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Date: September 20th, 2018 1:02 AM Author: slimy space
FTGE on dinner picture I just noticed guy’s button shirt across the table
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36846497)
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Date: September 20th, 2018 1:20 AM Author: amethyst razzle-dazzle national security agency theater
Obviously save the pics/vids. You don't have to explain how you got them. For all she knows a mutual friend noticed, copied them to send to you since you don't have IG, and that's why you have them.
If she's being this sloppy and actually cheating she's likely planning to break up with you this weekend anyway, unless she's a legit psycho.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36846595) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 7:20 AM Author: ruby kink-friendly location digit ratio
When I first met Perky Parisienne, her bf was living in another country for half the year. Perky, no doubt, loves and adores her bf. That didn't stop her from cheating, though. She's had full conversations with him on the phone with me laying on their bed. I do feel terrible about that part, but c'est la vie, it happened and I can't take it back now. That said, that doesn't mean Perky ever stopped loving and caring for her bf.
Doesn't mean OP's gf is cheating, but the signs don't look too great right now. People are people, and people are weak.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847078) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 9:51 AM Author: Irate curious pozpig regret
So you're going to lie about how you caught her lying? Great plan.
It's straight forward. Ask her about her night at the office. If she lies about it, call her out, and dump her. It literally doesn't matter how you saw her Instagram. It's a public social media post. Its not like you snooped through her phone. Also, since you are dumping her, who cares what she thinks. It's over.
Separately, she may say "oh actually a friend called and was like hey I have tickets to go to X, so I said screw it and left and got dinner. I tried to call you after, it was so fun!" Then you really would look like a weird controlling asshole, which is why you give her the opportunity to lie to your face or tell the truth.
Btw, I like the subtle incorporation of the vacation flame, well done.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847557) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: poppy point
honestly, I wouldn't even bring up the cheating allegations with her.
I would just call her tonight and tell her that you're breaking up with her because you decided it wasn't going to work out between the two of her. Don't give her any real concrete reasons, but make it clear that you just don't see yourself wanting to spend the rest of your life with her and it's better to cut it loose now. Be polite and don't be a butthurt fag about it.
This will mess with her a lot more psychologically because you're breaking up with her based on the merits of your relationship alone. Also, this is probably coming somewhat out of the blue, which inflicts even more damage.
If you start with the cheating allegations then (1) she'll likely continue the lie and try to turn the tables on you for being "controlling" and (2) she can use her "mistake" as a way to justify why the relationship didn't work out.
Once you've unwinded any shared financial obligations/other matters then make it a clean break and ghost her. She will likely try to make an attempt to win you back--just ignore.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847665) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 10:19 AM Author: poppy point
Who cares.
Box her shit up and send it via UPS.
Wake up. This girl does not care about you. Move on.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847720) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 9:40 AM Author: misanthropic balding double fault
This happened to me when I was younger - your relationship is over.
The key is to catch her in a lie and then - this is the most important part - Ghost the fuck out of her and not respond for a LONG time.
It is basically over now - that call around midnight was her guilt manifesting over some shit behavior.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847450) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 9:48 AM Author: slimy space
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847235
What do you mean catch her in the lie? Ghost after calling her out on it? Does this seem reasonable? I’m never going to respond to her again, even though I’m in her city in a couple days for a conference.
If I ghost her without calling her out, doesn’t that leave her with dignity of believing she’s not a confirmed liar/cheater? Also, we have plans for the weekend already made and Saturday night her friend visiting my city was also going to stay at my apt. I don’t even care about the vacation we booked.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847528) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 10:56 AM Author: misanthropic balding double fault
Ok so when I had this problem - I had just started LS and was trying to keep a long distance thing between me and my girl - it was more "medium distance" than anything - given the fact that I was going to LS in the same part of the state.
We had talked about how we were not serious yet ( in retrospect this was the big red flag - I had poached her from the "Serious" BF she had) but had spent some significant time together. I told her I wanted her in my life and she said that she wanted to be with me as well. We both agreed that since distance was a thing, if we met anyone or hooked up or anything like that, all we needed to do was to be honest and tell each other that something had happened so we could call it off fair and square.
Now, it went well for about a month into this transition. Except, as time went on, I began to notice that it was very lopsided when it came to the effort involved (i.e I worked hard to see her, and she invested very little if any effort to see me).
So anyway, one day, I got a call from her - just like you did - late as fuck at night - and she called to say that she went to get a drink with her ex to get closure.
I basically knew that it was over at that point, in my gut at least. Now, I still actually liked this chick as a friend because she had supported me through some really tough times (L O L @ even thinking like that now) so I didn't end it immediately over the phone, but said something like "hey look - I'm going to come back home this weekend, can we meet up for some coffee and talk and see where things are going." I also wanted to see her in person one last time, to close things out - which I thought was fair.
