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XO's gentle treatment of Charles is like women flattering their fat friend (DTP)
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:20 AM Author: magical naked double fault i.e., doing her no favors
"oh gosh, don't be so self-critical... you're gorgeous! not only are you beautiful, you're smart, educated, funny, witty, and courageous. you're like the best person i know, and if anyone deserves to be happy, it's you. don't let this bad luck get to you. if they can't handle your awesomeness, the problem is them. love yourself and don't settle for anyone, because hunny yu're amazing" |
Date: October 21st, 2018 12:21 AM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater nonsensical (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065431) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:22 AM Author: smoky rehab stfu queer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065435) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:23 AM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater great comeback dumb ass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065443) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:24 AM Author: cream dashing mexican (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065452) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:22 AM Author: Awkward location stain but Charles isn't fat. he's actually in really good shape. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065438) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:47 AM Author: Embarrassed to the bone water buffalo (Analogy aficionadodoing precisely what op explained) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065584) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM Author: soul-stirring corner patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079890) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:23 AM Author: laughsome bawdyhouse Painful but necessary and accurate thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065445) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:24 AM Author: Aromatic milky lay cumskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065454) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:41 AM Author: cream dashing mexican lmao I'm curious: do you think us shitting on you would motivate you to improve at a higher rate than the status quo? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065554) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:03 AM Author: Aromatic milky lay cumskin I don't think being WIDELY HATED would help, but having a few haters like DTP is definitely more motivating than constant positivity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065633) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:06 AM Author: cream dashing mexican This makes a ton of sense, and I wonder if DTP is playing this game. If so and I've missed it, I apologize to him and he may not be the absolute incoherent imbecile that he appears to be. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065642) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:25 AM Author: cream dashing mexican disagree - see below.
EDIT: lol |
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Date: November 6th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: swashbuckling pervert foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37172026) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:24 AM Author: cream dashing mexican I don't think anyone has coddled him; he's under no illusions that he's a 10, that he doesn't have stuff to work on to become more attractive to women, or that he doesn't have shit to get together before being ready for a healthy long-term relationship.
However, I don't see constructive value in shitting on someone unless they're stupidly refusing to change their actions to improve their outcomes; if Charles has things that need fixing - and I think everyone involved agrees that he does - then a less abrasive approach seems more likely to yield positive results for him, which ought be the goal. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:26 AM Author: Awkward location stain it's also the case that many of Charles's fans on XO really do see him as their moral superior. AutoAdmit is full of all these depressed lawyers who live debauched lifestyles where they do drugs, have meaningless sex, and adhere to no moral code, and they see Charles and are like legitimately impressed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065459) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:27 AM Author: smoky rehab http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3872761&mc=144&forum_id=2#35314763 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065467) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:29 AM Author: cream dashing mexican Scholarly poast, tyft. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065479) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:29 AM Author: magical naked double fault yes, and a lot of attractive skinny chicks DO look up to fat chicks who, for whatever reason, have positive personal attributes such as being loyal, being dependable, being virtuous and wholesome, being good friends. and they are legitimately so impressed by them that they blurt out truthfully, "oh hunny, if i were a guy, i would date you in an instant." but at the end of the day, fat chick is not being helped by such obseqieous adorations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065482) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:33 AM Author: cream dashing mexican This isn't analogous to Charles' situation. 1. The fat chicks, if they lost weight, would indeed be catches, right? The issue lies with their inaction. 2. Charles is clearly invested in improving his fitness, and I think invested in improving his mental state/personality/education/the rest of the mental shit that can be altered. Thus, as long as he keeps improving, I fail to see the analogy. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:34 AM Author: magical naked double fault god, stfu
you can replace "fat chick" with "ugly chick" in the OP then |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:39 AM Author: cream dashing mexican how hard do you have to try to miss the point? literally make that replacement in my poast and the point still stands.
