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Afraid my husband will go mental after I say I want a divorce.

Worried about sending my daughter to him. Psychos of xo, ...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
Shut the fuck up cunt
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Hey, thanks for the bump,man
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  12/29/19
Lol at how MAF me simply bumping this made you. Still seethi...
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I actually don't even know what you're talking about
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
Ten people bumped that poast and you only replied to me. Why...
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  12/29/19
You were the last bumper at the time I responded.
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She just wanted to destroy the symmetry. Kinda like she&rsqu...
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he will go crazy with joy
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You are truly the dregs of society. Just send the daughter t...
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The problem is that women who initiate divorces are too self...
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Then don’t. Stay married
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Do you think he believes you are going to reconcile?
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I believe he does, or that he's ignoring the obvious because...
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  12/29/19
Then be a proper human being and get along with him despite ...
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yeah definitely withhold the child right as you file divorce...
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There's nothing he can say about my behavior. He refuses to ...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
He's gay
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just marry another guy but dont divorce ur husband
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I've done this so many times.
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Separate rooms?
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
why are you getting divorced?
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  12/29/19
No good reason. She's just crazy.
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My husband is extremely controlling, critical, and emotional...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
you didn't notice the first two during your dating phase
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I stupidly ignored and/or rationalised it.
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
But you said that about your first husband too and basically...
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I think I also said I'm attracted to controlling men and thi...
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  12/29/19
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My aim is to change my messed up patterns. However, there is...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
At that point, wait until your dotter is out of the house an...
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  12/29/19
*like you'll end up no matter what* Rude.
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
I mean, yes, but it is fair. The problem is that you will a...
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  12/29/19
in other words, he won't bend 100% to your every whim. wome...
Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets
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No?
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  01/05/20
Dont let anxiety get the better of you. Be conclusive but no...
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This seems like good advice. He wouldn't actually accept it ...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
I would have tried too, babe. Cant blame him
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I thought this already happened. Or are you just separated?
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Just separated
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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It's fine if you want to get a divorce,** as you're obviousl...
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It is quite telling that so many posters here blame you afte...
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  12/29/19
You could just ignore this. What's your problem?
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
You’re a liar and a fraud Leave
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You are a narcissist with a victim mentality. Everyone sees ...
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My therapist is very convinced I'm not a narcissist, whateve...
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are you generally a very kind and considerate person (in gen...
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I think I'm kind, but I'm so crippled by insecurity that I p...
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  12/29/19
While this bort is unkind and partially deranged, it does te...
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Have you read my posts about things he has done? He: -...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/30/19
none of those things are worth initiating a divorce over.
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link to previous threads
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it seems more likely your husband will go mental if you DON'...
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Are you dating?
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i think some posters have been fairly accurate in their crit...
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  12/29/19
have you had him read this thread? http://www.xoxohth.com...
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  12/29/19
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Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
how mad are you that i understand you more than you understa...
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and it provides no objective insight into yourself? it's jus...
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he's clearly not "white knighting" her. also back...
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  12/29/19
What fuckin planet are you from
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An ugly planet. A bug planet.
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  12/29/19
How many kids do you have?
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kids who survived? no comment
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  12/29/19
Don't divorce him until you have a new husband lined up.
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Who is OP? Who cares? Upboat for you, mi'lady!
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Pic?
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£150k Yes, but only his name is on the deeds Hi...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
What did you expect, you married a turd worlder
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I don't think you would get that impression upon meeting him...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
  12/29/19
He’s Indian. Even if he’s refined, of course his...
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His mom is Irish.
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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Not rich! I think it's fine for a decent lifestyle. He obvio...
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He's completely obsessed with money and also controlling its...
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How is he controlling and abusive? Can you share some detail...
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Are you in USA now???
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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been 1 yr+
impressive garrison
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Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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im still married still 1 babby is uk home for you absent ...
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I work here and am about to be naturalised. I think it would...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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Interesting. I wonder if things would've turned out differen...
impressive garrison
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Did you find it hard to readjust?
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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No. I never got used to where I was though. Maybe that's why...
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"But you're still married?" she fantasizes abou...
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I had seen some posts some time ago about these fantasies an...
Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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Possibly. I don't know him well enough to say for sure. If...
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Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life
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It is 99% true.
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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:21 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Worried about sending my daughter to him.

