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Asked out girl I've been crushing on for a year (am I beta)
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:52 AM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge Somewhat close friend of mine. She responded with "awww" and "I'm sorry I like you as a friend". I'm 32. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34684519) |
Date: November 14th, 2017 12:52 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685003) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: Razzle mediation church asking if you're beta means you are beta (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685010) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:54 PM Author: glassy church building depressive Height? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685468) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:55 PM Author: Brass Costumed Office Blood Rage lol absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685473) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:55 PM Author: carmine stag film a beta never would have asked her out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685475) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:55 PM Author: comical stead antidepressant drug "Aww, thanks, buddy!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685484) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:00 PM Author: Maroon theater marketing idea Now you can move on. Hit the gym and eat right for a while too wouldn’t be a bad idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685543) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:02 PM Author: amber marvelous toaster school cafeteria Do you have a mutual friend group in common? Work friend? HOw do you know eachother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685559) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:11 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge Mutual friend group. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685617) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:13 PM Author: Brass Costumed Office Blood Rage cr OP is FUCKED now she is going to tell everyone |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:35 PM Author: effete hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34687137) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:03 PM Author: alcoholic free-loading cuckoldry As I'm reading I'm thinking "wow, didn't know we still had college students here." then that last line jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685564) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:04 PM Author: Heady degenerate goal in life 180 friend. This bort is for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685573) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:06 PM Author: Peach Duck-like Digit Ratio Area Damn, fuck that shit.
He who hesitates is lost. Don't wait a year next time. You basically firmly planted yourself in the friendzone. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:11 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge I mean she only recently hit the market, so I made a move within 1 week of her being single. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685622) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:16 PM Author: carmine stag film don't worry about it, regretting shit like this is beta behavior. you asked, it didn't work out, now move forward (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685658) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:17 PM Author: amber marvelous toaster school cafeteria You only make a move if tehre is SERIOUS flirting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685668) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:18 PM Author: carmine stag film no, you always make a move. some women are shy as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685678) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:24 PM Author: amber marvelous toaster school cafeteria There are infinite women out there. You should not make a move on one your work with or have a history of mutual friends with unless you are 100% certain it will work out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685722) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:25 PM Author: carmine stag film go for it anyway if you like her. yolo. show some dick swagger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685735) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:37 PM Author: Sepia overrated persian base Shouldn’t have waited to at least plant the seed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686310) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:36 PM Author: Sepia overrated persian base MFCR gotta establish immediately that you are interested in more than friendship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686303) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:13 PM Author: Aphrodisiac balding temple Devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685636) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:21 PM Author: flesh ceo fjc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685702) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:22 PM Author: Cyan sexy mexican azn LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685709) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:24 PM Author: Ocher senate pervert Jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685724) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:27 PM Author: glittery high-end dragon water buffalo the answer is yes you're beta. but it doesn't matter, who gives a fuck
next time move faster. all women are disposable until you meet the diamond in the rough. and you'll know it when you do, and she'll like you back. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:28 PM Author: Cyan sexy mexican azn Just got a boner reading this 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685752) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:32 PM Author: Fuchsia Macaca Please state your height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685786) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:39 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge 5'10 160 pounds player soccer 3x a week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34685851) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:20 PM Author: Diverse cordovan factory reset button principal's office What kind of chinese are ya? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686178) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:24 PM Author: Fuchsia Macaca Hmm not egregiously short but not tall. How hot is this girl 1-10? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686214) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:31 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge Probably an 8 IRL but a 6 by XO standards. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686266) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:37 PM Author: Racy Tank lol hit the gym you twink (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686312) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 1:12 AM Author: Stirring station so you're a short twink faggot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690440) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:59 PM Author: Vibrant angry location newt "haha no worries. I'm always glad to have a new friend!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686013) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:04 PM Author: plum menage humiliating. I quit asking women out a couple of years ago for exactly this reason and it's been a great decision (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686064) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:09 PM Author: Swashbuckling space people who are hurt your mistake was asking her out. should have started by hanging out with her as friends and building rapport. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686096) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:19 PM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge We've been friends for 2 years and routinely hung out before this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686171) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:26 PM Author: Fuchsia Macaca If you hung out for two years and she's never hinted or heavily flirted with you than I'd say it's a no go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686229) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:27 PM Author: Swashbuckling space people who are hurt yeah, the friendly hangouts are to build rapport and gauge interest. if she never exhibited any interested, your move was futile. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686233) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:28 PM Author: alcoholic free-loading cuckoldry Women are willing to enter into romances with complete strangers, but not men they know. If he had met her, they had a nice conversation, he asks her out, great, he's relationship material. They know each other for a year, have *numerous* conversations, but along the way he becomes not-relationship material. can someone please explain this female "reasoning" to me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686242) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:29 PM Author: Brass Costumed Office Blood Rage Women decide whether you're relationship material or not within 5 minutes of meeting you. The answer was ALWAYS "no" for this guy |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:34 PM Author: Fuchsia Macaca Others may disagree but as a dude who's never been friendzoned but friendzoned chicks, I would say it has to do with expressing certain weaknesses or vulnerabilities or displaying certain traits you might to a friend but completely remove you from romantic partner pool. So you think you're bonding with her talking about past relationships? Careful, that story about you being a bitch and letting your ex walk all over you is a turn off. Certain shit you can reveal to friends will just dry up a woman's vag. Tell crass or vulgar jokes? She'll see you as immature and won't feel safe around you. Also depends on your reputation within your social circle. Shit like that. There's a girl who's a friend of a friend looking for a bf and wants to get set up with me but she has a slutty rep. Supposedly fucked a bartender in the bathroom. I met her, really nice girl, and kinda cute but that story completely ruined it.