I think you're arguing from the position that a guy has to be an 8/10 AND do well in all of the other facets of status in order to date; this is bullshit. Every single dude has problems that he tries to compensate for in other ways to increase his value. I'm arguing that: 1. You have an inflated physical baseline. 2. Charles can increase his value past the necessary point to attract a worthwhile woman. 3. Shitting on Charles does not advance that improvement. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:49 AM Author: fragrant light pocket flask Charles baseline fitness to be desired by at least some woman isn't the problem, it's his disgust of women and we all know it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065588) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM Author: diverse rough-skinned old irish cottage stag film CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079884) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:30 AM Author: cream dashing mexican What's sad about that is that they've put themselves in that position - they chose to live that way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065485) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:10 AM Author: Lemon Institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37066026) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:26 AM Author: filthy hairy legs haunted graveyard Well, except Charles actually IS a good catch. The fat friend is not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065458) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:28 AM Author: cream dashing mexican Leaning towards this (although DTP will say that these poasts prove his point) - a lot of Charles' problems seem very fixable, and the qualities in his favor are much less teachable - you can't fix stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065468) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:28 AM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater what problems are you referring to (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065471) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:35 AM Author: cream dashing mexican - Not in good enough shape to compensate for other physical drawbacks (e.g. bald) - Incorrectly predicating his self-perception on women - Potentially beta personality (idk, this is something you kinda have to gauge in person, IMO)
Those things are all fixable. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:31 AM Author: shimmering cerebral national knife U can’t fix bald (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065498) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:31 AM Author: magical naked double fault you can replace "fat chick" with "ugly chick" in the OP and there wouldn't be any difference
you're over-analyzing and drawing unnecessary distinctions in a contrived attempt to defend charles for no good reason, which is proving my point |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:35 AM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater there would be a huge and obvious difference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065514) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:38 AM Author: magical naked double fault "BUT THE FAT GIRL CAN LOSE WEIGHT" screamed the turd-brained normie dipshit who has to ruin threads with his cheery self-help bullshit like a robotic bromide dispenser (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065538) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:31 AM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater Your thesis ("i.e. doing her no favors") is entirely predicated on the problems being fixable.
Not sure what you're striking at with "cheery self-help bullshit," which would substantively be the opposite of the behavior you complain about in the OP--that fixable problems are deflected and the blame shifted to others, instead of the fat friend being motivated to help herself.
If the problems are immutable (e.g. monsterface) then pollyannish encouragement doesn't hurt anybody, even if it's not genuine. The problem can't be fixed so having a positive attitude about it is just decent manners.
At the root of this whole thread is the notion that charles has some kind of "problem" which doesn't strike me as true at all. Self-actualized MGTOW is something we should all aspire to
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:57 AM Author: cream dashing mexican (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065780) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 2:01 AM Author: magical naked double fault hey dumbshit, how about the ugly girl can lower her standards instead of getting stuck in a rut of unrealistic expectations and wasting her entire life
or what about the "weird girl" - a combination of 'fixable' behaviors and innate dispositions
the point is that it doesn't fucking matter |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 2:15 AM Author: cream dashing mexican lol this is idiotic. Maximal self-improvement should occur before lowering standards in order to avoid unnecessarily lowering them. Mentioning weird people with potentially fixable problems is not an argument.
What do you mean "it doesn't fucking matter?" |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:15 PM Author: Razzmatazz zippy quadroon theater why would any man lower his standards in a woman? you, of all people, I would expect to advocate for the opposite (and rational in modernity) strategy: swing for the fences or MGTOW. A double tonight is going to look a lot like a strikeout in 10 years. A "bloop single" will probably look like a strikeout the next morning.
the "point" is that you are getting your ass gaped in this thread
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:28 PM Author: Vigorous Lilac Immigrant Multi-billionaire This is what the OP means. Charles is a bald, very ugly boring weird 30 year old virgin that has a mediocre job and would be odd to bring around your friends. He isn’t a catch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067917) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:35 AM Author: Awkward location stain so how SHOULD we behave towards Charles? Should we kill him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065516) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:12 AM Author: Lemon Institution I don’t know why but I lol’d at the earnestness of the suggestion. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37066027) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:38 AM Author: fragrant light pocket flask Basically correct, charles is sweet so xo indulges him, but he seems as broken as the rest of us at the end of the day, just differently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065535) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:44 AM Author: magical naked double fault this is true, nobody has fully explored charles' derangement.
they merely take him at face value that his defining characteristic is his wholesomeness, as evidenced by the impressive fact that he's a virgin.
i read the things he said in his Wapo article, and of course online. you can be charitable in taking individual pieces as dark humor, or satire, or evidence of a good intellect (which may all be true) - but taken together, it's obvious there's something going on there beyond mere wholesomeness and virtue.
it's as obvious as can be. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:46 AM Author: fragrant light pocket flask Mayhaps....autism? But no that's unfair. Still it is a bit much to be a whatever age he is virgin |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:51 AM Author: cream dashing mexican I think this is actually partially CR, in that the bort may be too complacent in telling him to get his mental shit together.
