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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
godawful main people
  01/21/18
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fishy mewling meetinghouse selfie
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
of course.
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
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godawful main people
  01/21/18
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razzle nowag
  01/21/18
Lol
lascivious ultramarine sanctuary
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Hideous amethyst karate internal respiration
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
CR
godawful main people
  01/21/18
lololol
pearly school
  01/21/18
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Talented hairy legs
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
lime library
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
lol
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
lime library
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Scarlet Electric Stag Film Goyim
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Canary Church Boltzmann
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
iridescent appetizing turdskin state
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: godawful main people

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: fishy mewling meetinghouse selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: godawful main people



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: razzle nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: lascivious ultramarine sanctuary

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Hideous amethyst karate internal respiration

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Duck-like Lay Famous Landscape Painting

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: godawful main people

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: pearly school

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Talented hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: lime library

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: lime library

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Scarlet Electric Stag Film Goyim

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Canary Church Boltzmann

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: iridescent appetizing turdskin state

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)