You can't get too friendly, always have to maintain an image, and act in control. Oh, and be good looking. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:44 PM Author: plum menage can you recount that bathroom story in detail for research purposes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686349) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 12:53 AM Author: Fuchsia Macaca wasn't much detail. i asked buddy if she was single. he said yeah, but you don't want to mess around with that. she's got issues. he heard from a third friend that third friend's gf and crazy girl were out at a bar together just hanging out and crazy girl had the hots for the Chad bartender who had been flirting with her. so crazy girl just went up to bartender and asked "so are we gonna fuck or what?" and they both went to the bathroom for a while. third friend's gf was kind of shocked and relayed the story to her bf (our friend) who relayed the story to my friend, who relayed the story to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690323) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 1:13 AM Author: Stirring station she was never going to be attracted to him or open to date or fuck him in any universe ever because of his appearance. Women decide in the first 5 seconds of meeting a guy if they will fuck him. It's all looks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690444) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 1:23 AM Author: Fuchsia Macaca I've heard this but it doesn't jive with what women have told me or what I've seen. I think they can decide fairly quickly if they aren't interested, but it varies as to how long it takes to decide whether they are interested. You could also be in the fuckable category for a bit and do something to ding yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690498) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:31 PM Author: insane preventive strike Rate her, describe her cans and panties, age, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686267) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:36 PM Author: Up-to-no-good Address oh well. make sure you tell your whole friend group how damaged she is. act like she's obviously insane for rejecting you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686305) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:46 PM Author: Exciting lodge striped hyena At least this way you won't die wondering. Next time make a move a lot earlier to avoid being friendzoned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34686373) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:33 PM Author: buck-toothed multi-billionaire forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34687128) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:34 PM Author: effete hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34687134) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 12:55 AM Author: magenta piazza filthpig Only Beta if you waited longer than 5 minutes to approach (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690334) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 12:56 AM Author: Hateful kitty cat (guy who regularly fails the kobayashi maru)
JK. Proud that you sacked up. |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 1:00 AM Author: concupiscible apoplectic state voyeur dont listen to these people. you should have known she didnt want to date you and you shouldnt have asked by text. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34690354) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:29 AM Author: Maroon theater marketing idea Ask her out again every week until it becomes an awkward running joke. One day when you are both drunk she’ll give in and say yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34691987) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:33 AM Author: Pearl gay wizard parlor Text her the next time she whines to you
"Id never treat you that bad! He treats you like shit! I'd worship you like the queen you are!"
So you can make it on reddit r/niceguys |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:34 AM Author: plum menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692024) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:42 AM Author: plum menage lol wtf is this shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692087) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:37 AM Author: tan appetizing halford library Devastating might as well go to Home Depot to buy parts for your exit bag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692049) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: alcoholic free-loading cuckoldry or at least a wrench (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692066) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:41 AM Author: Ivory Flirting Shitlib what about this girl made u go down this slippery slope? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692078) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:46 AM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge Mix of attractiveness + quirky personality that I like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692128) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:44 AM Author: bearded disturbing private investor indian lodge Man this place is toxic. I'm not going to do anything more about it. I took a chance, I failed, but I'm glad I still did. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692104) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:47 AM Author: Pearl gay wizard parlor (JJC) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796998&forum_id=2#34692137) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 10:51 AM Author: Maroon theater marketing idea Nothing wrong with that you did. Nothing wrong with ripping on you a bit for getting rejected either.
Just don’t dwell on it. Make another move or two on some girls this weekend. |