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Date: January 21st, 2019 2:43 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Instead I broke up with her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631733) |
Date: January 21st, 2019 3:16 AM Author: Floppy useless abode What's going on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631791) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:17 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay I dun goofed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631796) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:18 AM Author: ungodly knife what did u do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631799) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:23 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay I grew impatient and frustrated with her reluctance for any physical contact (I kissed her a couple times but she didnt move her lips at all) and apparent disinterest (she said twice she liked me after a lot of questionioning from me). After a month and many dates in which I did what she was kind of demanding (church 1 or more times per week, including meeting her mom, attending other events with her), and not feeling like my efforts were being reciprocated, the relationship feeling lopsided wrt intensity (my fault), and finally being outright rejected for a kiss, i told her no more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631808) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:26 AM Author: ungodly knife u seem sad and regretful, but you made the right choice. u two weren't compatible and u could only pull off the act for so long. u weren't just deceiving her, u were also deceiving yourself. ultimately, even if u got her, the novelty would have worn off and u would have been miserable. trust me, i've been in similar situations. u can meet a good woman who will give u intimacy. don't sell urself short. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631813) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:27 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Tyvm friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631815) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:27 AM Author: Soul-stirring Patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631958) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:04 PM Author: Lake aromatic gaping business firm This is the most credited thing Ive read on here in months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633433) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:59 PM Author: scarlet idea he suggested turdskin I only hire the best people ;) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633714) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:27 AM Author: tantric nursing home seems like you made the right choice dooder, you'll feel better later. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631814) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:28 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Tyvm. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631817) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:24 AM Author: vivacious federal heaven haunted graveyard You should have been dating other women the whole time. She's really not worth your time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37632020) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:28 AM Author: Floppy useless abode What's the backstory (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631819) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:31 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Met online. About 10-12 dates over 4 weeks. Church 5-6 times. Game over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631827) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:30 AM Author: Arousing gold base alpha now she's going to fuck darnell, good job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631825) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:31 AM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Seems extremely unlikely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631829) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:56 AM Author: adulterous white circlehead You totally misplayed that. Why would she give you intimacy when she didn't even need to for you to let her lead you around like a little cuck? You shouldn't have done everything she asked. I would have told her no to all of that shit, and that we could start integrating our lives *after* we dated for a bit to make sure we were compatible. See her once a week on a date that's fun for you too. Then she'd be left to wonder about whether or not she was going to get you, and she would have conducted herself accordingly. Instead you let her control everything, then suddenly dropped her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631999) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:57 AM Author: Soul-stirring Patrolman The CHAD has spoken (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37632000) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:25 AM Author: vivacious federal heaven haunted graveyard Yep
I'm sure Corey Wayne would agree too. |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 12:45 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Why would she give me intimacy? Presumably because human people enjoy intimacy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633369) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 2:02 PM Author: effete internal respiration police squad You’re wrong on this one some girls are stuck in their frameworks and this girl sounds like one of them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633739) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 9:44 AM Author: Impressive titillating karate "I kissed her a couple times but she didnt move her lips at all" straight up lol |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 11:10 AM Author: vivacious federal heaven haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37632823) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:03 PM Author: talking exciting multi-billionaire (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633431) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:04 PM Author: Milky brethren (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634933) |
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Date: May 23rd, 2019 4:36 PM Author: unholy stubborn azn trust fund (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#38278839) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:25 AM Author: trip messiness this schtick is actually pretty good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631811) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:31 AM Author: trip messiness please focus on this thread and not your other two. this one has more promise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37631826) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 10:34 AM Author: unholy stubborn azn trust fund i'm still not totally clear on why you expected her to be any different. a religious girl who is actually seriously religious is gonna be an actual virgin who is pretty sexually awkward
i would have at least tried talking to her about it before i dumped her. i don't know why guys don't ever try to actually talk to women about what they want from them. they think it makes them "beta" or something
if you spent a month of time and effort negotiating a mutually beneficial contract with a man, and he was being difficult on one point, would you just up and walk away without trying to work it out with him? obviously not, so why would you do this with a woman? |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 12:51 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Because the time horizon in getting a cold fish to warm up is too long (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633381) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 12:57 PM Author: unholy stubborn azn trust fund yeah 1 conversation is definitely a longer time period than a whole month (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633404) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 2:06 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Maybe. My guess was it would take a long time to reprogram her. In the end she wasn’t very prestigious either and my kids would’ve suffered for it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633763) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:05 PM Author: talking exciting multi-billionaire (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633444) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:07 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Catholic did you say? Oh interesting.... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633453) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 10:53 AM Author: beady-eyed fanboi it's typical to fixate on this kind of regret if you have no other romantic prospects.