She said something like "I'd like that, but I might be busy this weekend house sitting with my friend XYZ Girl in ABC location - we made plans a while back - but I think I have time to meet though" - I had met XYZ Girl a couple of times and went with my girl to the restaurant that she was the hostess at once and I knew that my girl did go to ABC location somewhat often so I thought NBD as we had previously seen each other like four weekends in a row.
Now, something in my mind would simply not let that story go. I began to twist it and turn it over in my head and just something did not add up because of that suspicious phone call I received from her a little earlier. It ate at me.
So I come down from LS for the weekend and then I waited to meet with her. Texted her I was in town, and waited. Nothing for a while, then a text that she was still in ABC Location with XYZ girl - complete with an unhappy smiley face that she missed me and asked what I was up to.
Well, I wasn't up to much at this point - but I decided to sure get up to something. I had a friend of mine call up the restaurant where XYZ Girl was working - my bet was that XYZ Girl was going to be working there, which would immediately destroy my girls story and give me all the evidence I needed to surprise the fuck out of her. Lo and behold - instead of being at ABC location, XYZ Girl was working at the fucking restaurant - DESTROYING my girls story immediately and exposing her as a liar.
Now, I hadn't responded to my girls text yet. The one with the sad smiley face asking me what I did this weekend. That fucking smiley face. That smiley face is what turned me into a hard hearted man.
So I finally told her what I did that weekend. The little things in a nice cutesy text - except at the end of the text and I also told her that I happened to be in the neighborhood with my friend where XYZ Girl's restaurant was and he wanted to go there. I told her I saw XYZ Girl who should have been in ABC location with her and then I said "now I need to talk to you"
Within 10 minutes she calls me back, leaves a message on my machine asking me to call her when I got the message.
At this point - this was the perfect time to totally ghost her from then on 100% - but I called her back up and we got into a blowout fight on the phone and it went south from there. I tried to reach out to her a few times a month or two later because we tried to stay friends but it was just to much to overcome. This is where I fucked up BADLY. I should have ghosted her immediately. She moved away like 6 months later.
This period was probably the rock bottom of my life so far.
However, a few years later - Donald Trump got elected as President of the United States of America.
Then about six months ago I saw someone who looked a LOT like her downtown on my way to work, turned out it was her.
By this point (5+ years after the breakup) I had become a totally different person (Dropped out of LS, got a decent finance job, opened up my own business, got a nice car, and gained significant $$$). When we locked eyes she stutter stepped and stopped like she was expecting something from me but I just kept walking, I didn't even know what I saw in her in the first place. She was plain. Basic. Nothing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847955)
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Date: September 20th, 2018 11:09 AM Author: misanthropic balding double fault
No, I wouldn't have ended it with just a lying confirm. I needed to bust her. But that's just me.
What I SHOULD have done was bust her and then ghost - because that will eat at hear from then on. If you try to end it amicably, it just does not work because they get the satisfaction.
If this ever happens to me again (who knows - it just might) - I will do the immediate ghost move.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36848056) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 11:21 AM Author: misanthropic balding double fault
your right x1000.
That's why seasoned pimps will always freeze their women out and be ice cold. The way to do that now is to ghost. However, I think there is something to be said about busting them (revealing their lie) and then immediately freeze out/ghosting. That is really the apex shit because they simply cannot handle it.
In my defense, I was in my early twenties and in a tough place - she was the last person I trusted at the time (I had basically been forced to go to LS by my boomer parents so I didn't trust them at all - basically being set up to fail).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36848134) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 9:47 AM Author: Pontificating razzle roast beef
if she is that sloppy, she doesn't give a fuck about you. She will probably break up with you.
FYI...long distance relationships can work but they have to have a strong foundation built over time.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847524) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 10:47 AM Author: swollen cuckold
i had no idea you posted in this thread and i didnt reply to you.
you seriously think i posted in their thread because of you? hahahahahaha
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36847888)
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Date: September 20th, 2018 12:53 PM Author: glittery unhinged trust fund stage
just send her some mark morrison return of the mack gifs and then ghost on her for a few days
"you liiiiied to me"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36848884) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: ivory laughsome university
She was either with a male friend she is falling for, or a couple friends that include a male friend she is falling for. The emotional straying is already well under way if she attended a concert that involved a male friend & she lied to you about it. The emotional straying also happens easily in long distance relationships with a lot of time without seeing each other. Look at what happens when guys with wives & young kids have to go away to war.
You’re better off getting out of an LDR now, anyway. Just look at it like this saved you from wasting your time.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36849173) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 2:18 PM Author: Topaz aggressive mad cow disease
This happened to me summer of bar exam.
