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Meeting a STEM PhD chick tomorrow night (CharlesXII)

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only ...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
you got this.
vibrant shivering hospital codepig
  05/24/18
180 friend rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field
internet-worthy aromatic brunch ladyboy
  05/24/18
Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in milit...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
Send her some of your best work pieces
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of datin...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/24/18
just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, j...
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
oh come on
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/24/18
come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucki...
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted b...
unholy sweet tailpipe
  05/24/18
what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
180 OKC prospect?
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
180, way to broaden your scope
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-f...
Marvelous dopamine
  05/24/18
...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
Well then you'd better give me my last warning before report...
Marvelous dopamine
  05/24/18
lol
Bateful Abnormal Striped Hyena
  05/25/18
...
Flushed partner hunting ground
  05/26/18
korean?
Hideous Aqua Mental Disorder Haunted Graveyard
  05/24/18
...
Low-t halford
  05/24/18
White
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
what happened with quail family i can't keep up with this...
Low-t halford
  05/24/18
he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, co...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first ...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
what is the age range for all of them? just go for the youn...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interes...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
...
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow i...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/24/18
Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I rea...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
180 moniker
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  05/24/18
...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first ...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/24/18
Charles thread in 2024: “Wife found out I asked out younge...
Rambunctious Skinny Woman
  05/24/18
underrated
territorial ebony theater lettuce
  05/25/18
nice. where are you meeting her?
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/24/18
DuPont Circle area.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
starbucks or a bar? if starbucks, make sure you go to the...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/24/18
she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've...
fuchsia soul-stirring point
  05/24/18
almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it&q...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/24/18
Fortunately, I picked a bar.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
'atta guy. smart move.
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/24/18
coffee dates are for losers
cracking self-centered yarmulke
  05/26/18
Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said ...
Vermilion orchestra pit rigor
  05/25/18
Is this a story from 1980?
territorial ebony theater lettuce
  05/25/18
180, now we're talking
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  05/24/18
180 I am for you brother This is my favorite series in mo...
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  05/24/18
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Rambunctious Skinny Woman
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on thi...
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...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
oh ok what is your theory why
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...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for the...
vivacious ratface church
  05/24/18
"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on...
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
still false.
Jet-lagged gaped mediation
  05/24/18
lol do you follow your horoscope too?
unholy sweet tailpipe
  05/24/18
...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
(the xo story)
vivacious ratface church
  05/24/18
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Obsidian garrison
  05/25/18
what the fuck
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  05/24/18
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.
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  05/31/18
DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date
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  05/24/18
Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial ...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/24/18
...
Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/24/18
I know what it's for but trying to limit details here. Ha...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/25/18
STEM phd from a good university likes reading likes co...
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  05/24/18
cr
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  05/24/18
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  05/25/18
great thread without even a single pic
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/25/18
(literal anti-free speech shitlib)
Splenetic Dilemma Internal Respiration
  05/25/18
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/25/18
POUND THAT PUSSY.
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  05/25/18
If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above...
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Indigo Mood Shrine
  05/25/18
still the cr
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...
Carmine liquid oxygen
  05/25/18
Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonigh...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
She wants to make a good impression.
passionate crusty gunner lay
  05/25/18
Hopefully, friend.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
...
appetizing hell
  05/25/18
This is called online dating. You need to see this.
out-of-control locus
  05/25/18
CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must exp...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/25/18
"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this ...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experienc...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/25/18
I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual w...
Trip flatulent den wrinkle
  05/25/18
Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wro...
fuchsia soul-stirring point
  05/25/18
This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long per...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
ljl you're fucked.
fuchsia soul-stirring point
  05/25/18
Probably.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/...
Trip flatulent den wrinkle
  05/25/18
at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa cl...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/25/18
...
contagious ruddy ape pit
  05/25/18
You need to care less
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  05/25/18
That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain r...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/25/18
this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dati...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/25/18
"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."
Flirting Spot Ceo
  05/25/18
jfc
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/25/18
...
arousing misunderstood field marketing idea
  05/26/18
"hurt her ankle walking to work today" Lies.
bossy address
  05/25/18
...
Trip flatulent den wrinkle
  05/26/18
She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to ...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/26/18
always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're no...
Pearl theater stage volcanic crater
  05/26/18
jfc fuck this gay earth
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/26/18
This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone...
razzle-dazzle school
  05/26/18
Still on for tonight.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/29/18
180000000 you got this bro we are FOR you!
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking ...
Flirting Spot Ceo
  05/29/18
Is she aware you are a racist?
arousing misunderstood field marketing idea
  05/29/18
Seems unlikely, as I'm not.
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/29/18
lets see how i compare: STEM PHD from highly prestigious ...
Diverse kink-friendly casino hissy fit
  05/29/18
Did you want to date CharlesXII?
arousing misunderstood field marketing idea
  05/29/18
no, my autism is strong today is all.
Diverse kink-friendly casino hissy fit
  05/29/18
libraries are your friend, bro reading good books is fun
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?
anal boiling water
  05/29/18
No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.
translucent parlour tank
  05/29/18
I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
Update?
Flirting Spot Ceo
  05/29/18
whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening ...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
9:30 on a school night?
Flirting Spot Ceo
  05/29/18
Thoughts and prayers.
appetizing hell
  05/29/18
Why not EDT? That's very confusing.
Cerebral friendly grandma dingle berry
  05/29/18
haven't heard from Charles since this date started
Carmine liquid oxygen
  05/29/18
that's a good thing!
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/29/18
shit odds he's melting in a vat of science?
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/29/18
If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom. ...
bossy address
  05/29/18
Just wrapped up. I kinda screwed up because the bar I pic...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/30/18
do NOT text her first
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/30/18
DAT | HUG | CLOSE
medicated honey-headed fanboi
  05/30/18
...
Flirting Spot Ceo
  05/30/18
you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her ...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond b...
Stubborn well-lubricated menage
  05/30/18
Describe the nature of this "sick text game."
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/30/18
text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
see I think this is bullshit
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR t...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/30/18
fair point, but don't text first too soon
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to...
Mind-boggling shitlib
  05/30/18
perfect
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably f...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
make it into a very small version of the Charles trip report...
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for he...
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests but ...
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you ...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is...
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
there's more of a balance here than i think you're accountin...
razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse
  05/30/18
Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her...
Snowy Comical Death Wish
  05/30/18
meh that can come off as insincere and sucky just be yourse...
wonderful claret windowlicker
  05/30/18
You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above. N...
razzle-dazzle school
  05/30/18
(Expert in seducing women)
Rebellious Boyish Double Fault
  05/30/18
sounds like a Win to me. she didn't use the bad luck re: ...
Beady-eyed immigrant
  05/30/18
why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the ...
soggy national goal in life
  05/30/18
Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.
House-broken chad legend
  05/30/18


