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Think my relationship with sex is psycopathic
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:49 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water The general understanding is that when people cheat their cheating was precipitated by some dissatisfaction with their partner or relationship. Yet for me my desire to cheat remains stable irrespective of my relationship satisfaction. I can be in the most wonderful relationship imaginable... if I were to hypothetically know that I would not get caught cheating, I would have no qualms cheating. No guilt no remorse no sense of having caused harm. Whether I cheat is a matter of opportunity, and self control, and the desire to avoid potential externally imposed consequences. I wouldn't want my partner to know because it would hurt them to know, but I have no natural inhibition regarding the act itself.
If I didn't despise wearing condoms and costs and legality weren't issue, I'd have sex with multiple prostitutes per day everyday. People tend to view using prostitutes as "settling" or "having to pay for it". But for me I enjoy the feeling that without me the girl would be incapable of surviving. As far as "needing" to pay, I'd have no qualms having sex with a woman organically and then 1 hour later fucking a prostitute. I've done it before and I'll do it again.
If a woman is sexually attractive to me I am willing to have sex with her. I could think she's a terrible person, wonderful person. Doesn't matter. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:12 PM Author: sienna locale milk (fleshlight) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537162) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 5:17 PM Author: Elite Abode Foreskin Ira Glass's mother studied cheating.
Her main finding was that, contrary to popular perception, people who cheat are not more unhappy in their relationships than people who stay faithful. |
Date: October 26th, 2017 7:50 PM Author: sienna locale milk That's called being a guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537028) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:51 PM Author: Lime blood rage No, it's not. Especially the prostitutes part. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537032) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:53 PM Author: sienna locale milk Stopped reading just before that part. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537054) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:53 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water As far as not feeling like I'm "settling" like I "have to pay for it" or that I enjoy the power dynamic in of itself? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537055) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:53 PM Author: Cowardly red filthpig cruise ship Cr no guys use prostitutes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537379) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 10:10 AM Author: bright stimulating coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34540952) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:46 AM Author: Bonkers tantric national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541582) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:52 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Do other men desire to cheat when there's "something wrong" with the relationship or is that total bullshit? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537044) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:51 PM Author: Lime blood rage yep, you have serious issues bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537029) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:52 PM Author: Beady-eyed Mexican modernity broke you, man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537040) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:52 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Felt this way since I was a young child. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537048) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:55 PM Author: Beady-eyed Mexican you had sexual desires before puberty? 12 or 14? wtf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537068) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:56 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Of course...? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537071) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:11 PM Author: Lime blood rage ding ding ding you were exposed to sex too early. You're probably suppressing some kind of very young traumatic experience, even if it was just seeing porn or something |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:18 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Not suppressing anything. I was hyper sexual as a child. First became aroused by seeing a woman in a parking lot with nice tits when I was ~4, and from there I intentionally sought out sexual stuff. Would seek out lingerie catalogues. Porn. Would grind my body on things as a precursor to learning about masturbation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537184) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:20 PM Author: Lime blood rage yeah no, man, that doesn't just happen to normal kids, so there are only two possibilities: 1) you were born irreversibly and hopelessly fucked up 2) something happened even before your longterm memory kicked in |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:22 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I think you are wrong. Look into research into child sexuality; they've shown that very young children demonstrate sexuality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537207) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:23 PM Author: Lime blood rage nope, girls develop it well before boys for obvious reasons, and 4 is very young, even for them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537216) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:52 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water "For obvious reasons"
I know they develop earlier, but I don't think it's obvious why. In fact I don't know why. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:10 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water So we are in agreement that I have serious problems. Any ideas of how to address? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537465) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:21 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Tbf no one really suggested that I should avoid those things. I knew they had restrictions and such but I thought that was just adults being assholes who don't want kids to do anything fun (no running inside, use inside voices, no PG13 movies) it didn't occur to me that there was an element of being "protected". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537197) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:22 PM Author: Lime blood rage so added to the above: you had really shitty parents who had no idea how to talk to you about sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537210) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:24 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I didn't spend much time with my parents as a child. I'm talking about sitters, teachers... The reasoning was "because I say so" just like other restrictions like running indoors (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537230) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:26 PM Author: Lime blood rage First sentence is enough to explain pretty much all of this. It's the parents' job to introduce important sexual concepts at the appropriate ages. You had none. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:28 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I mean yeah my parents were and are shitty. That's not abnormal; tons of shitty parents out there. I guess I feel like I'm "missing out" on some key natural emotional response and I don't like it because if I had such an emotional response it would make me a better person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537248) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:29 PM Author: Seedy Masturbator Theatre No, this broad doesn't know what she's talking about. My 6 year old has been popping boners, showing his dick to people and super excited any time he sees a naked chick for a year or so now. Basically as soon as he got to the developmental age where he was social and wanted to play with other kids. And so far his younger brother is right on track for the same thing. It's also normal at that age because they begin to understand taboos and want to test them. But the larger and more basic point is that it stands to reason that guys who were super horny and formed no attachment to sex would have an evolutionary advantage. You (and I) still bear those genes.
