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Bros, what happens when you hit 40 and realize didn't accomplish jack shit

You held an average job, did not get to the top of the corpo...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
kill everyone you know and disappear to the scottish highlan...
embarrassed to the bone cuck tanning salon
  09/15/18
Why would I kill them? Disappearing to the Scottish highland...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
How is marriage and children an accomplishment.
Yapping Supple Hall
  09/15/18
It isn't, but society thinks otherwise. Lots of people think...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
Yeah and they are the sort who roll like 10 deep into a rest...
Yapping Supple Hall
  09/15/18
Titcr, there should be a society for people like us, who fin...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
xoxohth.com/audoadmit.com
Yapping Supple Hall
  09/15/18
right, if you want to be among trolls, bullies and mentally ...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
?
Yapping Supple Hall
  09/15/18
Don't start with your question marks, whokebe. You know exac...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
There's lots of married people here, btw. So no, we're not o...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
Well, the children thing is the whole purpose of life. If yo...
Judgmental quadroon
  09/15/18
Dude, my dad is a failure and a miserable being. He brought ...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
i'm coming up on 40 and on the brink of bankruptcy
aromatic useless locus generalized bond
  09/15/18
Srsly? This is sad, bro. How did it come to this?
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
i got a wife and kids that love me though
aromatic useless locus generalized bond
  09/15/18
Do you feel great to have them? I had a shitty upbringing an...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
:( i love them, and they love me. but money is the number...
aromatic useless locus generalized bond
  09/15/18
Your own business going under?
Soggy Hunting Ground Space
  09/15/18
how'd you guess?
aromatic useless locus generalized bond
  09/15/18
Sorry to hear-- fwiw at least you tried, which is more than ...
Soggy Hunting Ground Space
  09/15/18
...
Unhinged theater stage
  09/15/18
Why are you a wagecuck without a family? Get a phd in someth...
Frum Dashing Business Firm
  09/15/18
I don't want a fucking family. My family was a fucking night...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
Idk man studying something you enjoy sounds better than work...
Frum Dashing Business Firm
  09/15/18
I like the money. If I could do something, I'd do a job I en...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
youre a catlady male shrew, but at least you own it. lib too...
Soggy Hunting Ground Space
  09/15/18
move to the PNW, take a zero-stress job for minimal pay and ...
Excitant fear-inspiring step-uncle's house pisswyrm
  09/15/18
...
embarrassed to the bone cuck tanning salon
  09/15/18
Then become a star. As a single man there is nothing holding...
Frum Dashing Business Firm
  09/15/18
Get divorced and assail the character your children. Or gang...
self-centered learning disabled parlour
  09/15/18
oh hai me. luckily my career is pretty good. but will probab...
Arousing effete kitty cat
  09/15/18
Srsly? Will you be able to retire early?
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
i barely work now as it is.
Arousing effete kitty cat
  09/15/18
Srsly? What do you do?
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
ITT: What straight bored people get up to.
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
there's nothing compared to having a family, for better or w...
aromatic useless locus generalized bond
  09/15/18
You probably mean a NORMAL family. For us people from broken...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
Been there and done that. Make a life for yourself.
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
Dude, you don't turn out normal after living 18 years with p...
pontificating forum
  09/15/18
I was raised in a household with a narcissist. My brother t...
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
my parents both came from terrible families but I turned out...
Excitant fear-inspiring step-uncle's house pisswyrm
  09/15/18
There's a lot of definitions of family. Pick yours.
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
i consider you my dad
Arousing effete kitty cat
  09/15/18
common mistake
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
i don't understand why a confirmed bachelor would care very ...
canary public bath
  09/15/18
I have a 5 bedroom/4 bath house. The struggle is real. We...
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
but why man? you could do whatever the fuck you want
canary public bath
  09/15/18
Did that for a decade. Lived in Manhattan, Chicago, LA.......
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
yes I know I own plenty but it's all for the sake of family....
canary public bath
  09/15/18
I had a divorce and that ended my fantasy on that end. Reb...
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18
im not saying get married again im saying stop spending mone...
canary public bath
  09/15/18
bought cash when the market crashed. I'm riding this out.
purple cuckoldry
  09/15/18


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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: pontificating forum

You held an average job, did not get to the top of the corporate ladder, did not start a business, do not desire family or babby... and are looking forward to your own death.

Is this the time to kill self, or do you wait it out until you're 60?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812132)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:24 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone cuck tanning salon

kill everyone you know and disappear to the scottish highlands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812134)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Why would I kill them? Disappearing to the Scottish highlands sounds credited, without all the mindless killing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812146)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: Yapping Supple Hall

How is marriage and children an accomplishment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812151)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: pontificating forum

It isn't, but society thinks otherwise. Lots of people think that if you raised a family and have relatively normal adult children, you're an accomplished man/woman. I have acquaintances who spent their 20's, 30's and 40's raising their children. The women did not do anything other than that, and today they show their offspring as a HUGE accomplishment. Fucked up shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812171)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Yapping Supple Hall

Yeah and they are the sort who roll like 10 deep into a restaurant and spend the entire time on their phones and can only generate conversation by either (a) taking photos or (b) making fun of each other or other patrons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812192)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:32 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Titcr, there should be a society for people like us, who find that lifestyle revolting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812204)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Yapping Supple Hall

xoxohth.com/audoadmit.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812215)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: pontificating forum

right, if you want to be among trolls, bullies and mentally ill ppl as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812223)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: Yapping Supple Hall

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812224)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Don't start with your question marks, whokebe. You know exactly what I mean. This place is not for normal people who don't want babby, it is also for psycho losers who are willing to ruin other people's lives for the fun of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812235)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:46 AM
Author: pontificating forum