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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only viable response to setbacks is to keep pushing forward.

Tomorrow's prospect just finished a STEM PhD at a highly prestigious university. She likes cooking and reading, watches little television, and was highly intrigued by my 100-book quest. She also is Catholic though to what level of intensity I cannot tell.

Hopefully this one doesn't savagely cancel on me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123123)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:41 PM
Author: vibrant shivering hospital codepig

you got this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123126)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: internet-worthy aromatic brunch ladyboy

180 friend

rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123139)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in military research says her skillset would be useful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123173)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

Send her some of your best work pieces

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123143)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of dating is keeping positive, but don't think about the potential negatives like her cancelling on you. just think about how well y'all might hit it off, especially if she's already PIQUED by your intellectualism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123149)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:45 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, just be completely blindsided by the inevitable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123155)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

oh come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123164)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucking window so we can all lick each other's balls here like we're some sort of a shrew support group?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123174)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: unholy sweet tailpipe

it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted by your own hatred. sorry for you, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123285)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123327)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

180

OKC prospect?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123151)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it so I decided to give it a whirl. Unlike with OKC on CMB I wrote my profile without outside input and made myself seem a little more intense, per TSINAH's suggestion in another thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123183)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

180, way to broaden your scope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123190)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Marvelous dopamine

"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-filled fuming faggotry stands out even on xo, I..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123354)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123397)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Marvelous dopamine

Well then you'd better give me my last warning before reporting me to the bar and filing a police report

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123409)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:52 AM
Author: Bateful Abnormal Striped Hyena

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125838)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: Flushed partner hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130019)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: Hideous Aqua Mental Disorder Haunted Graveyard

korean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123163)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: Low-t halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123181)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

White

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123200)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Low-t halford

what happened with quail family

i can't keep up with this story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123169)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, copped her number, then asked her out via text and she said she "wasn't in a position to date right now" or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123176)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first sister I met had potential) but we're stalled out for now. If I ask out another one I'm doing it in person and that chance may not come for a few weeks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123194)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:53 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

what is the age range for all of them?

