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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
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was she hot?
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I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Ungodly violent giraffe
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
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  01/21/18
of course.
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Lol
know-it-all milk senate
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
heady institution
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Ungodly violent giraffe
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
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lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
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can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
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she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
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a year & couple of months.
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  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
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Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
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your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
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  01/21/18
lol
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  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
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  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
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  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
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  01/21/18
how did she die/
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  01/21/18
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Cobalt bbw

Female law partner? LJL

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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Submissive galvanic filthpig headpube



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Cobalt bbw



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: pea-brained copper brethren



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: know-it-all milk senate

Lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: heady institution

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: racy bespoke stag film

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: racy bespoke stag film

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: racy bespoke stag film

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: racy bespoke stag film

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Cobalt bbw

CR

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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: razzle harsh yarmulke turdskin

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Blue Chad



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: cyan hairraiser corner stock car

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: cyan hairraiser corner stock car

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: judgmental buck-toothed locale quadroon

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Ungodly violent giraffe

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Aromatic Fear-inspiring Police Squad Bawdyhouse

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)