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Mother and wife never not hissing at each other like cats

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vivacious base
  08/18/18
For us it is her mom and her (though if she goes too far I'm...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
Yeah parents don't innately know how to respect boundaries ...
vivacious base
  08/18/18
You're not ever supposed to let them fight it out on their o...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
Those aren't the boundaries I mean. No one is fighting anyth...
vivacious base
  08/18/18
siding with your mom over wife? u have serious issues ED...
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
He's saying the opposite
vivacious base
  08/18/18
"My mom knows that if she starts anything at all with m...
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
Yes, the time between he and his wife, on the one hand, and ...
vivacious base
  08/18/18
mistyped, yeah cr
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
My time with my mother, not my wife. If we're at their plac...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
you’re kicking your own mother, that carried you nine months...
Scarlet knife voyeur
  08/18/18
"you’re kicking your own mother, that carried you nine ...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
got it have a nice life. i started to respond but realized i...
Scarlet knife voyeur
  08/18/18
Brother as long as you're not dealing with seriously harmful...
vivacious base
  08/18/18
What is?
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
Siding with the wife
vivacious base
  08/18/18
I'm curious if the people who disagree are married.
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/19/18
Cr Reaching this conclusion myself after genuine engagement...
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
Your mother will intentionally make you miserable? Sounds li...
canary out-of-control hominid
  08/19/18
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emerald pozpig double fault
  08/18/18
I read TMF’s post as the complete opposite of what you just ...
metal jet-lagged weed whacker
  08/18/18
Because your RC doesn't suck.
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
I would never side with my mom over wife. Read it again.
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
Ahh, I typed without thinking. siding with your wife over y...
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
No way. Your wife is your life mate. Your mom is this pers...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
lol- just do determine your priorities based on what wife sa...
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
Either you're a ridiculous mama's boy or you failed to find ...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
are you your own person or just a rationalization bot?
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/18/18
Who do you imagine I'm following? I don't think I can be ac...
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/18/18
jfc
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/19/18
So we're all in agreement that Crypto Teen is Amy Chua the p...
hyperventilating mind-boggling locus depressive
  08/19/18
WHY U NO HONOL U MUTHA?
electric bossy abode alpha
  08/19/18
That seems random.
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/19/18
Mom started shit with MiL and wife at our fucking engagement...
hyperventilating mind-boggling locus depressive
  08/19/18
Sounds annoying.
ungodly disrespectful menage
  08/19/18


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Date: August 18th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: vivacious base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36638869)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 1:17 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

For us it is her mom and her (though if she goes too far I'm telling her mom to fuck off). My mom knows that if she starts anything at all with my wife that our time together is over for a very long time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36638901)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 2:32 PM
Author: vivacious base

Yeah parents don't innately know how to respect boundaries and wives have an instinct to circle the wagons too aggressively

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36639367)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:07 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

You're not ever supposed to let them fight it out on their own. The second you see boundaries getting crossed you're supposed to step in and end it immediately and decisively.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640165)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: vivacious base

Those aren't the boundaries I mean. No one is fighting anything anywhere

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640241)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

siding with your mom over wife?

u have serious issues

EDIT: I ACCIDENTALLY FLIPPED THE ABOVE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640176)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: vivacious base

He's saying the opposite

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640239)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

"My mom knows that if she starts anything at all with my wife that our time together is over for a very long time"

no other way to read this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640246)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: vivacious base

Yes, the time between he and his wife, on the one hand, and her mother, on the other hand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640267)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:43 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

mistyped, yeah cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640326)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

My time with my mother, not my wife. If we're at their place, we're leaving. If they're at my place, they're leaving.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640309)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: Scarlet knife voyeur

you’re kicking your own mother, that carried you nine months and gave birth to you, out of your house lol?

siding with the wife too readily seems like a low value move unless your mom is really being a lunatic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640348)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

"you’re kicking your own mother, that carried you nine months and gave birth to you, out of your house lol?"

Without a second of hesitation. She knows this and won't test me. Now, she will make my life miserable in a million other ways, but she knows this is a red line.

"siding with the wife too readily seems like a low value move unless your mom is really being a lunatic"

I have no problem siding with wife "too readily" and you're mentally ill if you see this as "low value."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640365)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: Scarlet knife voyeur

got it have a nice life. i started to respond but realized i didn’t care enough your life or opinion to finish lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640432)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 6:28 PM
Author: vivacious base

Brother as long as you're not dealing with seriously harmful behavioral or psychological issues, this is the only CR option in a marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640510)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 7:55 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

What is?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640840)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 11:54 PM
Author: vivacious base

Siding with the wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641775)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:04 AM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

I'm curious if the people who disagree are married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641810)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 8:10 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

Cr

Reaching this conclusion myself after genuine engagement w/ TMF over some time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640910)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: canary out-of-control hominid

Your mother will intentionally make you miserable? Sounds like a healthy thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641915)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: emerald pozpig double fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640438)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: metal jet-lagged weed whacker

I read TMF’s post as the complete opposite of what you just said.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640289)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

Because your RC doesn't suck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640316)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

I would never side with my mom over wife. Read it again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640313)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:42 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

Ahh, I typed without thinking.

siding with your wife over your mother, your blood, is mentally ill

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640325)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

No way. Your wife is your life mate. Your mom is this person you see 1-2x/year who is always looking to start a fight.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640331)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

lol- just do determine your priorities based on what wife said

in your case:

she wants kids- "KIDS ARE GREAT"

she doesn't want kids with you- "KIDS ARE A DRAIN"

pathetic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640334)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:45 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

Either you're a ridiculous mama's boy or you failed to find a wife you actually care about or both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640336)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

are you your own person or just a rationalization bot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640391)



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Date: August 18th, 2018 7:55 PM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

Who do you imagine I'm following? I don't think I can be accused of following anyone's norms other than my own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36640846)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641894)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:13 AM
Author: hyperventilating mind-boggling locus depressive

So we're all in agreement that Crypto Teen is Amy Chua the poaster, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641849)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: electric bossy abode alpha

WHY U NO HONOL U MUTHA?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641859)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:17 AM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

That seems random.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641864)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:17 AM
Author: hyperventilating mind-boggling locus depressive

Mom started shit with MiL and wife at our fucking engagement party over the dumbest bullshit. Both mom and wife are insanely stubborn and hold grudges forever, so they've basically never liked each other. The only saving grace is that they both have enough tact to be civil around each other and our kids and just wage a cold war talking shit to me and the other adults on their respective sides of the family about each other.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641868)



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Date: August 19th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: ungodly disrespectful menage

Sounds annoying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4054858&forum_id=2#36641916)