just go for the youngest lol (no DBG)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123202)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:58 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interested in the oldest, who has a tremendous amount of interest overlap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123234)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123248)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123256)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow it came up when i was visiting my parents and my father mocked me and referred to her as "the old woman."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123280)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I really like her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123338)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: outnumbered piazza wagecucks

180 moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123369)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123374)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first compliment I've gotten

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123504)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Rambunctious Skinny Woman

Charles thread in 2024:

“Wife found out I asked out younger sister once, divorcing me and taking kids, taking Qs”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123386)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: territorial ebony theater lettuce

underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125987)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

nice. where are you meeting her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123175)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

DuPont Circle area.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123198)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

starbucks or a bar?

if starbucks, make sure you go to the right one.

not long after i moved to dc, i set up an online date with a chick who suggested starbucks in dupont circle. (as i've told you, i hate coffee dates and eventually wrote them off completely.)

anyway, it just so happened that we scheduled the date for sunday at 11 am, but it was the first day of "fall back" (going back to regular time from DST).

well, i get a text from her that morning saying she is there. the text is an hour early. i ask her if she forgot to set her clocks back. she replies, "oh no, i completely forgot about the overnight time change!" anyway, i tell her i'll metro over as soon as i can. she says she'll wait.

well, i was unfamiliar with dupont circle at that point, but i get off at the dupont station and head to the nearby starbucks. no sign of her. i walk around a couple of times. nothing. i text her, and it turns out there's another starbucks a few blocks in the other direction. i walk to that starbucks, but no sign of her there, either. i text her and she never responds, and i never hear from her again. i guess she got tired of waiting considering she got there an hour early based on her own mistake and couldn't tolerate my mistake re: which of two starbucks within several blocks that she was at.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123258)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: fuchsia soul-stirring point

she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've just said "fuck it next time" and she'd be intrigued

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123286)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it" things plenty of times.

but in this instance, it was just a stupid coffee date (which i hate) with someone who i didn't have much hopes for, and something to do on a sunday morning while i was brand new in dc and didn't know anyone. not a chad situation. i found the whole thing amusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123356)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Fortunately, I picked a bar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123345)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

'atta guy. smart move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123367)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:18 AM
Author: cracking self-centered yarmulke

coffee dates are for losers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130033)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Vermilion orchestra pit rigor

Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said Kramer which has a bar but I think coffee too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123723)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: territorial ebony theater lettuce

Is this a story from 1980?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125996)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: spectacular azn idiot

180, now we're talking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123184)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Stimulating stain

180 I am for you brother

This is my favorite series in months, at least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123263)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Rambunctious Skinny Woman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123410)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123264)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: vivacious ratface church

lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123287)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123298)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: vivacious ratface church

oh ok what is your theory why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123328)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123372)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: vivacious ratface church

how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for their income and education level?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123379)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on the spectrum.

False.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123381)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123391)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Jet-lagged gaped mediation

still false.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123414)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: unholy sweet tailpipe

lol do you follow your horoscope too?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123305)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123318)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: vivacious ratface church

(the xo story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123341)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:19 AM
Author: Obsidian garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123984)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: medicated honey-headed fanboi

what the fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123406)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: plum electric old irish cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123475)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123521)



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Date: May 31st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: light confused background story stag film

QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36156768)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Carmine liquid oxygen

DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123301)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial period (about a month) right after, so I'm not sure what the CR goals are. Unlike with first date I'm genuinely interested going in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123412)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123527)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

I know what it's for but trying to limit details here.

Haven't discussed kids or any deep values stuff. We just seem to have similar interests and got along well in chat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123708)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123748)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: Diverse kink-friendly casino hissy fit

STEM phd from a good university

likes reading

likes cooking

doesnt watch tv

and is catholic

and white...

omg, you need to lock that shit down.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123425)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123524)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 PM
Author: contagious ruddy ape pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126017)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Splenetic Dilemma Internal Respiration

great thread without even a single pic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123650)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123685)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:22 AM
Author: Splenetic Dilemma Internal Respiration

(literal anti-free speech shitlib)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123688)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123728)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Curious pea-brained tanning salon gaming laptop

POUND THAT PUSSY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123697)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:26 AM
Author: Trip flatulent den wrinkle

If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above your weight with them. Really lonely, depressed, desperate to interact with ppl who aren't in their lab or whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123703)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: Indigo Mood Shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123783)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Frisky Azure Keepsake Machete Hairy Legs

still the cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125865)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 7:39 AM
Author: Carmine liquid oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36124482)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:00 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonight because she says she hurt her ankle walking to work today. Rescheduled to Tuesday, but if that doesn't work out we won't be able to meet for a month.