Psychos of xo, do you think I have reason to fear this?

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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:40 AM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Bawdyhouse Pistol

Shut the fuck up cunt

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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:44 AM
Author: Thriller Chestnut Codepig



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:20 PM
Author: transparent federal volcanic crater space



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:50 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



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Date: December 29th, 2019 2:00 PM
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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:04 PM
Author: Kink-friendly Skinny Woman National



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:30 PM
Author: bossy abode twinkling uncleanness



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:16 PM
Author: Thriller Chestnut Codepig



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:31 PM
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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:34 PM
Author: free-loading sneaky criminal



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:44 PM
Author: maroon bespoke temple boiling water



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:47 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Hey, thanks for the bump,man

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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:57 PM
Author: maroon bespoke temple boiling water

Lol at how MAF me simply bumping this made you. Still seething from your assreaming the other day I guess

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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:59 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I actually don't even know what you're talking about

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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:59 PM
Author: maroon bespoke temple boiling water

Ten people bumped that poast and you only replied to me. Why?

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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:01 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

You were the last bumper at the time I responded.

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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:29 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib

She just wanted to destroy the symmetry. Kinda like she’s doing to her family

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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:25 PM
Author: mentally impaired friendly grandma coldplay fan



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:28 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:38 PM
Author: Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets



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Date: December 30th, 2019 5:49 AM
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Date: January 5th, 2020 6:58 AM
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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:43 AM
Author: excitant library

he will go crazy with joy

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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:44 AM
Author: ivory market

You are truly the dregs of society. Just send the daughter to him then jump off a bridge tyia

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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:39 PM
Author: Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets

The problem is that women who initiate divorces are too self centered to ever contemplate suicide

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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:44 AM
Author: Thriller Chestnut Codepig

Then don’t. Stay married

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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:45 AM
Author: ivory market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344351)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 2:01 PM
Author: Lascivious purple plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344972)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:45 AM
Author: frisky hell athletic conference

The only thing harming your daughter is the conflict between you and your ex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344350)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 11:45 AM
Author: ivory market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344352)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:50 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344915)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:20 PM
Author: Passionate keepsake machete

Do you think he believes you are going to reconcile?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344753)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I believe he does, or that he's ignoring the obvious because he can't face the truth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345096)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:21 PM
Author: razzmatazz immigrant

Then be a proper human being and get along with him despite his flaws. It's takes 2 people being fuckuos for a divorce to make sense. Just don't be a fuckup yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344764)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 2:02 PM
Author: Lascivious purple plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344978)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: Coral Fiercely-loyal Parlour Philosopher-king

yeah definitely withhold the child right as you file divorce, no way that plus the probably dozens of terrible things he could say about your behavior that you conveniently leave out are a problem at the custody hearing



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344770)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:45 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

There's nothing he can say about my behavior. He refuses to even have our daughter for more than 2 days. He says she misses me too much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344876)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:46 PM
Author: hot famous landscape painting sex offender

He's gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344882)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:48 PM
Author: burgundy faggotry gunner

just marry another guy but dont divorce ur husband

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344896)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:49 PM
Author: talented lavender address

in all honesty, the best thing you could do her is suck his dick. think about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344903)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:51 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344922)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:53 PM
Author: talented lavender address

yep, not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344937)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:40 PM
Author: henna pea-brained jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345963)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:49 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344907)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 2:34 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I've done this so many times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345098)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:03 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345244)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:31 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Separate rooms?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346224)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:51 PM
Author: cracking vengeful orchestra pit azn

why are you getting divorced?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344921)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:05 PM
Author: razzmatazz immigrant

No good reason. She's just crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345255)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:23 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345330)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:32 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

My husband is extremely controlling, critical, and emotionally cruel.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346226)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:37 PM
Author: rose exciting site private investor

you didn't notice the first two during your dating phase

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346262)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:41 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I stupidly ignored and/or rationalised it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346279)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:20 PM
Author: mind-boggling twinkling kitchen

But you said that about your first husband too and basically all men you don't like.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346465)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:23 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I think I also said I'm attracted to controlling men and this fucked up pattern, so it shouldn't be a surprise that they have similar traits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346475)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:24 PM
Author: mind-boggling twinkling kitchen

Eh, at some point you make your bed and you can lie in it. Especially when there's a child added to the mix.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346481)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:26 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

My aim is to change my messed up patterns. However, there is a possibility that he will suck me back in. In that event, I anticipate that i would have to go through this all again in 5-10 years because I think he's basically not a nice person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346490)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:30 PM
Author: mind-boggling twinkling kitchen

At that point, wait until your dotter is out of the house and in college and go be alone, like you'll end up no matter what.

