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girls who say "you're not gonna ghost me, right"

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want...
curious windowlicker
  04/23/18
just don't respond and ghost them
provocative church building
  04/23/18
They want to ghost you first
Offensive soul-stirring house
  04/23/18
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transparent rehab
  04/23/18
That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with ...
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly d...
curious windowlicker
  04/23/18
This kind of thing made me realize personality really does m...
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
the begging is 180
impressive aromatic theatre
  04/23/18
It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last tex...
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
Lol, no it is not
Khaki Death Wish Pistol
  04/23/18
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dun vigorous fanboi
  04/23/18
You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick...
cerebral locus pozpig
  04/23/18
That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 u...
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
That's on you for providing us with incomplete information t...
cerebral locus pozpig
  04/23/18
mods
Garnet Blood Rage
  04/23/18
This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading
Dead Immigrant
  04/23/18
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Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearl...
180 theater
  04/23/18
these girls like getting choked when you bang them
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  04/23/18
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chocolate deep hospital
  04/23/18
that's literally all girls, bro
Massive azn digit ratio
  04/23/18
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Sick Laughsome Orchestra Pit
  04/23/18
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  04/23/18
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Talented canary heaven roommate
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free-loading forum
  04/24/18
lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hou...
jet party of the first part
  04/23/18
Yeah it’s the other way around
Aggressive Jet-lagged Haunted Graveyard
  04/23/18
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Vivacious lettuce plaza
  04/23/18
Cool story, pepito.
pale philosopher-king potus
  04/23/18
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Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on...
Massive azn digit ratio
  04/23/18
never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah...
Sick Laughsome Orchestra Pit
  04/23/18
At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel,...
Massive azn digit ratio
  04/23/18
It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftover...
Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it an...
Massive azn digit ratio
  04/23/18
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Startled market ceo
  04/23/18
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aphrodisiac sienna parlor gay wizard
  04/24/18
Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me
Multi-colored Mildly Autistic Fat Ankles Church
  04/23/18
Never know what hit 'em
Magenta office
  04/23/18
What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think...
Nubile vermilion senate weed whacker
  04/23/18
She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that yo...
Dashing crotch
  04/23/18
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Wild White Property Goal In Life
  04/23/18
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Talented canary heaven roommate
  04/23/18
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free-loading forum
  04/24/18
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frozen bipolar selfie nursing home
  04/24/18
It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If y...
pale philosopher-king potus
  04/23/18
If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice....
pale philosopher-king potus
  04/23/18
Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?
Offensive soul-stirring house
  04/23/18
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Vivacious lettuce plaza
  04/23/18
It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as ...
pale philosopher-king potus
  04/23/18
It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortun...
Dashing crotch
  04/24/18
:(
Offensive soul-stirring house
  04/24/18
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frozen bipolar selfie nursing home
  04/24/18
ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whils...
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  04/24/18
Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed ...
chocolate deep hospital
  04/24/18


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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: curious windowlicker

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want me to stay with them or a combo of both? have had two girls in the last month say this to me in person by the end of the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902183)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:14 PM
Author: provocative church building

just don't respond and ghost them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902188)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Offensive soul-stirring house

They want to ghost you first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902201)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: transparent rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904605)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with big eyes if you want to see them again.

Smh modern society has destroyed women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902204)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: curious windowlicker

yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly decent in the moment bc i know they like me but it makes me feel really guilty when i inevitably ghost/dump them. never seems to happen with girls i have a mutual like for though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902226)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

This kind of thing made me realize personality really does matter for women a lot. The begging is unattractive.

Ofc if the same girl expressed only passing interest I'd be all over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902238)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: impressive aromatic theatre

the begging is 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902423)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last text. "Well I had a great time meeting you! If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know :-)"

Poor girls. As terrible as dating is for men these days it psychologically far more brutal on women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902465)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Khaki Death Wish Pistol

Lol, no it is not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902497)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:14 PM
Author: dun vigorous fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903903)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: cerebral locus pozpig

You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick being polite and expressing interest in seeing you again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903888)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 unanswered texts with increasing time gaps and urgency.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903913)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: cerebral locus pozpig

That's on you for providing us with incomplete information to analyze. In the hypothetical, as presented, the chick acted properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905109)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: Garnet Blood Rage

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902470)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Dead Immigrant

This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902237)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Startled market ceo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902418)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: 180 theater

disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearly discussing this from a CHAD perspective. So this only happens when individuals vastly misread the market and exclusively pursue Chad. So they bring this on themselves.

