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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
vibrant coldplay fan
  01/21/18
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Aqua institution pistol
  01/21/18
was she hot?
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
of course.
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
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vibrant coldplay fan
  01/21/18
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pale big hell
  01/21/18
Lol
demanding autistic wagecucks
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Umber Mexican
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
carmine odious hunting ground site
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
carmine odious hunting ground site
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
carmine odious hunting ground site
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
carmine odious hunting ground site
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
CR
vibrant coldplay fan
  01/21/18
lololol
Histrionic mother range
  01/21/18
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pearl thirsty son of senegal
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Opaque razzmatazz location tattoo
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
lol
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Opaque razzmatazz location tattoo
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
chestnut patrolman national
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18
how did she die/
thriller french chef sandwich
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: vibrant coldplay fan

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Aqua institution pistol



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: vibrant coldplay fan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: pale big hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: demanding autistic wagecucks

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Umber Mexican

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: carmine odious hunting ground site

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: carmine odious hunting ground site

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: carmine odious hunting ground site

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: carmine odious hunting ground site

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: vibrant coldplay fan

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Histrionic mother range

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: pearl thirsty son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Opaque razzmatazz location tattoo

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Opaque razzmatazz location tattoo

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: chestnut patrolman national

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: thriller french chef sandwich

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Vigorous nudist corner affirmative action

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)