There's lots of married people here, btw. So no, we're not only among ppl who find marriage+babby revolting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812270)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:47 AM
Author: Judgmental quadroon

Well, the children thing is the whole purpose of life. If you aren't passing on your genes that's pretty much the definition of a failed life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812474)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:50 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Dude, my dad is a failure and a miserable being. He brought me to the world to live a shitty life and now I won't pass on his genes. Are you saying he's a failed life or I am? I refuse to do this to another being just to avoid "being a failed life" so that's the real question here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812483)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: aromatic useless locus generalized bond

i'm coming up on 40 and on the brink of bankruptcy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812161)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Srsly? This is sad, bro. How did it come to this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812176)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: aromatic useless locus generalized bond

i got a wife and kids that love me though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812226)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:39 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Do you feel great to have them? I had a shitty upbringing and would never have children or a marriage. I got pretty fucked up by living through my parents' shitty marriage that I would not want to even consider the idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812242)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: aromatic useless locus generalized bond

:(

i love them, and they love me. but money is the number one reason people get divorced, so i dunno.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812274)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: Soggy Hunting Ground Space

Your own business going under?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812320)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:00 AM
Author: aromatic useless locus generalized bond

how'd you guess?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812340)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:02 AM
Author: Soggy Hunting Ground Space

Sorry to hear-- fwiw at least you tried, which is more than can be said for a lot of other men.

what was the business?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812347)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:35 AM
Author: Unhinged theater stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812217)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: Frum Dashing Business Firm

Why are you a wagecuck without a family? Get a phd in something you like

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812222)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: pontificating forum

I don't want a fucking family. My family was a fucking nightmare already, don't need to repeat the story. You make it sound like a PhD would be a glorious thing to do. I had a close friend who was doing a PhD in Columbia and she was ready to kill herself because of the bureaucracy and her inability to express her ideas. She literally spiraled down into a horrible depression just by being there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812233)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: Frum Dashing Business Firm

Idk man studying something you enjoy sounds better than working in some corporation for money you don’t need

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812247)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: pontificating forum

I like the money. If I could do something, I'd do a job I enjoy. I would enjoy photography, design, writing... all the shit that pays nothing unless you're a star. And I do like the money, so it seems pretty far-fetched to get to do that. My sad reality is that I need a shitty job to enjoy the things that I like and live a lifestyle that makes me comfortable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812265)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: Soggy Hunting Ground Space

youre a catlady male shrew, but at least you own it. lib too?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812330)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:07 AM
Author: Excitant fear-inspiring step-uncle's house pisswyrm

move to the PNW, take a zero-stress job for minimal pay and spend all your free time hiking/biking/paddling. EZ life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812368)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone cuck tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812470)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:23 AM
Author: Frum Dashing Business Firm

Then become a star. As a single man there is nothing holding you back besides yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812410)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: self-centered learning disabled parlour

Get divorced and assail the character your children. Or gang up on one child for entertainment. This is what my father did. Main thing is to get divorced and ngaf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812230)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:47 AM
Author: Arousing effete kitty cat

oh hai me. luckily my career is pretty good. but will probably be a bachelor for life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812272)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:50 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Srsly? Will you be able to retire early?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812288)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: Arousing effete kitty cat

i barely work now as it is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812293)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:53 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Srsly? What do you do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812304)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:52 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

ITT: What straight bored people get up to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812298)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: aromatic useless locus generalized bond

there's nothing compared to having a family, for better or worse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812308)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: pontificating forum

You probably mean a NORMAL family. For us people from broken families, some of us wish we'd never been born. My family was a shitshow and I don't talk to most of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812311)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

Been there and done that. Make a life for yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812319)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:58 AM
Author: pontificating forum

Dude, you don't turn out normal after living 18 years with psychos. You're have no clue how bad you end up. I wouldn't want to bring a kid to go through the same shit. I want to have the freedom to one day pull the trigger without leaving an innocent life behind.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812327)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:04 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

I was raised in a household with a narcissist. My brother the narcissist now has a kid. I make the best of it. Shit happens.

Make friends and do you.

I'm sure there are worse things that have happened to people other than you not being the center of attention.

More importantly, I think you would have an awesome child.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812356)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:03 AM
Author: Excitant fear-inspiring step-uncle's house pisswyrm

my parents both came from terrible families but I turned out okay... well apart from posting on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812354)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

There's a lot of definitions of family. Pick yours.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812312)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:00 AM
Author: Arousing effete kitty cat

i consider you my dad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812337)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:09 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

common mistake

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812372)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:19 AM
Author: canary public bath

i don't understand why a confirmed bachelor would care very much about money tbh. the only reason I care about money is to provide a stable family life. if I decided it was not going to get married or have kids id be a park ranger or a fireman or a bartender at a beach bar or some shit. I enjoy having nice things and being "comfortable" but wagecucking isn't worth it just for that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812397)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:22 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

I have a 5 bedroom/4 bath house. The struggle is real. We have the same expectations of marrieds on a single salary.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812409)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:25 AM
Author: canary public bath

but why man? you could do whatever the fuck you want

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812418)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:28 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

Did that for a decade. Lived in Manhattan, Chicago, LA....at some point you just settle down. I now own what people expected. It's hella expensive to maintain, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812423)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:30 AM
Author: canary public bath

yes I know I own plenty but it's all for the sake of family. if I wasn't a family man id tend sheep on a hillside in new Zealand or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812426)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:31 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

I had a divorce and that ended my fantasy on that end. Rebuilding on what I have left.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812428)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:33 AM
Author: canary public bath

im not saying get married again im saying stop spending money on a multi bedroom house like you were married. every situation has its advantages - I like family - but there are amazing advantages to not having one too. I feel like your getting the worst of both worlds but do you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812430)



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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: purple cuckoldry

bought cash when the market crashed. I'm riding this out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812434)