Your alternative is divorce, fight your ex forever, fuck up your dotter, get together with some other guy who you'll inevitably hate, rinse, wash, repeat, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346503)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

*like you'll end up no matter what*

Rude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346525)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:38 PM
Author: mind-boggling twinkling kitchen

I mean, yes, but it is fair. The problem is that you will always be unhappy and blame it on the guy. Eventually, it will lead to the collapse of the relationship. But now there's a child involved and you should delay this cycle until the kid is out of the house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346548)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:41 PM
Author: Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets

in other words, he won't bend 100% to your every whim. women are so good at straight up lying about their future ex-husbands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346893)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 4:55 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

No?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380511)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 1:53 PM
Author: Flirting Dun Gaming Laptop Trailer Park

Dont let anxiety get the better of you. Be conclusive but not stubborn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39344935)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

This seems like good advice. He wouldn't actually accept it and said I need to give him a chance to show how he has changed. He said that if I file for divorce, he will fight it and make it very unpleasant.

Strangely, he tried to get me to spend the night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346230)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 12:05 AM
Author: Flirting Dun Gaming Laptop Trailer Park

I would have tried too, babe. Cant blame him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39347616)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:35 PM
Author: Pearl Underhanded Range Mood

I thought this already happened. Or are you just separated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345388)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:01 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Just separated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346380)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:36 PM
Author: drunken mad cow disease

It's fine if you want to get a divorce,** as you're obviously trash, but don't lie and say you love your daughter when you obviously don't, because no one who loves their kids gets divorced.

**It's actually not fine. Kill yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345390)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:46 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345430)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:16 PM
Author: Thriller Chestnut Codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345871)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 3:39 PM
Author: misunderstood meetinghouse striped hyena

Whoever has custody at the time the divorce papers are served has a big advantage. Learned this from marriage story on Netflix. This is not legal advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345399)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:36 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Don't worry, he probably wouldn't go for custody other than to hurt me / as a bargaining chip. Even tonight, he said that if we get divorced I will be a single mom and he will be alienated from his child. It's not like I'm withholding her other than by living 6 miles away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346248)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 5:43 PM
Author: 180 nursing home

I thought I would never say this, but I prefer BS to you. At least BS' flaws are funny and fairly unique, you are just a cliche; a shitty women who never takes responsibility for her actions and decisions and instead masks it all under psychological garble and eat, pray, love nonsense. If you were 10 IQ points dumber, you would be a much better person, because then you would not be so adept at constructing and feeding yourself bullshit rationalizations. Its fairly clear from the little slip ups you have made over the past few mega threads about your relationship that you are at least 50% of the problem with the relationship and yet instead of facing this fact when dozens of posters tell you this, you choose to continue to pretend to be some sort of victim "ooooh poor me, my big bad husband was rude to me the other day". I nor most on here would have a problem with this except for the fact that a) you have an innocent daughter whose life you are actively ruining and b) you pollute this bort with your nonsense.

My advice: Don't divorce your husband, take full responsibility for the fact that you are probably the bigger problem in the relationship and work on that. Maybe then your daughter won't grow up in a broken home and form a predilection for stripper poles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345752)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:35 PM
Author: clear adventurous theater stage turdskin

Harsh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345935)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:37 PM
Author: frisky hell athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345952)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:39 PM
Author: Vibrant maize native elastic band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345955)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:40 PM
Author: Lascivious purple plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345959)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:40 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345962)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:51 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

There were no slip ups. I actively, intentionally mentioned anything that I might have been wrong about or done wrong in an effort to present a fair picture.

If I'm smart enough to twist the narrative to suit my ends, it would have been easy enough to hide unflattering things about myself.