It's also a set of traits that clusters with all the confidence stuff that PUA bullshit talks about. If you get into a simple, lizard brained mental state about sex to the point that you are clearly on a mission and seem completely driven to get into a girl's pants, then 95+% of girls think it's a huge turn on and love the feeling that they are irresistible to you as long as they already decided that you're fuckable. |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 10:51 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water "But the larger and more basic point is that it stands to reason that guys who were super horny and formed no attachment to sex would have an evolutionary advantage. You (and I) still bear those genes."
I do form attachment when I have sex. While having sex, whoever I am having sex with at that moment is the most important person in the world to me. It's part of what's so enjoyable about having sex. The issue is that whatever attachment I feel when I'm having sex with a woman doesn't inherently undercut my desire to have sex with other women. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:32 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water And if you think that's bad then the next generation is super fucked. They're gonna largely have 2 working parents. I want to have a housewife so my kids can have it better than me, but GC is set up in a way that makes it hard to do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537261) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:07 PM Author: fiercely-loyal citrine theater stage therapy I saw a ton of porn starting in like 3rd grade. Quickly became obsessed. 20 years later and I'm a hypersexual pervert. Do you think there is a connection? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495719) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:08 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I think there's a connection but I think the connection is that you were a super horny child who continued on to be a super horny adult. the magazines didn't spontaneously cause u to be horny
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:14 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water My grandpa was trolling libs back then.
He acted as The Devil's Advocate and said "you know back in the day guys were all about fat women but the media has promoted the idea that men should be attracted to skinny women"
I said that that was crazy because no one was trying to sell me this magazine... I picked it up because I was attracted to the woman on the cover. No one told me I was supposed to be attracted to her but I was and that they were choosing the women based on what men would want to buy and not what they wanted men to be attracted to.
Now I know he was just bullshiting to test a left-wing theory that he thought was bullshit. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:21 PM Author: Mahogany mad cow disease lol, me too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34538051) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:28 AM Author: Laughsome Filthy Toaster I very distinctly remember thinking that I had discovered the orgasm before the age of 5. When I get into things, I’ll hyperfocus on them to the exclusion of everything else, like to the point of not eating for 16 hour stretches while continuously working on a project or holding in piss/shit until I’m literally on the verge of pissing/shitting my pants. One of the strategies I developed when I had to shit was twirling my dick in a circle. For some reason that seemed to deal with the problem. One day I did it for long enough that I had an orgasm. In 2nd grade, I distinctly remember thinking about one of my classmates wearing a teddy during an orgasm, even though I hadnt yet connected the act of masturbation with sexuality. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34539785) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:23 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I didn't think about putting my dick in a pussy; didn't even know what sex was really. Looking back the feelings were of horniness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541454) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:49 AM Author: Bonkers tantric national similar to my experience, particularly the visualization in second grade. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541600) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:54 PM Author: Rusted bearded hairy legs ur parents are shitty people who raised a shitty child. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537058) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:54 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water True and true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537063) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:54 PM Author: maniacal property faggot firefighter the key is self control and whether you respect your partner with whom you are supposedly committed. Who the fuck cares why you want to cheat - what matters is whether you are able to or choose to control yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537062) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:55 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water "respect your partner"
I can love my partner to the point that I'd be willing to die for her, risk my safety for her. Still would have 0 qualm cheating but for that if she knew it would upset her. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:03 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water It's this respect part that I have issue with. If I love a woman, I'd strive to make her happy, protect her, and be her rock. Yet I don't have any internal "feeling" that it's harmful to her. And that in the event I do cheat, I desire to hide it because I care so much about her that I wouldn't want her to be harmed by the knowledge of the adulterous activity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537109) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:05 PM Author: maniacal property faggot firefighter so you have no feeling of - my partner would be upset that I am doing this and I want to not do things which would upset her - even if it is unlikely that she would find out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537125) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:07 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Correct. I can reason that intellectually. But no "feeling" of inappropriateness. Whereas if I were to yell at my girl, or not return her calls, or flake on her when I agreed to do something, those things would make me feel bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537134) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:11 PM Author: maniacal property faggot firefighter maybe you dont care for the girl enough. I has nothing to do with inappropriateness to me. Who gives a fuck what is appropriate or normal.
it's about making the person you love happy, and avoid doing things that would hurt them.