she's probably lost a ton of suitors because of her psychological damage.
and, make no mistake, strict religious upbringings often result in psychological damage.
trust me, you don't want to be dealing with that long term. |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:02 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital out the meal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633428) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 1:06 PM Author: talking exciting multi-billionaire (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37633446) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:20 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Megachurch girl had never seen a rated R movie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634195) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:27 PM Author: Insanely creepy home puppy worse flame than nyuug’s wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634223) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:28 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay As we were leaving church she said, thanks for taking me out to dinner. I want to cook you dinner.
Then she said do you want to come to a basketball game on Friday? I said sure. It was when going to that game that she spurned my advances for the last time and I ended it. |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:34 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Unbelievable how wrecked I still am over this. Insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634276) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:38 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital did she ever say what her ideal timeline would be? like 6 months of chaste courtship -> marriage -> pregnancy creampie? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634312) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:58 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay No she just kept repeating “this is all new to me” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634444) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 3:59 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital next time this happens you need to shift your focus but be clear and forceful. "if this is going to work out we are going to be married and you are going to be pregnant 6 months from now." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634451) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:16 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Probably what I needed to hear, because this would’ve been a mistake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634565) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:17 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital at least you could divorce her if she's barren tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634571) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:21 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay I don’t think I could’ve divorced her for being a wine shrew teacher though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634594) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:28 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital was she? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634645) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:29 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay she was 26 and about to graduate from some psychology program with a degree to become a high school counselor
i might've dodged a bullet |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:49 PM Author: beady-eyed fanboi jfc man. you dodged a monster bullet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634835) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:50 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay lol yeah i did (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634837) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:17 PM Author: Pink slimy goyim Did she have really thin lips (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635415) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:18 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay id say pretty thing yeah man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635421) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 4:52 PM Author: Buff 180 main people It cant be that rare for a girl to make you a homecooked meal. I bet you could get a tinderslut to do it after a date or two.
This church girl was clearly not into you. |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:04 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay cold nigga truth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37634937) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:44 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead You can probably still reengage the chick if you really want to. There have been a couple of times where I wasn't really getting anywhere with the chick, semi dumped her, then decided to see her one last time and ended up breaking through. It's possible that she's sitting on some regret too, no harm in reaching out. You see the bitch one more time and go all-in and see what happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635196) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:46 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay in order to do this i would have to look up my phone records, as Ive deleted her number
additionally, part of the problem was that i did go all in, i made clear i wanted to get serious, and she spurned my advances in a couple of ways..