While of course I have not been perfect (no one is), there is basically no chance that I'm the *bigger* problem in the relationship. He's been horrible to me and disregarded my feelings about many important things on numerous, numerous occasions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346031)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:46 PM
Author: free-loading sneaky criminal

It is quite telling that so many posters here blame you after hearing only your side of the story.

Think about that.

We’ve only heard YOUR side and the bort is what? 75% saying you are equally culpable?

If we heard your husband’s side I’m pretty sure we would be 100% on your husband’s side.

You have consistently shown that you don’t take any responsibility. You don’t. No, you don’t. You DON’T.

You are a narcissist. Don’t even reply to this. I don’t want to hear your bullshit rationalizations.

Do us all a favor and divorce us. We don’t want you. Take your shit to a shrink you miserable bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346303)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:53 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

You could just ignore this. What's your problem?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346340)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:27 PM
Author: mentally impaired friendly grandma coldplay fan

You’re a liar and a fraud

Leave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346496)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:31 PM
Author: free-loading sneaky criminal

You are a narcissist with a victim mentality. Everyone sees it but you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346512)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:37 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

My therapist is very convinced I'm not a narcissist, whatever my failings. She thinks my husband is, though. I was concerned about the possibility and specifically asked her. I'm sure there's something else wrong with me, but that's almost definitely not it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346543)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:39 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

are you generally a very kind and considerate person (in general, apart from this domestic squabbling)?

do you suffer from a variety of anxiety and depression related issues?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346552)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:44 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I think I'm kind, but I'm so crippled by insecurity that I probably am not as considerate as I would like

Yes, I'm super anxious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346566)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 12:18 AM
Author: 180 nursing home

While this bort is unkind and partially deranged, it does tend to be pretty fair about domestic squabbles. The consensus on guys like TC, Muscadine, etc, tends to be fair when it comes to analyzing their domestic situations and pointing out whose at fault for what. You should really take a step back and cut the bullshit ("my therapist says..." and "my husband is emotionally abusive") and recognize that if the majority on here are telling you that you are the main culprit, then they are probably right.

Its cases like you that lead me to believe that, for whatever its positive effects, this mental health movement is actually having a net negative impact on society. People like you weaponize mental health education and use it as a tool to abdicate personal responsibility for their actions. Your language ITT and elsewhere drips of the catch-phrases of someone who has an external locus of control ("anxious", "demeaning", "depressed", "emotionally abusive") and wants to only take a sliver of the blame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39347658)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 2:07 AM
Author: cyan laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39348017)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 6:28 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Have you read my posts about things he has done?

He:

- glared at and shamed me every time I mentioned my pregnancy in our home because we had lodgers and he was afraid they would find out I was pregnant and move

- when I said I didn't want another lodger when my baby was a couple of months old, acted like I was a spoiled spendthrift and rented the room anyway so I had to live with this extra person

- constantly complained about and put down my job even though I told him it was hurtful

- played weird mind games where nothing I did was the right thing (example: complaining about me working too much in his opinion and saying I would be too lazy to get up early, but then not allowing me to stay up late or get up early to work because this would disrupt his sleep)

- complaining endlessly that I didn't spend enough time with our daughter but then getting angry if I wanted to play with her on Saturday when the au pair was on duty, because we were paying for that. Basically, he thought he had a right to control how I spent all my time

- bullied an au pair until she moved out

- told me that we had to have an au pair living in our house because if we didn't, I would be responsible for all childcare and pick ups/drop offs at nursery

- insisted on doing an extension to our house and going into debt for it when I didn't want this. As part of this campaign, he:

- told me that I would have to get an injunction to stop him

- told me that if I tried to block the work he would show the builder that I'm just a tenant (since I trusted him to be the sole owner for a tax related reason)

- decided we couldn't afford anything, such as a second pair of shoes for my daughter, and gave me hell if I spent money on anything he may disagree with

- told me it was non-negotiable and made many personal attacks

It was unendurable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39348238)



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Date: January 4th, 2020 9:07 PM
Author: diverse university

none of those things are worth initiating a divorce over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39378803)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 9:43 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

What about all in combination, and with no acknowledgement from him along the way that he has been wrong or insensitive?

