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girls who say "you're not gonna ghost me, right"

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want...
Cyan swashbuckling scourge upon the earth theatre
  04/23/18
just don't respond and ghost them
aromatic generalized bond church
  04/23/18
They want to ghost you first
Flickering amethyst pozpig
  04/23/18
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Copper soul-stirring rehab boistinker
  04/23/18
That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with ...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly d...
Cyan swashbuckling scourge upon the earth theatre
  04/23/18
This kind of thing made me realize personality really does m...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
the begging is 180
smoky glittery theater
  04/23/18
It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last tex...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
Lol, no it is not
Bright razzmatazz codepig
  04/23/18
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unhinged property marketing idea
  04/23/18
You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick...
Flesh Seedy Stock Car Church Building
  04/23/18
That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 u...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
That's on you for providing us with incomplete information t...
Flesh Seedy Stock Car Church Building
  04/23/18
mods
Mustard trust fund boiling water
  04/23/18
This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading
aqua stubborn hall fat ankles
  04/23/18
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wine dragon field
  04/23/18
disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearl...
Offensive carmine sanctuary ape
  04/23/18
these girls like getting choked when you bang them
Bearded Step-uncle's House
  04/23/18
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Salmon Liquid Oxygen Pit
  04/23/18
that's literally all girls, bro
flushed hell kitty cat
  04/23/18
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Wild public bath
  04/23/18
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Bearded Step-uncle's House
  04/23/18
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Bearded Step-uncle's House
  04/23/18
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Bisexual Passionate Hospital Voyeur
  04/24/18
lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hou...
Cerebral stain
  04/23/18
Yeah it’s the other way around
talented rusted parlour
  04/23/18
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twinkling histrionic senate cumskin
  04/23/18
Cool story, pepito.
know-it-all crimson native
  04/23/18
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wine dragon field
  04/23/18
reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on...
flushed hell kitty cat
  04/23/18
never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah...
Wild public bath
  04/23/18
At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel,...
flushed hell kitty cat
  04/23/18
It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftover...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it an...
flushed hell kitty cat
  04/23/18
...
wine dragon field
  04/23/18
...
Provocative Pervert
  04/24/18
Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me
irradiated friendly grandma
  04/23/18
Never know what hit 'em
massive nursing home mad cow disease
  04/23/18
What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think...
Impertinent Temple
  04/23/18
She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that yo...
sadistic brunch hunting ground
  04/23/18
...
slippery factory reset button point
  04/23/18
...
Bearded Step-uncle's House
  04/23/18
...
Bisexual Passionate Hospital Voyeur
  04/24/18
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Motley hissy fit
  04/24/18
It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If y...
know-it-all crimson native
  04/23/18
If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice....
know-it-all crimson native
  04/23/18
Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?
Flickering amethyst pozpig
  04/23/18
...
twinkling histrionic senate cumskin
  04/23/18
It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as ...
know-it-all crimson native
  04/23/18
It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortun...
sadistic brunch hunting ground
  04/24/18
:(
Flickering amethyst pozpig
  04/24/18
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Motley hissy fit
  04/24/18
ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whils...
Avocado tanning salon
  04/24/18
Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed ...
Salmon Liquid Oxygen Pit
  04/24/18


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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Cyan swashbuckling scourge upon the earth theatre

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want me to stay with them or a combo of both? have had two girls in the last month say this to me in person by the end of the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902183)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:14 PM
Author: aromatic generalized bond church

just don't respond and ghost them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902188)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Flickering amethyst pozpig

They want to ghost you first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902201)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: Copper soul-stirring rehab boistinker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904605)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: wine dragon field

That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with big eyes if you want to see them again.

Smh modern society has destroyed women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902204)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: Cyan swashbuckling scourge upon the earth theatre

yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly decent in the moment bc i know they like me but it makes me feel really guilty when i inevitably ghost/dump them. never seems to happen with girls i have a mutual like for though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902226)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: wine dragon field

This kind of thing made me realize personality really does matter for women a lot. The begging is unattractive.

Ofc if the same girl expressed only passing interest I'd be all over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902238)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: smoky glittery theater

the begging is 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902423)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: wine dragon field

It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last text. "Well I had a great time meeting you! If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know :-)"

Poor girls. As terrible as dating is for men these days it psychologically far more brutal on women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902465)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Bright razzmatazz codepig

Lol, no it is not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902497)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:14 PM
Author: unhinged property marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903903)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Flesh Seedy Stock Car Church Building

You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick being polite and expressing interest in seeing you again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903888)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: wine dragon field

That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 unanswered texts with increasing time gaps and urgency.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903913)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: Flesh Seedy Stock Car Church Building

That's on you for providing us with incomplete information to analyze. In the hypothetical, as presented, the chick acted properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905109)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: Mustard trust fund boiling water

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902470)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: aqua stubborn hall fat ankles

This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902237)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: wine dragon field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902418)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Offensive carmine sanctuary ape

disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearly discussing this from a CHAD perspective. So this only happens when individuals vastly misread the market and exclusively pursue Chad. So they bring this on themselves.

