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Never marry a girl w divorced parents

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Brass slimy boistinker
  01/21/18
It's a big warning sign for sure.
misunderstood resort
  01/21/18
underrated
appetizing dilemma
  02/14/18
spin, ratfucks
Razzmatazz Party Of The First Part
  01/21/18
Don't eat yellow snow
Glittery alpha
  01/21/18
You could have stopped after "marry".
Canary floppy shrine
  01/21/18
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Outnumbered step-uncle's house
  01/21/18
1/2 marriages ends in divorce or something like that now. ...
Stimulating henna pozpig
  01/21/18
yeah but that 50% is not evenly distributed among marriages
Zombie-like locale really tough guy
  01/21/18
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marvelous hyperventilating stage
  01/21/18
You could have stopped after "girl".
180 onyx twinkling uncleanness
  01/21/18
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Low-t Sound Barrier Trust Fund
  02/14/18
I did this.
talented roast beef pit
  01/21/18
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Fear-inspiring base tank
  01/21/18
My rules were: 1. Never marry a girl with divorced parent...
irradiated green selfie
  01/21/18
This part is actually easy. Divorces are difficult to hide a...
180 onyx twinkling uncleanness
  01/21/18
They used to just burn them... Happy times.
infuriating center
  01/21/18
I think your 2nd point is important. My Mom/Dad is a similar...
talking geriatric heaven
  01/21/18
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Khaki razzle-dazzle stage
  02/14/18
Cr
Khaki razzle-dazzle stage
  02/14/18
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Vigorous blood rage
  01/21/18
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/heart-the-matter/201408...
irradiated green selfie
  01/21/18
Why does the outcome of your parents’ marriage likely affect...
irradiated green selfie
  01/21/18
Just a social construct bro
free-loading hunting ground theater
  01/21/18
This seems unfair. My parents have been married for almos...
turquoise ladyboy
  01/21/18
Because they will die old and alone and need to stop believi...
free-loading hunting ground theater
  01/21/18
Sure, it all comes down to the woman's capacity for self-aw...
Outnumbered step-uncle's house
  01/21/18
spin, ratfucks
Razzmatazz Party Of The First Part
  02/14/18
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thirsty pervert fanboi
  02/14/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 4:07 AM
Author: Brass slimy boistinker



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Date: January 21st, 2018 4:09 AM
Author: misunderstood resort

It's a big warning sign for sure.

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Date: February 14th, 2018 2:25 AM
Author: appetizing dilemma

underrated

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Date: January 21st, 2018 4:11 AM
Author: Razzmatazz Party Of The First Part

spin, ratfucks

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Date: January 21st, 2018 4:12 AM
Author: Glittery alpha

Don't eat yellow snow

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Date: January 21st, 2018 4:14 AM
Author: Canary floppy shrine

You could have stopped after "marry".

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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:32 AM
Author: Outnumbered step-uncle's house



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Date: January 21st, 2018 8:22 AM
Author: Stimulating henna pozpig

1/2 marriages ends in divorce or something like that now.

Thanks for the minefield boomers!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201742)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:43 AM
Author: Zombie-like locale really tough guy

yeah but that 50% is not evenly distributed among marriages

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201922)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: marvelous hyperventilating stage



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:31 AM
Author: 180 onyx twinkling uncleanness

You could have stopped after "girl".



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201880)



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Date: February 14th, 2018 1:47 AM
Author: Low-t Sound Barrier Trust Fund



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:34 AM
Author: talented roast beef pit

I did this.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:36 AM
Author: Fear-inspiring base tank



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:42 AM
Author: irradiated green selfie

My rules were:

1. Never marry a girl with divorced parents

2. Never marry an only child

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201916)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:42 AM
Author: 180 onyx twinkling uncleanness

This part is actually easy. Divorces are difficult to hide and given grrrl power, most women don't even care to hide it anymore.