What is sufficient grounds for divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380813)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 8:57 AM
Author: Cobalt Galvanic Double Fault

incredibly good post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380717)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:00 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Ps I kept wondering what I was doing wrong, and others told me that he's abusive. If I have "weaponized" anything (and I don't think I have), it's because other people saw situation and handed the weapons to me. I didn't go around looking for a diagnosis of this kind.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380860)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:36 PM
Author: free-loading sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346252)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:44 PM
Author: maroon bespoke temple boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346294)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:56 PM
Author: unholy area

absolutely ruthless. PWN PWN PWN.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346355)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:29 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346502)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:39 PM
Author: Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets

is this the greatest CGM poast ever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346883)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 8:55 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle quadroon ticket booth

He’s always been under appreciated because the bort hates libertarians

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380709)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 2:05 AM
Author: cyan laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39348014)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 8:58 AM
Author: Cobalt Galvanic Double Fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380720)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:36 PM
Author: Vibrant maize native elastic band

ban OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345941)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:44 PM
Author: Comical tank property

link to previous threads

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345990)



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Date: December 30th, 2019 4:43 AM
Author: Swashbuckling pearly cuckoldry stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39348180)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 6:45 PM
Author: Hyperventilating son of senegal

it seems more likely your husband will go mental if you DON'T get a divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39345995)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: Razzle toaster

Are you dating?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346161)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:20 PM
Author: razzmatazz immigrant

I told her to find some young Chad to fuck, but she said no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346174)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:21 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

she was 'mirin a younger english chad at all her depos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346177)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:30 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Oh, ha, I haven't thought of that since that incredibly stressful week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346220)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:30 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I kind of want to, but also feel both old and spent and like it would complicate my life in a way I'd rather not deal with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346217)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:35 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

ru sure he's not already balls deep in several substantially younger women?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346245)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:36 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

He claims he has no interest in anyone else. I mentioned my long-held suspicion that he could be cheating and he basically said I'm crazy and paranoid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346257)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:48 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

depending on how far down the sociopathy spectrum he is, one or both of those statements could be pure lies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346316)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:56 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

It's all very exhausting.

He now says that he is seeing a therapist and he realises that he treated me very badly, and if I come back we will do *everything* my way henceforth (not sure why he thinks this is the solution, sounds like a recipe for resentment and disaster), he is working on his mental health issues that led him to behave this way, and he wants us to decide together what kind of life we want moving forward.

I am not sure whether these are sociopathic promises intended to ensnare me or if it is sincere

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346356)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:06 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

i think some posters have been fairly accurate in their criticisms of you, and not sure this guy is a monster, but i also wouldn't be remotely surprised if he's nothing beyond a huge & incorrigible asshole. issues with say depression and anxiety can easily change if conditions change (although "conditions" aren't ssris, generally). issues with the kinds of personality traits that make you a really big asshole tend not to change, and ssris and therapy will almost always be inert in that regard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346395)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:13 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Sigh,which criticisms are potentially accurate?

Honestly, I think much of the problem is that he is an incorrigible asshole. I feel kind of bad about this because in a way I'm probably just rejecting him based on his basic personality traits which should have been apparent to me before marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346424)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:16 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346442)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:16 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

"Sigh,which criticisms are potentially accurate?"

don't think that would be profitable to try to hash out here at the moment

"Honestly, I think much of the problem is that he is an incorrigible asshole. I feel kind of bad about this because in a way I'm probably just rejecting him based on his basic personality traits which should have been apparent to me before marriage."

i suspect this is so too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346444)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:18 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

*don't think that would be profitable to try to hash out here at the moment*

Maybe it would be profitable to me, so I'm less of a fuckup? Headlines?

Do you think it's possible to have an ok marriage with a big asshole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346455)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:24 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

victim mentality, always the wronged party in every conflict, beyond meaningful reproach etc. tbf i do some of the same shit myself but am a fundamentally good person (in my own mind at least, and according to those who truly know me best), so those traits aren't necessarily the end of things, in my view.

"Do you think it's possible to have an ok marriage with a big asshole?"

only if the huge asshole treats you right enough, and there's little reason to expect that to change soon. basically agree with nyuug on this, but maybe you could give the guy one more shot over the course of a year



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346480)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:31 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

*victim mentality, always the wronged party in every conflict, beyond meaningful reproach etc.* Yeah, I almost certainly have a victim mentality to a certain extent. It can be difficult to admit fault. I think I have trouble coping with the idea that I can be wrong sometimes but not be a bad person. So there's truth in each of these statements.