Sheesh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125080)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:02 AM
Author: passionate crusty gunner lay

She wants to make a good impression.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125097)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:26 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Hopefully, friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125614)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: appetizing hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126404)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:28 AM
Author: out-of-control locus

This is called online dating. You need to see this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125628)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must experience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125860)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:03 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this is very very unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125920)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experience, to understand the world as it is today & to help build up an immunity.

but psychologically it is exhausting and certainly can lead to increased levels of cynicism and bitterness, of which the observant XO type already has bushels.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125943)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:11 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it's training oneself to be cynical, callous, etc. The process of caring less basically involves learning to like women less and viewing them as disposable. That's not an awesome place to be, if XO is any indication.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125972)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: Trip flatulent den wrinkle

I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual who comes into your life is somehow charmed, as if you aren't just two probabilities rubbing in an absolute void

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125998)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: fuchsia soul-stirring point

Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wrong. Online dating is about the pure disposability of other people. Yes, it will make charlesXII more cynical, because he went around thinking he was a good guy, good character, he works hard, he exercises, he's witty, he reads a lot of books and knows a lot about the world, then BOOM ding'd by stinky 250 pound high school dropouts with boob cheese like HE is the turd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126010)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long period. 2+ years of this and I'll be a much worse person, I think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126025)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: fuchsia soul-stirring point

ljl you're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126029)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Probably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126040)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: Trip flatulent den wrinkle

More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/papers/anderson72more_is_different.pdf

Online dating is a population-level phenomenon. Things like individual sentimentality, attachment etc break down because you are in a big sorting mechanism. If you can float on top of this without losing yourself then you'll be like the guy in that kipling poem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126046)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa claus, sad as that epiphany is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126027)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: contagious ruddy ape pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126022)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: arousing misunderstood field marketing idea

You need to care less

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125643)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain rather irritating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125824)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dating, i would have ebbs and flows of energy. it is exhausting. i would have 5 dates in a week, most would be disappointing, i'd get sick of it, then in a couple weeks do the same thing again. rinse & repeat. occasionally i'd get a short term g/f out of it and date her for a few weeks or a couple months, then lose interest & get tired of the constant demands for my time from shrews who are full of their careers and liberal politics.

hopefully, you can find that rare devoted, maternalistic (not materialistic), religious girl you are seeking & get out of the depressing world of modern dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125912)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:09 PM
Author: Flirting Spot Ceo

"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125957)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:10 PM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125967)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:19 AM
Author: arousing misunderstood field marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130034)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:18 PM
Author: bossy address

"hurt her ankle walking to work today"

Lies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129525)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: Trip flatulent den wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129984)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. If she cancels again on Tuesday I'll let it go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130016)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:09 AM
Author: Pearl theater stage volcanic crater

always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're not hung up on one girl. it's usually not productive sinking a ton of time/effort into texting, chatting, etc. lots of girls will spend a surprising amount of time responding and conversing because they're trained to be agreeable even if they're not interested so you need to be efficient in weeding them out by meeting in person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130121)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:15 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

jfc fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130134)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:17 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle school

This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone for a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130137)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Still on for tonight.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146810)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

180000000 you got this bro

we are FOR you!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146812)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Flirting Spot Ceo

You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking about her work. She's spent 5-6 years giving public talks to informed but non-expert audiences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146907)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: arousing misunderstood field marketing idea

Is she aware you are a racist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146816)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Seems unlikely, as I'm not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146823)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: Diverse kink-friendly casino hissy fit

lets see how i compare:

STEM PHD from highly prestigious uni vs. barely passed CALC 2 for econ and business students

can cook vs. cant cook

reads books. vs havent read a single book in years

barely watches television vs. i have no TV

catholic vs. atheist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146834)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: arousing misunderstood field marketing idea

Did you want to date CharlesXII?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146841)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: Diverse kink-friendly casino hissy fit

no, my autism is strong today is all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146843)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

libraries are your friend, bro

reading good books is fun

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146867)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: anal boiling water

So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146917)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a wife.

