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GF wants to take a "weekend getaway" trip that will cost me $1500. Excessive?
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:26 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo I don't even want to go, but the flight + her choosing one of the most expensive hotels in the area is adding up fast. That's not even counting eating out, etc. Just for a weekend. Its for her birthday FWIW, just her and I, she would be paying for her flight and half the hotel too.
Also, FWIW, I've literally never once bought a flight to go on a weekend trip that wasn't a bachelor party or a family get together.
Also FWIW I'm poor compared to guys like Earl. |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: Gold black woman Yeah its fine but make sure she pays her pre agreed share. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647316) |
Date: March 20th, 2018 5:27 PM Author: Fantasy-prone bateful location nowag invite over some friends and show her places she'd never knew existed. my fee is $5 plus travel by railcar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647308) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 1:45 PM Author: drab shitlib lol wut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35653148) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:27 PM Author: Hateful lay State your income & networth along with you and your GF's attractiveness on a scale of 1-10. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647310) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:29 PM Author: territorial chad pistol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647324) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo - income - pretty shitty, bad year last year - networth - ok but I'm not digging into savings for this shit - 8, shes a great girl, cooks for me all the time, heroic (but her expensive tastes are starting to show a little) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: territorial chad pistol People that call their gfs "a great girl" ought to be suspect of their commitment to them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647335) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: Hateful lay NUMBERS FAGGOT. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647336) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Erotic fragrant haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647376) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:07 PM Author: Razzle stubborn native lets hear the numbers. otherwise this thread is pointless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647622) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:23 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo uh no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647730) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: tan liquid oxygen thats less than 3 eth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647312) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:29 PM Author: Lime Big Station Rigpig I think it's excessive. It's also a warning sign for things to come. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647323) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: tan liquid oxygen will she let u anal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647326) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Hateful lay This is why you don't do weekend trips as a birthday gift. You do them any other time so you can split 50/50. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647331) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Erotic fragrant haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647332) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: Bull headed roommate locale That's dumb. Don't do it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647337) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: bistre mad cow disease tattoo Has she made dinner reservations? Was wondering how pricey that was gonna be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647358) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647363) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: bistre mad cow disease tattoo Did she just decide on this trip recently? It seems like y'all could do something local this weekend and plan a longer trip that would be more fun and you could find cheaper flights in advance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647385) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:38 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo the flights aren't even that bad, like $300-400ish. The hotel and other shit is what is going to add up. This is for this spring/summer, not soon. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647396) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: Electric Boltzmann Set It's the part where she picked one of the most expensive hotels that troubles me about this girl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647366) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo we recently took a trip to the "mountains", she was super picky about the fucking hotel, would only stay in "nice" ones when there were perfectly good ones (Hampton, etc) for half the price right next door. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647379) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:39 PM Author: Electric Boltzmann Set bad sign! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647400) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:35 PM Author: Lime Big Station Rigpig what does she do for a living? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647370) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: violent slap-happy tank lol @ this glorified sugar baby demanding respect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647382) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:39 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater ljl expensive "getaway wkends" are the biggest GC flame imaginable. just spend thousands for just a few hours of daylight on the ground -- and spend almost as much time getting there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647403) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:41 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo I spent a little more than this traveling to SE Asia for two weeks (flight plus hotels). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647412) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:45 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater precisely. you know the solution: ATD --> bkk ladybois
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: razzle-dazzle lake dilemma patrolman lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647580) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:01 PM Author: jade exciting legal warrant coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647588) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: Razzle stubborn native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647626) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Vermilion Idea He Suggested People Who Are Hurt At most, weekend getaway should be 1-3hr drive MAX to a destination where you'll do shit, maybe like outdoor activities, or things unique to that area. Hotel just needs to be clean, not necessarily fancy.
Do you do loyalty w/ any particular chain, if it was me I'd probably just steer her to whatever is the nicest Marriott/Hilton/whatever and say you're limited the scope to that since you get the points, etc. When I travel to non-urban areas I stay at plenty of Marriott sub brands which are suitable w/o being too pricey. |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 9:23 PM Author: Haunting Diverse Menage CR. I bet she has a lot of Instagram followers tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35648993) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: territorial chad pistol dat cancel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647407) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: lilac abnormal affirmative action yarmulke If she wants a $1500 trip to celebrate a stupid birthday, it will only get worse. Dump. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647541) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater in b4 "not even ok if you make 800k/yr like me (nutella)" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647552) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Frum Charismatic Church Water Buffalo ONLY problem with this is that I am going on a bachelor party like two weeks before her birthday weekend. But it will be a lot cheaper (weekend in NOLA where I am splitting hotel room 4 ways) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647553) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:58 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater i fail to see the problem. if she cant distinguish the two, ATD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647563) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:58 PM Author: Fantasy-prone bateful location nowag ONLY difference it's your fucking cash. not like she's staying home raising your kid. i will punch her for free since you seem to abhor violence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647565) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:06 PM Author: Erotic fragrant haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647617) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: Razzle stubborn native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647629) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:06 PM Author: lilac abnormal affirmative action yarmulke I fail to see the relevance of this.