At this moment, I'm inclined to give him another chance, but it seems inevitable that it would go wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346514)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:36 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

have you had him read this thread?

http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393536&mc=37&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346256)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:40 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

No. I think that this website would confuse him. He probably would identify with the content of that OP, however.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346271)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:41 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

how mad are you that i understand you more than you understand yourself? and i'm an xo deranged autist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346274)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:44 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

The OP in your other thread describes the theoretical man's subjective experience and understanding of what is happening under certain circumstances. I think that my husband would identify with that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346292)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:55 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

and it provides no objective insight into yourself? it's just pure subjective whimsy that's of no use to you? is that your stance?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346351)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:58 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I think it might provide some insight into some of his perceptions. I have no doubt that my insecurity, which probably attracted him, can also be annoying and difficult to deal with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346367)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:01 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

lol birdbrain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346382)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:04 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346392)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:08 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Did you read the post linked to? I was responding in part to that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346407)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 7:42 PM
Author: smoky haunted graveyard

how mad are you that, if i had met you 10 yrs ago, i could have predicted your future with a high degree of certainty as if it were written in stone?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346284)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:07 PM
Author: unholy area

there are literally zero posters ITT who have actually hung out with the OP IRL. as someone who has actually met her IRL - if she is who i think she is - my only advice is do whatever makes you happy

im not married and i dont have kids so what the fuck do i know? all i know is that theres a lot of people here saying you should stick with your husband for the sake of your daughter but shes gonna smell your resentment from a mile away and still very well could end up in a girlsdoporn lawsuit or whatever the fuck. you will also probably end up cheating on your husband - if you havent already - at some point anyways which would be even worse than just divorcing

plus your daughter actually could be happier growing up with her father (and maybe a stepmother) without being exposed everyday to a toxic relationship.

absolutely insane that youre in a failed marriage because you seemed like a perfectly normal sane girl back in the old NYC crew days. good luck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346402)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:09 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346408)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:11 PM
Author: unholy area

i dont know which white knighting fag this is but clearly she is in a massively failed marriage and her daughter is in danger of becoming girlsdporn E918

divorce could actually be the best way to protect her daughter, thats all im saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346416)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:13 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346422)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:18 PM
Author: unholy area

LOL@ this dummy with tiny pink RC skills. look at my post again. i said the father should raise her and maybe bring a stepmother into the picture

you dont end up girlsdoporn E928 raised by a single father. you end up in porn with a single mom - e.g. that amateur allure scene where mia malkova literally brings her mom to the porn shoot and watches her daughter swallow multiple loads on cam siting right next to her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346456)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:13 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

he's clearly not "white knighting" her. also back when xo women were young and fuckable, "white knighting" helped move the sex along.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346426)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:10 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

like many women, she's most attracted to huge assholes it seems. not at all surprising when such a union fails in some sense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346414)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:50 PM
Author: amethyst jap foreskin

you suck at life. Stop giving advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346942)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:08 PM
Author: obsidian big brethren

This whole thing is entirely your fault, and you are directly responsible for your daughter's horrible future, which certainly awaits her after what you've done and what you will do. No amount of rationalization will change this at all, and is completely useless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346406)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:09 PM
Author: unholy area

stuffwhitepeoplelike: outlawing female infanticide

what is up with white people and giving birth to daughters, really. its 2019, folks. look into IVF

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346410)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:11 PM
Author: obsidian big brethren

What fuckin planet are you from

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346417)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:13 PM
Author: Aggressive Arousing Cruise Ship

An ugly planet. A bug planet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346423)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:22 PM
Author: unholy area

in first world societies, there has traditionally been a very strong preference for sons

hence things like PATRILINEAL SUCCESSION, etc. (something whitey has no conception of, btw)

being OK with having daughters is a very cumskin thing. dont even get it twisted, lil homie. i support female infanticide 100%. LOL@ ever wanting to have daughters if you have a choice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346471)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:26 PM
Author: obsidian big brethren

Yes. In a third world country with an abundance of women you were frozen out. Makes sense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346491)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:29 PM
Author: unholy area

you do end up with a lot of betas who do not procreate in a patrilineal society, yes, but thats why you go the genghis route or let only the highest T males procreate - thats just darwin at work

i aint even mad, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346501)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:36 PM
Author: obsidian big brethren