i dont think my failure was in not being direct enough |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:49 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital your mistake was expecting sex with an evangelical chick. she probably didn't want to kiss you because she knew this was coming (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635234) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 5:51 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay i thought i did a pretty good job of not expecting sex, i really was more expecting her to be more submissive to me because of what a standup guy i was being - church, meeting her mom and friends, taking her to dinner. of course, doing things for her is exactly what turned her off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635247) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:08 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead So you expected to inspire her to be submissive by . . . submitting to her in every way? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635352) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:09 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay no by being a standup class A boyfriend who understands the value of unspoken give and take. I held up my end of the deal she just didn't know how to do hers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635360) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:11 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital you need to actually set an agenda with religious girls. again, if you didn't tell her when she could start expectin' dat ring and your babies, you were not holding up your end of the deal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635372) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:11 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay yeah i fucked up. i made jokes about getting serious and she said she wanted to talk about it, then we never did because i got mad at her rejecting me and being cold (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635376) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:13 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital yeah this is how i'm trying to get my gf to break up with me. she asked me to take the lead on deciding whether we'd go on a vacation together, and instead i'm drinking box wine and chatting with my best internet friends on zozo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635381) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:14 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay 180000000000 friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635385) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:15 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital not flame she wants to go to israel. i hate planes. this just isn't going to work out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635391) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:15 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay just fall in love with her man its not hard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635393) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:16 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital brother i don't even want to go from one city to another to see my dear friends i actually miss. i am not going to some desert hell to hang around while this jewess talks in tongues to her friends. travel is poison and i'm going to spend the rest of my life avoiding it everywhere i can (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635404) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:17 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay i respect your choice here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635410) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:27 PM Author: Pink slimy goyim 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635478) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:19 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead Deciding "where" or just "whether"? If it's just "whether" (as you posted), you could pull a Trump and tell her you have an announcement to make about the vacation, have some five star generals praise you for half an hour, then when she's finally leaving, tell her that you've thought about it and decided that you're NOT going on a vacation together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635431) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:20 PM Author: Lascivious insane hospital it's whether. huh... lemme see what i can find on FIVER 180 friend |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:22 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay After i told her i didn't want to see her again, she texted me about 4 days later and said "i've been thinking a lot about it, im sorry i rejected you, i hope i didnt hurt you or discourage you" then she listed 4 reasons why she likes me; "MIG is honest, a good listener, asks hard questions, and is funny". I said that was nice of her. that was 2 weeks ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635451) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:39 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead That was her frigid way of trying to salvage things. But note that none of the reasons she likes you suggest even a hint of romantic attraction. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635559) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:44 PM Author: Hyperventilating Cracking Tattoo Stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635602) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:45 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay seems right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635606) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:05 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay do you think this is because shes incapable of romantic feelings in general, or just for me? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635755) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:08 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead Not enough information to say (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635782) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:14 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay so hypothetically, at this point, she attempted to salvage, and i declined. i have the option of reopening? just curious (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635834) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:52 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead Let's just parse the text.
"i've been thinking a lot about it, im sorry i rejected you"
Implies she's still interested. The typical chick doesn't think a lot about the guys she has rejected. Here it's ambiguous about whether she's apologizing about rejecting your physical advance (good), or whether she believes she entirely rejected you as a suitor and just feels guilty about it because of the work you put in (not good).
"i hope i didnt hurt you or discourage you"
It's unclear whether she means discouraging you from pursuing her, or just discouraging you from dating in general. I'd assume it's the former based on your other posts
"then she listed 4 reasons she likes me"
There would be no reason to do this unless she's either interested, or is an incredibly patronizing person. Based on this girl being horrible at dating, my assumption would be that this was her awkward way of telling you she does want you to pursue her. |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:54 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Credit analysis. Seems to go both ways honestly. I am so defeated I don’t know that I could go after her again. TBD I guess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37636099) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:19 PM Author: beady-eyed fanboi she feels guilty about having thoughts related to physical attraction. it's the result of a strict, overbearing religious upbringing, where her parents and the church broke her psychologically as a control mechanism. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635873) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:20 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay one of the emotions i felt strongly towards her was sadness/empathy for the way she was forced to interact with everyone - very positive all the time. it made me like her more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635887) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:53 PM Author: adulterous white circlehead Sadness and empathy sound like the basis of a great relationship dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37636092) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 7:55 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay She DESERVES a loving stud such as myself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37636105) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:32 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay I just matched with a 28 year old 5'7" "Farmer" who loves jesus and international travel but lists her political views as Conservative (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635503) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:32 PM Author: Sooty concupiscible ceo corner this makes pre-crypto peterman poasting seem riveting by comparison, shut the fuck up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635504) |
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Date: January 21st, 2019 6:35 PM Author: Transparent French Chef https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNoqkDdkcJI (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#37635530) |
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Date: May 23rd, 2019 4:34 PM Author: unholy stubborn azn trust fund (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#38278832) |
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Date: May 23rd, 2019 4:35 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay I fucked up so fucking royally (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#38278834) |
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Date: May 23rd, 2019 4:35 PM Author: unholy stubborn azn trust fund i thought of bumping some more of these other threads but i kinda felt bad so i stopped (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#38278838) |
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Date: May 23rd, 2019 4:36 PM Author: disgusting sound barrier lay Lol cr ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4182827&forum_id=2#38278841) |