Maybe I have just had enough experience to know that the risk of them finding out ALWAYS exists because the one fundamental truth of the world is that women cannot shut the fuck up and keep anything to themselves.
So maybe there is no difference between me being loyal because I would not do anything to hurt my wife, or because I know how hurt she would be if she found out. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:23 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water "maybe you dont care for the girl enough"
I don't think that's it. I can be head over heals in love and it's no different. Like I said I'd be willing to die for a woman I love. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 5:13 PM Author: Seedy Masturbator Theatre bumping question: would you be mad if she felt the same way, i.e., if she could be completely guaranteed that you would never find out she'd feel no remorse about it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34544068) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 5:29 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water That would depend.
From what I can tell about female cheating, they attribute it to dissatisfaction with their existing relationship. I'd be more concerned with the why. Say if she had a think for uncut cocks. I'm circumcised. So she couldn't get that satisfaction with me. If she were to get dicked outside of our relationship by an uncut guy I would not want to know. If I knew I'd be furious. But only if I knew. Don't ask don't tell sort of thing. Knowing would infuriate me regardless of her reasons.
If her cheating was because of dissatisfaction with me, then that's a problem. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 6:00 PM Author: Seedy Masturbator Theatre Assume she's like a guy. She doesn't have deep feelings about sex. She's perfectly happy to fuck you over and over, but it gets old. Fucking a new guy that she thinks is hot is way more of a turn on. Doesn't mean she wants to leave you or doesn't love you, and she still wants to raise your kids and change your diapers when you're old and incontinent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34544439) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 9:39 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Probably would be my preference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34545669) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:01 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Y I tend to limit cheating to pros. They aren't gonna blow your shit up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537421) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:32 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Gotta bump this subthread. Would you therefore be willing to cheat with a hooker in a different state?
I think a key distinction that makes my sexuality psychotic is cheating with hookers. Wouldn't touch a girl in her social circle. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:41 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I wasn't using appropriate to mean normal. I meant inappropriate in that it's not appropriate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541546) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:57 PM Author: razzle background story shitlib ITT: betas (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537075) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:58 PM Author: Beady-eyed Mexican (guy notorious for his healthy attitude toward sex and romance) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537080) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:59 PM Author: razzle background story shitlib (guy who thinks women arent whores and deserve to be treated as such) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537082) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:05 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water That's the thing: I don't mistreat women. I treat them very well. I go out of my way to make women who are important to me happy. I have a psychotic disconnect in that cheating does not factor into my internal moral compass. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537126) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:10 PM Author: razzle background story shitlib eees normal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537143) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:09 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Ru being facetious? I don't treat women like "whores" even if they are themselves literal whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537142) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:11 PM Author: exciting narrow-minded skinny woman box office "guy" who has literally never fucked a non-whore (actual whore that charged him for sex). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537151) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:04 PM Author: Magical ebony roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537115) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:33 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water From Earl: "maybe you dont care for the girl enough"
I'd be willing to take a bullet for a woman I love. I'd let her take the last spot on the raft and drown so she could live. It's not a lack of capacity to love.
My sexuality is psychopathic. It wants more more more. And it doesn't matter how good the sex is with a woman, she cannot replicate the experience of entering a new pussy. It's not possible. |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:16 PM Author: fiercely-loyal citrine theater stage therapy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495829) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:38 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water If the poster above is right that this issue is related to a lack of proper parenting, it should serve as a warning to those who think it's "wonderful" that both parents work. It's not. And it's not just because "how we turn out", it was fucking miserable being raised by non family caregivers who give 0 fucks about you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537299) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:00 PM Author: Appetizing Sex Offender whole op served to turn me on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537417) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:03 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537433) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Appetizing Sex Offender troof nigga (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34537449) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:17 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34538015) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:02 AM Author: Dark Histrionic Pozpig Library I could have written this thread word for word. Wtf. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34539709) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:04 AM Author: violet erotic son of senegal step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34539714) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: gold cuckoldry are you comforted? horrified? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34540989) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:54 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Relevant to my interests (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541645) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:08 AM Author: Swashbuckling ocher fortuitous meteor macaca TBH I pretty much just agree with thread titles. This does sound rather psychopathic and it's sad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34539730) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:04 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water It is sad. I'm not bragging; this is a serious issue for me wrt my capacity to function in civilized society. It also causes me to resend any woman I get close to; feeling like "it's her fault" and that she's "depriving me of sexual gratification". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541337) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 10:09 AM Author: Motley yellow school cafeteria gaping When did you lose your virginity? It sounds to me like the obsession with new pussy is not really because of a physical desire but rather emotional. Further, the emotional driver sounds to be based around validation and pride in having "conquered". So it could really be something as simple as a guy who was not sexually successful early on who has now tied his sense of personal worth around bagging chicks.