I similarly have little empathy for medianpwned students who strike out because they're only willing to work at V10.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904834)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: Bearded Step-uncle's House

these girls like getting choked when you bang them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902432)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Salmon Liquid Oxygen Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903849)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: flushed hell kitty cat

that's literally all girls, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903896)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Wild public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903899)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Bearded Step-uncle's House



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904153)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Bearded Step-uncle's House



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904152)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: Bisexual Passionate Hospital Voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906349)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: Cerebral stain

lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hours of meeting you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902437)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: talented rusted parlour

Yeah it’s the other way around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902457)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:50 PM
Author: twinkling histrionic senate cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902478)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: know-it-all crimson native

Cool story, pepito.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: wine dragon field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: flushed hell kitty cat

reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on the date with Olivia Wilde, starts making out with her, and then she stops and says "you're not just gonna fuck me and not call like the other guys, right?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903839)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Wild public bath

never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah babe I think you're great

*fuck then ghost*

he'd not stop and be so faggy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903898)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: wine dragon field

At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903917)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:18 PM
Author: flushed hell kitty cat

a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel, but bad with IRL women

b) it is definitely a bonerkill of a line, especially in its crudity, immediately summoning mental images of her riding the cock carousel countless times. A true Chad might not care, but for any average guy, it's a big turn off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903934)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: wine dragon field

It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftovers.

Girls who use that line are already broken fundamentally and cannot be dated.

It's sad af. They aren't responsible for their bird brains being manipulated and shaped like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903956)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: flushed hell kitty cat

yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it and judge them harshly

on the other hand, it wasn't always this way. I mean, a slut in the 1940s deserved to be shunned because all of society/culture was incentivizing them to settle down early and be virtuous. Nowadays, their bird brains, as you noted, are bombarded literally 24/7 with the message of COCK COCK CUM, so I mostly feel bad for them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903968)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:25 PM
Author: wine dragon field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903980)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:15 AM
Author: Provocative Pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907747)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: irradiated friendly grandma

Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903851)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: massive nursing home mad cow disease

Never know what hit 'em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903957)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Impertinent Temple

What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think they believe it will get someone who was on the fence to not ghost? Or that someone who would ghost would feel guilty and leave?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904148)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: sadistic brunch hunting ground

She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that you'll pump and dump which is a natural progression to her letting you fuck her.

Yes, this is a major turn off and makes me view the girl as leftovers. It's a common line you get from girls who are 6s that are very fuckable in the eyes of top 20% dudes but not long term dateable.

These girls tend to lie around the 60th percentile and can short term date (ie fuck for a few months) guys in the 80th percentile but guys in the 80th percentile ultimately know they can do better (80th percentile women). It is this statistical mismatch between genders that really fucks things up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904380)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: slippery factory reset button point



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904823)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Bearded Step-uncle's House



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904829)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: Bisexual Passionate Hospital Voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906362)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Motley hissy fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907171)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:28 PM
Author: know-it-all crimson native

It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If you’re worried about someone ghosting you, ghost them first and play hard to get. Guys like the chase.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904840)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: know-it-all crimson native

If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice. Run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904831)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:30 PM
Author: Flickering amethyst pozpig

Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904857)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: twinkling histrionic senate cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904883)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: know-it-all crimson native

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as a result of being ghosted. It’s attachment theory 101.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905016)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: sadistic brunch hunting ground

It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortunately. It just means they overestimate their value as a long-term dating prospect.

They won't get much sympathy from non-Chads though for obvious reasons since non-Chads feel spurned by these girls. High value dudes may feel bad for them though because these girls will chase them and depending on their conscience, they'll either fuck and chuck, or politely turn them down. If the former, they're either sociopaths or will eventually stop after one too many guilt trips or finding a satisfactory long-term partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906594)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: Flickering amethyst pozpig

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907167)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: Motley hissy fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907173)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:28 AM
Author: Avocado tanning salon

ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whilst NYUUG sportfucks their women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906845)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:13 AM
Author: Salmon Liquid Oxygen Pit

Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed a gun into the belly and whispered, "....yes..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907732)