How many kids do you have?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346542)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:41 PM
Author: unholy area

kids who survived? no comment

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346556)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:32 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346519)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:10 PM
Author: Well-lubricated unhinged voyeur legend

Don't divorce him until you have a new husband lined up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346413)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:12 PM
Author: cream associate cumskin

seriously though why did she marry a turdskin? like yeah obviously this chick has plenty of issues of her own, but why the fuck would any white woman voluntarily marry a turdskin? wtf did she think was gonna happen?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346420)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:17 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

lots of nice indian guys out there. but the rupinder types who look like & act like players out of a bollywood film often aren't, shockingly enuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346450)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:20 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Lol an Indian friend of mine once said my husband looks like a Bollywood star.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346462)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:20 PM
Author: unholy area

same reason male cumskins marry asian women and think youre advancing the interests of the "white race"

lol@ this indignant cumskin white nationalist fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346466)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:14 PM
Author: sepia sandwich state

Who is OP? Who cares? Upboat for you, mi'lady!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346427)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:16 PM
Author: Well-lubricated unhinged voyeur legend

Just keep posting and maybe we'll get a bra and panties shot!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346441)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:18 PM
Author: sepia sandwich state

We did get a bra and panties shot from Julia, and the photo was also geotagged with her exact coordinates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346457)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:19 PM
Author: Well-lubricated unhinged voyeur legend

Pic?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346459)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:17 PM
Author: Flatulent french ratface deer antler

What's his salary? Do you own any property together? How about his parents?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346451)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:22 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

£150k

Yes, but only his name is on the deeds

His dad is old and does basically nothing other than enjoy being cared for by his wife. His mother is very kind but severely practical. they spend as little money as possible, so (for example), a primary Christmas present to my daughter was a stained, used princess dress.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346472)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:31 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib

What did you expect, you married a turd worlder

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346511)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I don't think you would get that impression upon meeting him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346522)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:36 PM
Author: Claret twisted house shitlib

He’s Indian. Even if he’s refined, of course his parents are tacky. You just don’t know anything about the world

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346541)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 8:37 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

His mom is Irish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346546)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:13 PM
Author: Flatulent french ratface deer antler

Per month? I thought he was rich? Isn't 150k/yr in England poverty?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346714)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:16 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Not rich! I think it's fine for a decent lifestyle. He obviously disagrees and has gone into some kind of self-hating spiral as a result

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346733)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:19 PM
Author: Flatulent french ratface deer antler

What does he do? U saying he wants more $$ more than u want more $$?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346748)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:22 PM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

He's completely obsessed with money and also controlling its disposition. I am pretty frugal, feel ok in a household making more than £200k. For context, he was angry that I bought our daughter a second pair of shoes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346774)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:37 PM
Author: Flatulent french ratface deer antler

What about restaurants, how often do u dine out? I feel like in London 20yo college kids can afford to spend $100-200 at nobu each night

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346871)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 4:54 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I have been dining out maybe four to six times per month, including quick lunches. I also eat lunch in the staff cafeteria. Have been making my own coffee all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380510)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:32 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346845)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:40 PM
Author: Stimulating Indian Lodge Nibblets

they need to be gassed out of existence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346887)



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Date: December 29th, 2019 9:57 PM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39346986)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 4:52 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Lol. I was utterly miserable for over a year and it was, quite literally, destroying me. He seemed oblivious to this despite my many efforts to get through to him. He was do convinced that he was objectively right about everything and I was unreasonable that he didn't feel a need to alter his behaviour.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380503)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 5:02 AM
Author: frisky hell athletic conference

Someone should send your stupid poasts to London child protection authorities and hopefully you'll never see your kid again except behind plexiglass holding a bobby's hand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380515)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 8:47 AM
Author: Orchid goyim school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380699)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 6:48 AM
Author: umber stirring heaven rigpig

op has always come across as a selfish, spoiled, entitled, despicable person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380584)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 7:02 AM
Author: Misanthropic International Law Enforcement Agency

How is he controlling and abusive? Can you share some details?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380602)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 8:56 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle quadroon ticket booth

