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Date: August 29th, 2018 1:58 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab emotionally unstable and careless about seeing things through? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709257) |
Date: August 29th, 2018 2:01 PM Author: out-of-control very tactful brunch immigrant no but this describes my boyfrieends to a t (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709284) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:01 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab You are a gayman? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709298) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:08 PM Author: Federal green police squad dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709354) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:07 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709346) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:09 PM Author: Adventurous Primrose Goal In Life this is all women 120 IQ and up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709371) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:12 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab What the fuck am I supposed to do man? They are so fucked up with conflicting desires the end result is scatterbrained chaos and hysteria. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709396) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:12 PM Author: At-the-ready Coral French Chef Kids might help her focus her energy and settle down. Or make it an unbearable hell that's 10x worse. Good luck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709406) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:13 PM Author: odious azure community account mgtow and fuck hookers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709407) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:13 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709412) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Well the percentage of 120+IQ white women that accept that is somewhere in the 5% range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709431) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709435) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:16 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Again, so what is one supposed to do? Marty a dullard and have dull children? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709442) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:30 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709606) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Didn't see this one coming (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709635) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:39 PM Author: cordovan self-centered son of senegal (xoxo2018) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709707) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:44 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709756) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:23 PM Author: Pale toilet seat I dont think that's true. A lot of women would love to stay at home, especially when the kids are younger. It simply isn't financially possible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710068) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 7:07 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36711307) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: Adventurous Primrose Goal In Life you're supposed to be their EMOTIONAL ROCK that they can rely on to reel in their tendency to unravel into histrionics
i can't stand it either, that's why all my relationships fail. the constant emotional maintenance and babysitting is maddening |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:17 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Getting broken down too. Really dont want to be a nokidsmo tho. "Emotional maintenance" is really spot on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709451) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: Adventurous Primrose Goal In Life same here, i want a family but my personality type makes it really difficult to make these kind of compromises
and the problem lies with us - all women are like this, so it's us who have to figure out how to deal with it. the thought of 50 years of this until i die is just horrifying though
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Agree the answer is acceptance of female nature, something which would be much easier before modernity turned all 120IQ women into workerbots who deny existence of female nature (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709602) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Adventurous Primrose Goal In Life it's even more terrifying when you spend time with chicks who are actually dumb, and aren't in the 120 IQ+ cohort who can keep it together most of the time and at least kind of understand and appreciate us
normie women are literally children in adult bodies with zero self control or common sense or ability to understand anything other than a caricature of the male condition |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:39 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab yea sometimes I long for some room temperature IQ girl that just says "boys will be boys" in a Minnesota accent and is emotionally quite simple. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709702) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:21 PM Author: Narrow-minded Gaping (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710058) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:38 PM Author: cordovan self-centered son of senegal this my GF is a VERY together looking girl with a great job paying $250k. mentally she is a fucking whackjob. makes her a freak in bed, but tries my patience |
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Date: September 3rd, 2018 3:32 PM Author: iridescent aromatic garrison sandwich In re: Your gf's slutty interest in bed.
Hey Jim, just following-up on your last message! |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:11 PM Author: Plum comical orchestra pit the ability to pull it together and appear professional once in a while is a perk not a bug (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709393) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:13 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab So you just have to accept they are trainwrecks? My gf will go on and on about a dirty dish and just made a fuck up equivalent to realizing you dont have a passport the day before international trip (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709409) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:14 PM Author: At-the-ready Coral French Chef This sort of shit is just so typical -- we all have these kinds of stories.
Generally, yes. |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:14 PM Author: Plum comical orchestra pit you're really building a case against this GF
once you're in a place that requires you devote your internet R&R to deliberating against her, it's too late
let the heifer loose |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Lots of bros vent on xo, but I certainly have some thinking to do. We'll see what unfolds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709438) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:18 PM Author: Plum comical orchestra pit the venting becomes unhealthy
and takes on a story of its own
shitlibby as all hell, but the way you tell the story about her will change how you think about her |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:19 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab I just want to bitch about women including my gf sometimes man. We need content. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709473) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 6:07 PM Author: Pink legal warrant fortuitous meteor that is absurdly shitlibby (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710999) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:25 PM Author: exhilarant masturbator coldplay fan But you're not factoring in all the EMOTIONAL LABOR they ENDURE for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710089) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:12 PM Author: crawly peach doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709401) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Heady translucent church building gay wizard feminism and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709595) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:30 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab They KNOW women are PROFOUNDLY different from men
They just have this sick superego thing that prevents them from fully accepting it |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:46 PM Author: Heady translucent church building gay wizard cr. the cognitive dissonance here is the primary driver of their insanity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709767) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Thriller Shimmering Jewess Toaster This is me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709598) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: electric thirsty forum Marry me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710982) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 6:18 PM Author: Sooty set fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36711044) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:31 PM Author: excitant rigpig I’ve experienced the following tiering in my travels:
1). Ultra alpha female - professional job, driven, works out a lot, strong demeanor both emotionally and physically. Emotionally cold as ice and will make a shitty long term partner and/or mother. Won’t spazz about little shit but also not that fun. This is more of a joint venture or partnership relationship.
2.) Smart and warm but not 1 - good job, not tremendously driven, prone to spending large swaths of time in bed or relaxing. Emotionally quite warm and prone to the type of mistakes you describe (and or meltdowns). Overall a very good partner and will be a good mom.