GF cheated on ex with me a couples year’s prior, we started dating. That was stupid. We were somewhat LD that summer (with a finite end). Her ex bf was friends with her brother. He came to visit their house for a July 4 weekend. I saw on her brothers Fb that the dude was there. I asked her if the dude was there, she said no. I said I saw that he was. She then broke down in hysterics and admitted as such.
I broke up with her instantly and did not look back. She groveled and begged to get back together but I didn’t. It was a brutal brutal few months.
It also defines you. Have to set a line now of what you will and will not put up with. If you put up with that behavior, you are not a man. This put trustworthiness at the top of my list. Fast forward to now, married to 100% rock solid girl who is 10x that girl and never has made me doubt her once. Not when dating, not now. Wouldn’t have gotten to this point if I didn’t draw hard lines in my earlier days.
She put that shit on Instagram for the world to see, bro. Be thankful you saw it, too.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36849373) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 3:31 PM Author: poppy point
"It’s not her fault she never was able to love me back."
Don't say gay shit like this, man.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36849808)
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Date: September 20th, 2018 3:31 PM Author: slimy space
I’m partially blaming this on myself. I haven’t been able to take her out much or “date” her like a normal person. The distance is a factor, I work a lot on weekends (also have a ton of time off too, 20+ weeks/year), and it’s been hard coordinating dates. She was supposed to come in this weekend (last weekend she was “too tired from work” to visit and had pain from PMS), but she would have arrived late Friday and it would have been rushed. Saturday would be devoted to her visiting friends.
She’ll probably use this against me. If she were good, she would have communicated to me what’s wrong and try to fix it, though.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36849807)
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Date: September 20th, 2018 3:58 PM Author: Topaz aggressive mad cow disease
I encourage you to maintain this line of thinking if you want to guarantee this sort of thing happening again in the future.
Or you can decide to say “I’m a great dude, I make good money, I work hard and took care of her and we had plans. Fuck her for being stupid, I can do better.” And you really will.
The two or three times in my life I had the same “I won’t be able to get a hotter girl” feelings were when I was at rock bottom. It wasn’t true. Better ones (in all ways) inevitably came along and my radar improved too.
Take a bit to deal with this and be upset but give it a cutoff date and move the fuck forward.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36850008) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 4:38 PM Author: Topaz aggressive mad cow disease
Pro tip:
1. Layoff the booze for a bit.
2. Get in th gym.
3. Don’t stalk her on SM.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36850254) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 4:05 PM Author: supple partner resort
To be fair,
It is almost "black October."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36850042) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 7:31 PM Author: Irate curious pozpig regret
So are you going to give her the news tonight?
Dont wait until tomorrow when she's about to leave or whatever.
Based on this thread, I think there is a fair chance you'll cuck and meet her for the weekend.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36851188) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 7:35 PM Author: slimy space
I'm still on phone with my buddy rambling about his own problems..going to try to call her afterwards.
This we absolutely be addressed tonight -- i'm sure she's going to tell me she's in the "office" late again, but we have to have this talk. She'll have enough time to get a last minute airbnb or hotel with her visiting friend.
I'm balking from cornhusker's good advice about just dumping her without an explanation. I'll give up leverage for peace of mind.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36851220) |
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Date: September 20th, 2018 7:56 PM Author: Bright black woman
Fuck that. She deserves to be called out. He can see another guy's button down shirt in the dinner photo.
"What's with that instragram photo of you at dinner with another guy? Why didn't you tell me about the concert? Why did you lie about working late? What's going on?"
"[whatever she says]"
"Welp, I just wanted to hear what you had to say for yourself before I ended this. Have a nice life you fucking whore. Tell that dude in the photo he deserves a nice little whore like you."
That's how you do it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36851368) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 7:48 PM Author: glittery unhinged trust fund stage
you went looking to some site to snoop on her IG
what led you to feeling there was something fishy going on
that seems much more relevant than the bort just concluding from one LDR lie that it means cheating and relationship is DONEHERE (for all we know you're a shut-in who gets pissed when his GF goes out and has fun instead of sitting on the phone with you all night so her only way of having fun is to say she is working otherwise you lose your shit on her)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36851309) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 8:40 PM Author: Sooty Hairraiser Ratface
Solid thread
Any update OP?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36851620) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 9:57 PM Author: Coral cerebral bbw
"long distance gf"
just do put up with all the shit with zero benefits
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36852208) |
Date: September 20th, 2018 9:57 PM Author: Nubile Meetinghouse
Imagine if all of this is just because you were feeling insecure and your mind went to the immediate worst case scenario, which of course xo would reinforce to you.
If she really was just reposting a clip that a friend sent her, you just permanently selfpwned. Women get a whiff of insecurity and you're done here.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4082003&forum_id=2#36852209) |
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