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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:14 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Comp gonna scratch 7 figures - vs my 150k government job.
Quit and stay at home dad? |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 11:49 AM Author: 180 out-of-control senate immigrant I would. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131689) |
Date: March 31st, 2023 11:15 PM Author: Crystalline soul-stirring voyeur cuck isn't that extremely emasculating for you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126845) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Should I give a shit? I dont. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126849) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:17 PM Author: Crystalline soul-stirring voyeur cuck most men like retaining dignity but if you don't more power to you, might as well do nothing with your life and ride on her success (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126857) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:33 PM Author: Aromatic mahogany base lol at this. if i could do this i would in a second. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126955) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:47 AM Author: mind-boggling plaza cr, he should wagecuck much harder so as to retain his “dignity” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127626) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:51 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Exactly. I am lolyer and could lateral out of public interest and make more. Why? We dont need the money, my wife loves her job and I dont like to wagecuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127635) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:10 AM Author: bistre boyish karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127791) |
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Date: April 15th, 2023 7:17 PM Author: Chestnut travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46190211) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 3:17 PM Author: Know-it-all office hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46601677) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:28 PM Author: plum site A real man is secure enough in himself to know he brings more to the table than just money do it doesn't matte whether the woman makes more. Do you think women care how much money a 6'4 jacked handsome firefighter has? Of course not. Only ugly manlets use money to make themselves attractive to women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126922) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:48 PM Author: sick theatre in California women specifically seek to marry firefighters for pension $$$$ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127028) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:53 AM Author: Multi-colored point twinkling uncleanness In NY and CA that jacked firefighter makes $150K+ and works 8 days a month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127900) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:05 PM Author: beady-eyed persian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128627) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:09 PM Author: Motley Property Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46130111) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: idiotic stock car ticket booth Time for full on dick in pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126848) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman unnnngghhhhhhh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126852) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:50 AM Author: Stimulating metal goal in life institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127631) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:59 AM Author: idiotic stock car ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127934) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: sepia resort volcanic crater do not sahd whatever you do. trust me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126853) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:17 PM Author: adulterous copper space 180, congrats. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126860) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:19 PM Author: alcoholic dragon Hope she's ready for the traditional new female partner bukkake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126870) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: Indecent crackhouse How old are the kids? Who usually takes care of them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126899) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Elementary school, nanny (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127049) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:57 PM Author: Indecent crackhouse You’re living like a god. Enjoy it and make sure your wife has great life insurance (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127065) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:59 PM Author: Massive costumed nibblets cr then kill wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46129620) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: Crystalline soul-stirring voyeur cuck OP wants to be WFH Dad and is already trying to have an indoor pool installed.
LMAO, what a pathetic "man" |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:54 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Yeah, what a bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127052) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: apoplectic heaven halford No you should not give a shit at all. That is 180. You hit the lottery. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126904) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:35 PM Author: sooty home 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126964) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:35 PM Author: vengeful organic girlfriend how many kids do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126968) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:54 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman 3 little boogers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127051) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:36 PM Author: Aromatic mahogany base do you enjoy your job at all? if so, then stay around. if not and you can occupy your time in a productive manner (ie, not sit around drunk) then quit. congrats! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126971) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Im an HYS lawyer in a public interest job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127046) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:08 AM Author: Aromatic mahogany base nonresponsive, although i suspect your job is tolerable. do you LIKE it, like do you enjoy doing what you do and you'd do it even if you had to take less money?
i am a partner at a large firm and some mornings i do not wan tto get out of bed. for that reason i am figuring out my exit from firms. (i was in biglaw and generally did like it, but even there i would have quit if i could have.) so if you were in my circumstances, i'd tell you 100% SAHD.