Bachelor/bachelorette parties are a one time event for your close friend, not a birthday you do every year. |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:07 PM Author: razzle-dazzle lake dilemma patrolman the relevance is that it's money and time not being spent on a selfish chick (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647621) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater tbf, anything can be spun as a "one time" event. i dont buy this. the issue is cost/value/selfishness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647627) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: lemon mother knife How much is the hotel/night? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647570) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:02 PM Author: razzle-dazzle lake dilemma patrolman how many nights are you going for?
if it's really just friday and saturday night and it's costing the two of you a combined $3k just for flight/hotel, then that's pretty expensive. you'll easily spend another $1k on meals, drinks and other shit |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:15 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater cr, plus divide this by the actual time you'll spend on the ground (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647678) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:19 PM Author: razzle-dazzle lake dilemma patrolman also how long has he been dating this chick?
i can see splurging a bit by a married couple who hasn't been away in ages and can easily afford it, but not for some gf of 6 months lol |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:05 PM Author: wonderful voyeur how many times will you get to cum?
bbbj? cim? A+? |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: Thriller office would you let an xoxo poa fuck her in exchange for the $1500 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35647632) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 9:23 PM Author: emerald nudist laser beams Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35648995) |
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Date: March 20th, 2018 9:26 PM Author: Haunting Diverse Menage If she's paying half of the flight and the hotel, that's a great start. But that's a lot of money for a weekend trip, expensive hotels are dumb, and the desire to spend lots of money on stuff like this doesn't seem like it would go away (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35649021) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 2:19 AM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater half =/= great start.
op shouldnt 50% subsidize her stupidity.
plus he'll end up paying far more in the end. |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 7:53 PM Author: Haunting Diverse Menage ok that's fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35656413) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 2:36 AM Author: dashing opaque theater stage 120. Stand up for yourself and say Hampton Inn is fine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35650870) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 3:22 AM Author: Yapping mood death wish I took my gf to Walmart for a weekend get away and paid for the groceries. It was me who then insisted on going to the nicer grocery store next to buy steaks, but in a sign of my generosity I did not complain when she put hummus in the cart even though it was a big tub of fancy hummus and would have been cheaper to buy at Walmart.
I also bought oil and fluids for the POS Jeep I bought for her to drive ($1500 for the Jeep the same amount as your flame “weekend getaway,”) but she is going to change it. Of course I still have to do some welding on it. Not letting her touch my welder.
Live the prole life. It’s so 180. |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 2:05 PM Author: exhilarant up-to-no-good foreskin ticket booth would read again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35653311) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 7:53 PM Author: Haunting Diverse Menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35656417) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 7:54 PM Author: bistre mad cow disease tattoo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35656430) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 3:36 AM Author: Talented Sickened Famous Landscape Painting Locus What hotel brand? Open a new credit card and use points. www.Reddit.com/r/churning |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 9:45 AM Author: irradiated lodge flying for a long weekend trip is dumb. there are plenty of nice places in the southeast you can drive to.
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Date: March 21st, 2018 10:23 AM Author: concupiscible son of senegal Just say no, it's a waste of money. If she can't see that when you calmly explain it, you got a problem.
Also fuck flying for a weekend. Airports are modern torture chambers. Completely defeats the purpose of what should be a relaxing trip. Go to dinner and a show, sleep in your own bed. |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 11:40 AM Author: rusted gunner stead completely ridiculous & you know this already (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35652215) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 11:41 AM Author: twinkling whorehouse rigor WAY too much. Fuck no. Especially if you don't even want to go. Let her pay for it if she's so desperate to go.
EDIT WITH her paying 1/2 the hotel and her flight it's STILL $1,500 for you? JFC what did she plan for a weekend? |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 1:15 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35652920) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 1:44 PM Author: Ivory hairless garrison halford I just put my fucking foot down in a major way and bitched out the fiance when she proposed something similar to this. You need to do so as well unless you want to be viewed as a wallet with a dick attached, or to otherwise encourage completely frivolous spending habits. You need to understand - a woman will not save anything, will not care about investments, will make no prudent financial decisions, but rather will spend all that she makes plus (1) whatever she can get out of you and (2) additional credit extended to her by banks. This is in my experience the attitude of 98% of women I know, and I don't even hold it against them because it seems something inherent to the mindset of even otherwise completely wonderful, educated and marriageable women, and primarily the man's fault if he acquiesces.
In my case, finance proposed spontaneous four day trip to Europe, on the basis we could use some airlines miles and thus it would be "free." What she meant by that is it was free to her and she failed to acknowledge, much less calculate, the additional expenses incurred on lodging, food and whatever activities she thought we were going to do while there. |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 1:51 PM Author: Thriller office BEEP BEEP BEEP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35653188) |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 1:52 PM Author: iridescent supple range volcanic crater good poast
and re, "This is in my experience the attitude of 98% of women I know" -- fitting that jews are 2% of the country. ljl @ goy women. |
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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:08 PM Author: French mind-boggling trust fund meetinghouse you want to spend all that money and especially time flying for a weekend trip? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3923926&forum_id=2#35656581) |