I can't square the prostitute angle with this outside of maybe tying that concept of "power" that your recognize you feel with your preexisting need for validation. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:20 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water If that was the case, this wouldn't be psychopathic as much as immature. I do have a need for validation, but why not seek validation through some other means? If it was about validation, then why do I get damn near ZERO enjoyment from condom sex and have to jackoff furiously afterwards? I prefer quality sexual activity that is non bragworthy (a sexually talented 4/10 giving an amazing handjob) to bad sex with an 8/10 that my friends all think is smoking hot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541440) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:19 PM Author: Puce Twinkling Uncleanness Institution Most guys prefer jacking off to condoms, they're terrible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34542822) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:46 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water But if the purpose is validation than surely condom sex > jacking off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34543422) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:26 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water And I think the feeling of conquering is inherent in the sexual act. You put yourself inside her. You fuck her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541469) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 10:15 AM Author: gold cuckoldry "I've done it before and I'll do it again"
at least you know yourself |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:33 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I think if it was about validation I would get that from condom sex. But I prefer a good lap dance with a stripper than condom sex with an organic girl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541509) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:45 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water This is a serious problem for me. I want to be able to be monogamous and happy. I want to be able to, in good conscience, get married and have children. But I don't think I have the capacity to be monogamous and not resent my partner for how she limits my sexuality, eventually give in to temptation, be someone my future children cannot respect, and have a divorce. I think with a subjective 10/10 partner it's a near certainty that I'd be unfaithful at some point by year 3 of the relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541575) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I would even subconsciously take steps to sabotage my cheating.
"Do you have a girlfriend?" "Yes"
"Is it an open relationship?" "No"
I didn't want to "hide" anything. I just wanted to get laid. Eventually moved away from non prostitutes to hookers because I didn't have to lie and say I was single. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:53 AM Author: Stirring Boiling Water And how do men deal with how every girl feels/tastes/smells/fucks/touches/cums differently? That every woman's pussy grips differently. And I also love developing sexual chemistry with a girl, each of us discovering each other's bodies. At a certain point in monogamy that goes away. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34541640) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: rebellious curious meetinghouse organic girlfriend Same here. We may not be "normal", but there are plenty of us out there. I think society just raises soft sociopaths (non-violent and not necessarily wanting to cause harm) and narcissists these days. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34542144) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:08 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I think we just need sex robots. I think we'd all be far better off.
Modern society acts like men don't NEED sex. And they do. Past societies recognized this and their institutions were organized as such. |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:31 PM Author: provocative heaven sweet tailpipe I had good parents/wasn't abused and also have a really high sex drive, e.g. spending 5 figures on escorts per year etc and I don't think I lack empathy or compassion. OP should not pathologize this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34543745) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:40 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water I don't lack empathy or compassion. My concerns are specific to my sexuality. In other avenues I'm quite empathetic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34543807) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 5:32 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water Do you use condoms with the escorts? Do you see different ones each time or do you keep a few in rotation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34544172) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 6:32 PM Author: provocative heaven sweet tailpipe I have gone bareback a few times if the girl takes the initiative, I don't ask for it.
I try not to have sex with girls who are on drugs or otherwise not doing ok. I talk with them awhile first. I will just pay her and leave if there is anything sketchy.
Don't get me wrong, I know seeing escorts with any kind of regularity is maladaptive, addictive behaviour. Definitely wish I had that money now, though I think it is much less pathological than alcohol or drug use. But I don't think it is 'psychopathic' |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 7:26 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water You've had escorts take the initiative to bareback? Closest I've had is I was getting a VIP lap dance and the girl just took my dick and slid it into her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#34544910) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: fiercely-loyal citrine theater stage therapy 180. At a club? More details. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35496068) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:06 PM Author: Laughsome Filthy Toaster Pro tip: they're all on drugs. Heroin can be exceptionally difficult to spot, especially if not an IV user. Meth is a little easier to spot. Also, some are better at hiding it than others or not as far down the rabbit hole. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495716) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:15 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495814) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 10:52 PM Author: green area tank was expecting peterman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495576) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 10:55 PM Author: Magical ebony roommate Yeah i read this and was thinking, "haha wow, holy shit" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495601) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:04 PM Author: green area tank youre great (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495683) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 10:54 PM Author: Laughsome Filthy Toaster Lol brother if that's psychotic then haul me off to Bellvue (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495588) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 10:54 PM Author: Magical ebony roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495596) |
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Date: February 26th, 2018 11:01 PM Author: Stirring Boiling Water (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35495657) |
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Date: February 27th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: boyish fantasy-prone indirect expression OP just discovered the difference between oxytocin and testosterone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775840&forum_id=2#35496179) |