I think, however, that most of it is depression, not derangement.
I further am convinced that you are bitter towards Charles because he is more well-liked on the bort, and is managing to improve his life, something you've clearly failed at. Charles succeeding in improving his life is proof that it was probably possible for you to, you just fucked it up and have no one else to blame. That must be hard to live with - makes sense why you'd go to these lengths to avoid it. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:56 AM Author: magical naked double fault you're a stupid motherfucker
please don't reply to me again |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:57 AM Author: Embarrassed to the bone water buffalo Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065616) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:59 AM Author: cream dashing mexican (guy who's been unable to respond to a single argument coherently)
I bet you don't want me to keep pointing out that your bitterness here is founded in your own failure and emptiness in life. Stay ir8, it's amusing. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 9:10 AM Author: unholy windowlicker locus lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37066253) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 4:25 PM Author: Adventurous Theatre Defense mechanism against change springs into action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067620) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 4:52 PM Author: cream dashing mexican (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067727) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 4:40 PM Author: Rambunctious maniacal people who are hurt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067680) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:07 PM Author: Multi-colored property lmao completely wrekt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079837) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:29 PM Author: Vigorous Lilac Immigrant Multi-billionaire They also bought into this flame that he’s “volcel” when he’s always just been an uppity incel no woman would touch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067922) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:00 AM Author: Embarrassed to the bone water buffalo Lol I’m finally on dtp’s side for once and its fun as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065624) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:01 AM Author: cream dashing mexican I'd imagine it's somewhat analogous to watching an infuriated child with Down Syndrome rage and fling shit at his classmates. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065628) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:19 AM Author: tripping aquamarine selfie yes.
there's a long tradition of beta dorks on xo absolutely relishing the opportunity to cast themselves in the "big brother" role to whiny virgins.
happened with nyuug and estrada, too.
it's gross. |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:21 AM Author: fragrant light pocket flask Don't you dare suggest are dear Charles will turn out like that degenerate whore fucking bug face nyuug (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065678) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:24 AM Author: unholy windowlicker locus nobody is because charles is white, sane, and chill. he's just a dork. which is fine. but poasters are still trying to lead him down the path of sexpatting and trannyfucking and weird gay shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065688) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:25 AM Author: Awkward location stain yeah every thread is like this
Charles: I want a meaningful relationship with a girl who shares my conservative values
Poasters: here are my tips on how to hook up with bar sluts |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:28 AM Author: unholy windowlicker locus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065701) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:30 AM Author: cream dashing mexican (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065709) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 9:14 AM Author: Racy charcoal box office candlestick maker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37066263) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Multi-colored property (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079810) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:23 PM Author: Cracking pink gaping One of Charles' problems is that he wants meaning where none has been established (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079904) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 4:12 PM Author: Twisted magenta main people hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37080285) |
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Date: December 18th, 2021 3:26 PM Author: Rambunctious maniacal people who are hurt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#43631851) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 1:24 AM Author: tripping aquamarine selfie learn 2 read (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37065691) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM Author: diverse rough-skinned old irish cottage stag film (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37079888) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:16 PM Author: Irradiated learning disabled house Why is mr. jinx such a spiteful cunt? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067830) |
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Date: October 21st, 2018 5:20 PM Author: slimy french school cafeteria pistol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37067858) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 3:32 PM Author: primrose range idea he suggested it's simple - some poasters are stars, some are not
like celebrities, it's just a cultural moment that determines who rises, who doesn't
xo is older and needs charles to do well and projects a lot onto him
some of it is entertaining
some of it upsets poasters like you - frankly, as someone who produces a lot of content and gets a lot of hate (and whose psychology tends to be similar to the rigid incel dirt mind of this place), it makes sense you're MAF to see him get special treatment
you get very little |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 4:12 PM Author: Aromatic milky lay cumskin fwiw I consider DTP a top poster. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37080280) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 4:39 PM Author: primrose range idea he suggested so perhaps well known but not as well-liked or popular (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37080433) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2018 4:38 PM Author: Twisted magenta main people hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111600&forum_id=2#37080424) |