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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
magenta disturbing hunting ground
  01/21/18
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odious geriatric travel guidebook step-uncle's house
  01/21/18
was she hot?
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
of course.
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
...
magenta disturbing hunting ground
  01/21/18
...
Razzmatazz Aquamarine Liquid Oxygen
  01/21/18
Lol
black rehab
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
tripping nubile dingle berry ticket booth
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
floppy cuckold church building
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
floppy cuckold church building
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
floppy cuckold church building
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
floppy cuckold church building
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
CR
magenta disturbing hunting ground
  01/21/18
lololol
Bateful Painfully Honest Twinkling Uncleanness Mood
  01/21/18
...
sickened khaki church
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Soul-stirring goyim forum
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
lol
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Soul-stirring goyim forum
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Gaped nibblets codepig
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18
how did she die/
beady-eyed gas station
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Hyperventilating Milk
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: magenta disturbing hunting ground

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: odious geriatric travel guidebook step-uncle's house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: magenta disturbing hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Razzmatazz Aquamarine Liquid Oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: black rehab

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: tripping nubile dingle berry ticket booth

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: floppy cuckold church building

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: floppy cuckold church building

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: floppy cuckold church building

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: floppy cuckold church building

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: magenta disturbing hunting ground

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Bateful Painfully Honest Twinkling Uncleanness Mood

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: sickened khaki church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Soul-stirring goyim forum

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Soul-stirring goyim forum

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Gaped nibblets codepig

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: beady-eyed gas station

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Milk

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)