3). Idiot - usually younger; legitimately dumb, might go out 7 times a week and post 38 Instagram stories while doing so. Incapable of anything other than eventual alcoholism or pill addiction. Gossips like crazy at country club if Upper tier over rose for hours all weekend. Can probably be a partner or mother with big time paid help.
I think you marry 2. As a man, you have to just intervene and calm them down when they get nutty and be stable. I don’t know if these things are ever “fixed” but they can be improved upon. |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab Thanks for this post. My girlfriend is definitely a 2, but she is convinced she is/wants to be a 1. Leading to lots of absudities. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709628) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:39 PM Author: excitant rigpig 1 is innate. You don’t morph into a 1. Guys don’t either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709701) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:41 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab I agree, but when you are a "professional women" your idols are freaks like Sheryl Sandberg and you become convinced you are "selling yourself short" if you don't want what they want (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709721) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:42 PM Author: excitant rigpig Honestly bro, that is 1000x preferred over my buddies’ wives that don’t do jack shit and everyone is bored as fuck at 33. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709736) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:43 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab yea there are no perfect solutions, just trying to understand the contours here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709742) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:45 PM Author: excitant rigpig I think that drive is actually not a bad thing. What kinds of problems is it causing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709762) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:49 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab "Wants it all" syndrome. Not really cut out for the stresses of working high pressure job and totally unable to emotionally disconnect from it. She's the type that will sob at work if she gets critical feedback. Has unrealistic expectations about lifestyle because she feels she has "worked so hard" so deserves it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709785) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: excitant rigpig I suspect a third force will emerge that makes it clear to her where the priorities should fall (maybe passed over for a promotion, etc.). Some force will intervene and sort it out for her, it typically does.
In the meantime, do you really want to be the guy to break it to her that she isn’t going to hack it? I think probably very little upside to that and the potential for a lot of resentment.
Just see how things shake out. A girl with a little drive that is doing well (enough) professionally is nothing but a good thing. THe xoxo view that these girls should all be teachers or SAHMs is ridiculous and the bastion of those likely unable to get laid in the first place. |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:55 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab 180 poasting in this thread. Adopt a moniker and you will have my unfailing support in MPM (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709833) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:00 PM Author: excitant rigpig Thanl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709873) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:02 PM Author: Plum comical orchestra pit what is her mother like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709898) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:47 PM Author: cordovan self-centered son of senegal this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709773) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: provocative crusty nowag rigor Are there any other types of women? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709636) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:35 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab what type is your gal, Colt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709661) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 4:10 PM Author: provocative crusty nowag rigor 1 but warm around family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710356) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:38 PM Author: excitant rigpig Yes I think so, I was just speaking to the bulk of “good girls” I’ve come across.
I have seen the worldly -deep type that is flighty but confident - they just don’t stick around long unless you, too, are the flighty type. I think these are capable of great things but never saw it come to fruition.
I have also seen the girls that are adrift and will glom on to whatever they can. These folks are without a rudder or constitution and should be avoided. They signal by posting quotes on social media, fall in love rapidly and are narcissistic. Avoid avoid avoid.
The number 2 girl above is actually really great. You learn that authentic/warm/optimistic/happy >>>>> just about anything else (assuming a baseline of intellect, etc.).
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:42 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab how do you get #2 girls to shed worldly goals and desires that compromise their fundamentally feminine and cheerful nature (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709738) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:43 PM Author: excitant rigpig I think baby, perhaps? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709743) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:13 PM Author: At-the-ready Coral French Chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709998) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: flushed personal credit line native Dick her hard and make yourself indispensable. If you shed your own world goals and desires, she'll follow suit. This is what beta males don't understand. Women are inherent followers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709779) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:52 PM Author: Cheese-eating poppy rehab why would I shed my worldly goals and desires? Career achievement is not in fundamental conflict with my nature like it is for her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709810) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:59 PM Author: excitant rigpig He can still go after his stuff. He just needs to be a chill bro and listen to her/calm her down when she has issues. If it wasn’t professional stuff, she would replace those complaints with something else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709869) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Heady translucent church building gay wizard my wife is a solid born 2. the only downside is she doesn't work out enough/relies on her metabolism to keep her weight in check, which Im worried is going to melt down on her in a few more years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709781) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: excitant rigpig Good metrics: Mom and arms. How are we doing on both? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709821) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:16 PM Author: Heady translucent church building gay wizard her mom is a milfy tennis mom with a delicious ass but i have noticed some concerning arm jiggle. wifes arms are still fine but she's barely 30. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710026) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:20 PM Author: excitant rigpig Describe wife’s workout/eating/drinking habits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710052) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:24 PM Author: Heady translucent church building gay wizard workout is non-existent. all her free time is either gardening or painting, lying on the bed or couch watching syfy channel or getting pounded by me. no alcohol, smokes weed at night, vegetarian but likes shitty pasta/white carbs. i've gotten her off most sweets/baked goods (I eat no sugar other than fruit with kefir) but Im sure she sneaks them in at work. shes 105lbs, 5'2. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710069) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:33 PM Author: Adventurous Primrose Goal In Life sounds pretty good to me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710153) |
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Date: August 29th, 2018 3:34 PM Author: excitant rigpig I really wouldn’t worry bro. Not a drinker and lite eater. Carbs are a given. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36710159) |
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