seeking advice on positively influencing sister-in-law choice of husband
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Date: October 15th, 2018 8:13 AM Author: Big sexy meetinghouse
Sister in law is 4 years younger than my wife, cute face, average body, comes from proud family. In many ways, she meets XO travel and brunch critiques. Very close knit family as whole. I do more golf and hunting with wife's parents than my own friends, we do holidays and many weekends together, travel etc and help each other with land/investment situations. It's an awesome situation with only one problem. Sister in law is a serial monogamist with every dude fitting the same archetype: dim, submissive, british, VERY LIB, immature, no personality, not funny, no "hobbies" or skills, zero to modest income, no wealth. In a vacuum, I should not care about this. It's her life and choices, not mine, not my immediate family, and nothing overtly harmful to anyone is happening. I realize that and stay out of the fray 100% of the time. She means well tho is aging. But I'm watching a train wreck develop over time and wondering if anything can be done.
Every relationship plays out the same way: new bumble date introduced as THE ONE after 2 weeks; manchild bf thrust into family weekends, adds zero, dude STFUs when the family talks about everything we have in common, BF is eventually overtly offended when someone says nigger or slope. There was one dude at Christmas, another at Easter (did the dishes), a different one at Labor Day. All SUCK.
Over time he will show no ambition towards himself, the relationship or anything else and my wife and father in law run him off by berating sister, it damages the relationships in the family, guy disappears; new one at a family gathering one month later; lather, rinse, repeat.
The reason I am starting to care is because it would be fucking 180 to add a solid MAN to the family. As I look at my own child and the level of love and excitement he draws from the family, I have trouble imagining myself getting excited for the child of one of these zeroes and subsequently trusting them as a father. They are all losers who watch John Oliver. They care about gender pronouns.
The deficit also stokes long-term tensions in the family as the zero marriage will result in disparities in life outcomes and sister in law will eventually explode or divorce over these. Everyone wants to avoid that by setting her up with a decent dude.
In summary: paging DIAMOND DALLAS CHAD, CARL SPACKLER and MANOWAR (lol no) with DOWRY PROPOSALS
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106626&forum_id=2#37025678) |
Date: October 15th, 2018 9:05 AM Author: up-to-no-good doobsian people who are hurt
long shot but is she blasting bc
she may be copping dat 'sibling' emotional support animal husband because her hormones are completely fucked & she isn't recognising these effete circleheads as the genetic chaff they are
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106626&forum_id=2#37025798) |
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