoln seems like it w...	Spruce charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
It is not bad at all, especially if you have family/friends ...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
she can re-enter easily in medicine no? don't let it get to...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
Man this shit is T*O*X*I*C	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
Agreed, let my life be a warning to others	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
XO: Hey Charles get off your ass and try to get a wife. A...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
don't trust any chick to keep her job after form babby unles...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
Just do marry a woman of childbearing age who also makes at ...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
or just don't need an extra paycheck. or just REALLY need th...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
tbh I have no expectation that my wife actually make substan...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
fwiw, not all women are like that. and a lot of women once t...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
OFS, I'm not a lunatic "all women suck" MGTOW, but...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
I can do it for you. I'm really good at stuff like this.	Coral Main People	10/26/17
...	Laughsome hell	10/26/17
LOL, noted. Will CharlesXII's future wife be able to pass *T...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
She is totally irrational Charles. Purely emotion driven and...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
Now you know how libs feel about Trump!	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
CharelsXII, You are doing the right thing by being select...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
...	Laughsome hell	10/26/17
Thank. Tips for finding the right life partner and evalua...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
I got nothing for you there. My wife and I fell in love in ...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
What type were you looking for and how does she not match th...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
I had recently broken up with a good-girl religious type and...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
what happened in the interim breakups? would you say 40-50x?	Lascivious azure site	10/27/17
Will make a suitable mother. Not all women (and not all goo...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
I'll co-sign some of this, but I think prioritizing similari...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
I dunno, the crazy ass women I know who drive their husbands...	slimy pit potus	10/26/17
You'll never hear me advise anyone to get married. As far a...	Saffron Internet-worthy Nowag Clown	10/26/17
ouch	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
His wife is a 9, too.	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
My wife's pregnancy tits are the most amazing things I've ev...	Saffron Internet-worthy Nowag Clown	10/26/17
ungh, pics?	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
...	Charcoal Trump Supporter Faggot Firefighter	10/31/17
Maybe for you. For me it's making me appreciate my life. A...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
I mean, same here. My life is pretty 180 right now. It's tox...	Concupiscible field elastic band	10/26/17
It's impossible to judge "marriage." You can only...	yapping nursing home	10/26/17
Proof ITT that MD pwns JD or whatever OP's toilet degree is....	At-the-ready Market Lettuce	10/26/17
MBA, definitely true.	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
eh, it does in some ways, but not in others.	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
(Rowan)	At-the-ready Market Lettuce	10/26/17
...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Can you just not practice law for 5 years then easily slide ...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
i know women who can slide back into say $150k a year jobs. ...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
you don't understand the upper end of MD	180 Out-of-control Indirect Expression Casino	10/26/17
well then explain it to me, and then we can compare.	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
All those fancy finance jobs lost in the recession never cam...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
MD definitely has certain advantages, i take no issue with t...	aggressive cuck knife	10/26/17
Tommy Turd did it But women who transition from biglaw as...	Big frozen center	10/26/17
A contrarian viewpoint: Feel blessed that he has strong p...	dead tank	10/26/17
Moving and changing OBGYNs in month 8 is ridiculous and nega...	Cracking halford	10/26/17
She just had a kid. Both her brain chemistry and life priori...	dead tank	10/26/17
She can't take FMLA because she just started the job.	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
The she should ask for a few weeks off work using PTO. Or yo...	dead tank	10/26/17
She has one day of PTO and I just started my job and have li...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
You should take this as a blessing in disguise and run for L...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
cr, maybe some good can be made of this. Still, he'd have...	thirsty yellow idea he suggested rehab	10/26/17
they'd trade 1.5M shitbox for 500K mcmansion potentially. th...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
I am not moving now. It makes no sense. In 9 months or so wh...	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
So move in 9 months. You have the option to correct that mis...	Coral Main People	10/26/17
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...	Laughsome hell	10/26/17
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...	Hilarious round eye	10/26/17
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TY	Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault	10/26/17
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she sounds like she made some poor life choices, but her lif...	Big frozen center	10/26/17
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:02 PM Author: Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job opportunity over my objections that it was too expensive and we have no support network. We have a three month old and moving further away from family/friends at this time seemed stupid (because it was). Last night she saw some things on the nanny cam she didn't like, freaked out and decided that she was going to quit her new job. Leaving me with sole responsibility to pay for this mistake. JFC. I am so irate right now. She fired the nanny and now I am trying to work from home, with a bunch of conference calls all day, and taking care of the baby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533895)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM Author: Spruce charismatic affirmative action What did she see on the nanny cam? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533976)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM Author: Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the phone. Nanny spending the day on Netflix and texting. Ignoring specific directions she gave her. Also, the nanny didn't show up one day last week with minimal notice and had two friends cover for her. The nanny sucks and needs to go, but we have an au pair that is on her way in 4-6 weeks and can just hire another one in the interim or fly my parents out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534035)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM Author: slimy pit potus Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost the norm. I see so many nannies at the playground just zoned out ignoring the kids. I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. It’s hard to get a good nanny, that’s why my kid is in daycare because nobody is on a phone and there’s constant stimulation and activities. But I wouldn’t do daycare til at least age 1 once they’re walking around. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534128)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:15 PM Author: Low-t trip space police squad lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a minimum wage nigerian who's also watching 10 other kids is the 100% perfect decision. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534547)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM Author: Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault 24 year old white woman with a college degree in child development actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534585)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:21 PM Author: aggressive cuck knife pics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534614)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM Author: Exhilarant Alcoholic Double Fault Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face that is maybe 10 pounds overweight. Super cheerful as I walk out the door for my hour commute. Makes me want to kill self. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534649)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:28 PM Author: Low-t trip space police squad probably should just keep her around (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534682)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:29 PM Author: aggressive cuck knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534686)

Date: October 26th, 2017 4:34 PM Author: greedy bistre property Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up with bubbly blonde. Problem solved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535727)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM Author: tan stage Lol and pay child support? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536858)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:46 PM Author: greedy bistre property he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while she was still working. actually, that's a better ploy. wait til she's working again and then divorce and thus she has to pay. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537005)

Date: October 26th, 2017 3:16 PM Author: Wonderful point athletic conference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535124)