He's committed to no sex before marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146959)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: translucent parlour tank

No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147004)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he has incredibly high standards.

it's not his fault that trad catholic non-whores are in such short supply in 2018

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147031)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:19 PM
Author: Flirting Spot Ceo

Update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148912)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening as we speak

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148925)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Flirting Spot Ceo

9:30 on a school night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148999)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:28 PM
Author: appetizing hell

Thoughts and prayers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149018)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: Cerebral friendly grandma dingle berry

Why not EDT? That's very confusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149092)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: Carmine liquid oxygen

haven't heard from Charles since this date started

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149054)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:46 PM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

that's a good thing!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149187)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

shit

odds he's melting in a vat of science?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149295)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: bossy address

If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom.

RIP Charles XII.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149564)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Just wrapped up.

I kinda screwed up because the bar I picked turned out to have busted AC, and then the next one I picked had just shit down its kitchen (we wanted food), so we ended up just going to the DuPont Shake Shack. Talked for about two hours. I had a good time and I think she did as well, but we only closed with a hug. Still, I'd be happy to see her again if she's interested. Sadly she is promptly leaving for a month, so this is sort of on pause for now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149690)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

do NOT text her first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149699)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: medicated honey-headed fanboi

DAT | HUG | CLOSE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149705)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Flirting Spot Ceo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150536)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her interested, if you're enthused for when she's back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149809)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Stubborn well-lubricated menage

tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond between texts. If she waits a day, you wait a day. If she responds right away, then you can too. etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149832)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Describe the nature of this "sick text game."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149848)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing (as guy above says), be sure to work in things you know about her that might get her to reveal more about herself, but not so obviously that it's pandering. sort of a tightrope walk, in a few different ways

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149859)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

see I think this is bullshit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149863)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it's easy to get overwhelmed by too much or too little communication, and more women than men are shy and want to be courted in the sense of have their interests sought. if you let it become an interview, you've gone too far, but if you pick things to say that you know they can run with, it'll be a better conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149876)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR to wait on her to text?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149886)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

fair point, but don't text first too soon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149892)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: Mind-boggling shitlib

Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to New Orleans. She suggested getting beignets at the Cafe du Monde so I can probably send a pic when I actually do that, and progress from there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149903)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:52 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

perfect

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149907)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably find a few other things in the french district that she'd be interested in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149911)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

make it into a very small version of the Charles trip reports: a pic and a comment a day, or whatever pace works for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149917)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for her" approach

women ARE shy and need some encouragement sometimes

see my post below too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149896)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests

but the "infrequent communications" part is wrong, just at engage with her at a pace that seems comfortable for both of you, do NOT do the deliberately "playing it cool" that is dumb millennial faggotry -- easist way for her to forget him and (if she likes him) to assume that he doesn't like her back -- women are mentally ill and paranoid and will easily come to mentally ill conclusions

just be yourself, play it at the pace that seems natural and comes naturally to both of you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149890)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you shouldn't have aspie objective metrics like if you text more than once an hour you're a cuck. BUT you should not just be yourself and not take her personality into account, hard as that might be at first when you don't know her well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149901)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is a reasonably sincere person herself this is overcomplicating things and setting himself up to get dinged for being insincere

I don't mean "let me just take a shit while we talk on the phone" sincere, but still be sincere, just be yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149913)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 1:08 AM
Author: razzmatazz salmon psychic crackhouse

there's more of a balance here than i think you're accounting for. you can look insecure by being too sincere, and you can look insecure by being too manufactured.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149951)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149861)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: Snowy Comical Death Wish

Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her interests and expectations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149895)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:50 AM
Author: wonderful claret windowlicker

meh that can come off as insincere and sucky

just be yourself, your good self, but yourself, do not try to adjust to her too much

everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149897)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 5:15 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle school

You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above.

No way to keep her interested during this intermission.

Might as well chalk it off but use the opportunity to practice your text game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150239)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:08 AM
Author: Rebellious Boyish Double Fault

(Expert in seducing women)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150425)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:02 AM
Author: Beady-eyed immigrant

sounds like a Win to me.

she didn't use the bad luck re: the bars as an excuse, so she seems like both she had some interest in you and is a decent person. especially considering the date ended up lasting about 2 hours.

if you had a bad personality and/or she had zero attraction, it wouldn't have lasted that long, believe me.

should be a nice confidence boost. keep honing your dating game while she's gone; don't wait for her to come back or have any expectations that after a month away she will retain interest. time tends to dissipate that. but, whatever you did to target/find this chick, keep working that angle, IMHO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150415)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:37 AM
Author: soggy national goal in life

why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the country

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150500)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: House-broken chad legend

Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150540)