I similarly have little empathy for medianpwned students who strike out because they're only willing to work at V10.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904834)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: Talented canary heaven roommate

these girls like getting choked when you bang them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902432)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: chocolate deep hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903849)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Massive azn digit ratio

that's literally all girls, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903896)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Sick Laughsome Orchestra Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903899)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Talented canary heaven roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904153)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Talented canary heaven roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904152)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: free-loading forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906349)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: jet party of the first part

lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hours of meeting you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902437)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: Aggressive Jet-lagged Haunted Graveyard

Yeah it’s the other way around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902457)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:50 PM
Author: Vivacious lettuce plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902478)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: pale philosopher-king potus

Cool story, pepito.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: Startled market ceo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: Massive azn digit ratio

reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on the date with Olivia Wilde, starts making out with her, and then she stops and says "you're not just gonna fuck me and not call like the other guys, right?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903839)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Sick Laughsome Orchestra Pit

never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah babe I think you're great

*fuck then ghost*

he'd not stop and be so faggy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903898)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903917)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:18 PM
Author: Massive azn digit ratio

a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel, but bad with IRL women

b) it is definitely a bonerkill of a line, especially in its crudity, immediately summoning mental images of her riding the cock carousel countless times. A true Chad might not care, but for any average guy, it's a big turn off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903934)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: Startled market ceo

It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftovers.

Girls who use that line are already broken fundamentally and cannot be dated.

It's sad af. They aren't responsible for their bird brains being manipulated and shaped like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903956)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: Massive azn digit ratio

yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it and judge them harshly

on the other hand, it wasn't always this way. I mean, a slut in the 1940s deserved to be shunned because all of society/culture was incentivizing them to settle down early and be virtuous. Nowadays, their bird brains, as you noted, are bombarded literally 24/7 with the message of COCK COCK CUM, so I mostly feel bad for them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903968)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:25 PM
Author: Startled market ceo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903980)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:15 AM
Author: aphrodisiac sienna parlor gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907747)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: Multi-colored Mildly Autistic Fat Ankles Church

Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903851)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: Magenta office

Never know what hit 'em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903957)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Nubile vermilion senate weed whacker

What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think they believe it will get someone who was on the fence to not ghost? Or that someone who would ghost would feel guilty and leave?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904148)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: Dashing crotch

She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that you'll pump and dump which is a natural progression to her letting you fuck her.

Yes, this is a major turn off and makes me view the girl as leftovers. It's a common line you get from girls who are 6s that are very fuckable in the eyes of top 20% dudes but not long term dateable.

These girls tend to lie around the 60th percentile and can short term date (ie fuck for a few months) guys in the 80th percentile but guys in the 80th percentile ultimately know they can do better (80th percentile women). It is this statistical mismatch between genders that really fucks things up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904380)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Wild White Property Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904823)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Talented canary heaven roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904829)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: free-loading forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906362)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: frozen bipolar selfie nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907171)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:28 PM
Author: pale philosopher-king potus

It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If you’re worried about someone ghosting you, ghost them first and play hard to get. Guys like the chase.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904840)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: pale philosopher-king potus

If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice. Run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904831)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:30 PM
Author: Offensive soul-stirring house

Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904857)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: Vivacious lettuce plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904883)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: pale philosopher-king potus

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as a result of being ghosted. It’s attachment theory 101.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905016)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: Dashing crotch

It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortunately. It just means they overestimate their value as a long-term dating prospect.

They won't get much sympathy from non-Chads though for obvious reasons since non-Chads feel spurned by these girls. High value dudes may feel bad for them though because these girls will chase them and depending on their conscience, they'll either fuck and chuck, or politely turn them down. If the former, they're either sociopaths or will eventually stop after one too many guilt trips or finding a satisfactory long-term partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906594)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: Offensive soul-stirring house

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907167)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: frozen bipolar selfie nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907173)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:28 AM
Author: diverse shrine elastic band

ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whilst NYUUG sportfucks their women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906845)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:13 AM
Author: chocolate deep hospital

Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed a gun into the belly and whispered, "....yes..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907732)