I don’t get why people take the time to read LH threads. I’ve never read past “muh husband mean!”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380713)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 9:35 AM
Author: henna pea-brained jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380785)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:02 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I think some people hate read. They could ignore, but clearly get something out of it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380866)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:03 AM
Author: impressive garrison

cum back to usa with babby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380868)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:05 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Are you in USA now???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380872)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:08 AM
Author: impressive garrison

been 1 yr+

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380877)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:11 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Ah, really??? I have missed all of these updates. But you're still married? How many babbies do you have now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380885)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:12 AM
Author: impressive garrison

im still married still 1 babby

is uk home for you absent the hubby connection at this point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380886)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:24 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I work here and am about to be naturalised. I think it would be pretty hard to go back to the US after so long, and given the issues around my husband's visitation rights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380916)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 1:16 PM
Author: impressive garrison

Interesting. I wonder if things would've turned out differently if you guys got married and lived on your stomping grounds instead of his hood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39381549)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:27 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Did you find it hard to readjust?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39380921)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 1:15 PM
Author: impressive garrison

No. I never got used to where I was though. Maybe that's why.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39381542)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 6:47 PM
Author: supple fat ankles sanctuary

"But you're still married?"

she fantasizes about white work chad, but married a great wagecuck and knows better than to mess with that, at the end of the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39382994)



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Date: January 6th, 2020 7:48 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

I had seen some posts some time ago about these fantasies and didn't know if it signaled bigger relationship issues or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4410538&forum_id=2#39385691)



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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:23 AM
Author: Amber resort persian

This is all a moot point, it's very clear you've already decided to divorce him. Based on the limited reading I've done, it seems both highly likely that he is an asshole and that you also have some significant mental issues and that any children the two of you had would have been dealt a bad hand from the start. My advice would be to move forward with as amicable a divorce as possible and not remarry or even date anyone until you've had years of competent therapy, not life coaching. There's a huge difference. You need a therapist that will hold your feet to the fire and force you to look inwards.

Also, don't bad mouth your husband to your daughter and put her first in all things going forward. This is the only way she may not resent you in the future and may not end up completely fucked up. Whether it's true or not, you don't want your daughter growing up thinking her dad is a huge pile of shit, even if he is one, because that will be horrible for her self esteem. Let her figure that out when she's an adult and her brain is already formed.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:55 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

This seems mostly fair. I'm trying hard not to badmouth him, but he insists on doing handoffs in person to me (rather than him taking her to and from daycare), and then goads me or begs me to spend time with him, which inevitably leads to arguments which she witnesses.

Given the fact pattern: he's an asshole, things in his life aren't going well, he's super controlling, and he's in denial about my leaving, would you be afraid of him doing something crazy or violent?

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Date: January 5th, 2020 3:59 PM
Author: Amber resort persian

Possibly. I don't know him well enough to say for sure.

If you are worried, there is no reason for the two of you to meet anywhere but in public or really have any further communication that does not involve your daughter. The divorce should be handled via your attorneys. Unless he has explicitly threatened you or physically harmed you, I would avoid attempting to get a restraining order and for god's sake, don't formally accuse him of anything he hasn't done. Your goal here should be the welfare of your child. You may need to be the better person and eat a little shit if you truly want to minimize the impact on her.

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Date: January 6th, 2020 7:50 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

Ty. Lawyers mentioned "non molestation" orders months ago but I'd really prefer to minimise public humiliation for all parties. It seems like that would also just provoke nastier sneaky behaviour from him in the long run.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:34 AM
Author: Yapping Roast Beef

Obviously most people on this site revel in other people’s anguish because they are in pain and need an outlet to lash out. They’re not a source of advice you should ever listen to on a matter like this.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:37 AM
Author: Hideous Fishy Pisswyrm Spot

She's not here for advice. She's here for attention.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 10:46 AM
Author: Alcoholic Water Buffalo Love Of Her Life

That's not totally true. It's like a bad habit I turn to in times of stress. And actually I appreciate well-intentioned advice.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 1:26 PM
Author: Hideous Fishy Pisswyrm Spot

It is 99% true.

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Date: January 5th, 2020 1:32 PM
Author: frisky hell athletic conference

She's loathsome, easily worse than DBG because his "victims" were adults and she's targeting her own child

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