The harder situation is where the mom is a cunt and the beta husband has stuck by her. No divorce. Infact just the opposite - outwardly look like a happy family. The daughters of these women are also nightmares. I know. I married one. Only later it came out that the family was dysfunctional. The dad had basically checked out and the mom was making all decisions and was a bitch. I ended up divorcing her. She got married again and divorced again. She has two kids from the second marriage. She is a single mom. Her second ex pines to see the kids (know this from fb) but she moved them away to another state.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201918)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:51 AM
Author: infuriating center

They used to just burn them... Happy times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201959)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:56 AM
Author: talking geriatric heaven

I think your 2nd point is important. My Mom/Dad is a similar situation unfortunately. I have 3 sisters and they've proven to be insufferable in their relationships. I've felt bad for all my bro in laws.

One sister was married and promptly divorced after a few years. I was never clued in that much on their life but knowing my sister, I can only imagine it was a circus. Another verbally abuses her husband openly. I was just visiting them for Christmas because they recently had a baby. Multiple times I've felt uncomfortable and had to leave the room when my sister would be berating him. Shits bad man, stay away from these types.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201965)



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Date: February 14th, 2018 1:03 AM
Author: Khaki razzle-dazzle stage



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Date: February 14th, 2018 1:02 AM
Author: Khaki razzle-dazzle stage

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35398841)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:42 AM
Author: Vigorous blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201919)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:45 AM
Author: irradiated green selfie

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/heart-the-matter/201408/are-children-divorce-doomed-fail

On one hand, there is consistent evidence to indicate that it might be. As recently as 2004, Wallerstein asserted that divorce begets fewer marriages, poorer marriages, and more divorces—and that divorce is not an acute stress from which children recover, but a life-transforming experience. While many scholars disagree with Wallerstein’s fatalistic assessment of young adults from divorced families, the fact remains that numerous empirical studies have found that those who experience a parental divorce are significantly more likely to divorce themselves. In fact, there is a substantial body of research on this phenomenon, sometimes referred to as the “intergenerational transmission of divorce.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201929)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: irradiated green selfie

Why does the outcome of your parents’ marriage likely affect the outcome of yours? There are a few theories on this. First, many researchers have focused on parents as being important marriage role models. They argue that most of us model our own marriage after our parents’ marriage, and are therefore likely to experience the same result. Second, more specifically, those of us with divorced parents (or parents with poor quality marriages), are not likely to learn important relationship skills that we need to build successful marriages. For example, research has linked growing up in a divorced family to the use of more negative or destructive strategies for dealing with conflict, and conflict resolution skills (not surprisingly) are linked to overall marital quality and stability. Finally, growing up in a divorced family is likely to change your attitudes about marriage. That is, you are less likely to consider marriage to be a life-long endeavor, and are more accepting of divorce. Some studies have even shown that those from divorced families are more likely to consider divorce as an option at the first sign of trouble in a new marriage, as opposed to their peers from married families who may consider some conflict to be a normal part of marital ups and downs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201933)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:47 AM
Author: free-loading hunting ground theater

Just a social construct bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201937)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 9:58 AM
Author: turquoise ladyboy

This seems unfair.

My parents have been married for almost 35 years but are miserable together. They're just too poor or scared or inert or something. Why should people who have the courage to pull the plug and get on with their lives - and possibly find someone someone who will make them happy for the latter part of their life - be punished?

That's setting aside the pe spoons that it's silly to punish your future wife over something her parents did.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201967)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 10:00 AM
Author: free-loading hunting ground theater

Because they will die old and alone and need to stop believing (((hollywood))) stories of (((Romance))

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201974)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 10:02 AM
Author: Outnumbered step-uncle's house

Sure, it all comes down to the woman's capacity for self-awareness and governance of her own choices. See every Daily Stoic thread. But most women (and men) lack this capacity and are unwittingly programmed by their childhood experiences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35201979)



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Date: February 14th, 2018 2:25 AM
Author: Razzmatazz Party Of The First Part

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35399088)



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Date: February 14th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: thirsty pervert fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866140&forum_id=2#35398801)