i think the question really is are you "wagecucking". i am, but if you're liking what you do, i would say you aren't. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:12 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman I dont like working, the government sucks, but people ITT are correct that at least having a job is worth something and its a bit of a leap to go purely SAHD. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127796) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:23 AM Author: Aromatic mahogany base here is what i would do. quit your job. take a few months off to be SAHD and just chill out. then find something you really WANT to do that could also be a job. start down the path of doing that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127822) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 5:16 PM Author: vengeful organic girlfriend I would go SAHD if she were to finance everything like a man would. if she’s gonna be a primitive resource collector and use you as cheap labor but you can’t be a full chad dad then fuck that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128954) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:49 PM Author: titillating painfully honest address lettuce shes cheating on u regularly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127032) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:50 PM Author: excitant disgusting dilemma pozpig sounds like it's a win win for him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127040) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:37 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman I doubt it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127614) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:40 AM Author: Stimulating metal goal in life institution cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127616) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: Navy Theater Stage Jewess SAHD sounds awful. I like WFH but with my wife as a SAHM. Actually having to do all the childcare is killself territory, esp if kids are young. My impression is most dudes would hate it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127050) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:56 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman My kids are all in elementary school - it would mostly be manage the house (we have a historic old home) and then after school, coach soccer, shuttle the kids, do homework, dinner and put them down. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127060) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: Navy Theater Stage Jewess Pathetic if you don’t have a job at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127069) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: Indecent crackhouse You should be doing a lot of that anyway since you have a chill job. It’s 180 to be loved and adored by your kids especially if your wife is always working. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127072) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:00 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman I do. I cook most of the dinners, do most of the driving and take care of night shit. My wife is rarely home before the kids are in bed while I am off at 5 at the latest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127081) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: hyperactive charismatic kitty does she resemble kim wexler in behavior and looks? plz describe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127070) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:01 AM Author: razzmatazz sickened milk gaming laptop you need to have a consultation NOW with the nastiest divorce lawyer in your county. understand how to build your record so that in 3-4 years when you drop the papers you will be set.
just kidding. congrats. enjoy it. and congrats to her. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:05 AM Author: Comical philosopher-king shrine Jk but you should talk to divorce lawyer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127104) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:06 AM Author: hyperactive charismatic kitty 180 moniker holy shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127107) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:45 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127622) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:48 AM Author: razzle-dazzle impertinent circlehead tanning salon Location? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127627) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:55 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Major market east coast suburb (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127647) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:49 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage This thread is depressing.
OP is fucked no matter what. No realistic way out of this.
I just hope OP is really a.female and is switching genders to avoid drawing too much attention to herself as a fempoaster. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:52 AM Author: mind-boggling plaza Are either of you jewish? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127637) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:54 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman No, straight wasp. She has a religion too which is why all the divorce chatter is laughable. Not happening. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127644) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:58 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage Mormon?
There are literally no other straight up wasps left in the US. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:00 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman In that range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127656) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:06 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage MFCR.
If Mormon that actually changes my whole analysis.
Ypure in good shape if so. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:53 AM Author: racy piazza You would need to fuck the shit out of her daily. Like zero communication, 100% dick in pussy, every single time you saw her. This is the ONLY way this will work. This is legal advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127641) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:56 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Well, she travels 25-40%. And when not traveling I am usually crashed when she gets home. Mostly see her weekends and some evenings. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127649) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:01 AM Author: racy piazza Yeah then quit. She won't respect your 125 gig anyway. Better to not have two masters. Never EVER speak to this woman again. Solely fuck. Source: the only person on this board who understands women. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:04 PM Author: racy piazza Another *only* cr goes ignored on favor of utter tripe and ignorance. Steez? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128623) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:56 AM Author: irate school cafeteria pisswyrm 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127648) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:59 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman My only mistake was becoming a lawyer. All the talk of being emasculated or whatever by not working doesnt apply to this broken profession. I am doing society a favor by taking one more lawyer out of the market. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127655) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:04 AM Author: irate school cafeteria pisswyrm Cr. If we could live on my wife's salary or I had the ability to make money doing something else I'd quit law in a heartbeat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127661) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:51 AM Author: Adventurous flatulent electric furnace “That’s the secret, Cap. I’m always emasculated.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127891) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 1:35 PM Author: irate school cafeteria pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128374) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:19 PM Author: Diverse range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46130192) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:57 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage OK OP.
I figured out your best way out of this conundrum.
You need to get into real estate. Specifically, start by using your wife's money to buy the cheapest small property within 30 minutes of where you live.
Contract the renovation yourself learning as much as possible.
Flip.
You may lose money, but who gives a shit. This is just to learn.
Do it again until you're good at it.
Then start renting them out.
Use.ypur wife's money to build a nice little real estate empire.
Get your contractors license while your at it. Do some contracting work on the side so you can keep your subs happy.
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:01 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman We own 8 properties and rent. Two are local and maintenance falls on me for those - part of the tradeoff with my 30-hr a week job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127658) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:05 AM Author: self-centered khaki stage Great. Will be much easier to get wife on board.
Do the same thing, but just with a renovation of whatever property you have that's next vacant.
Sell the non-local ones and 1031 into something close by. You're new job is real estate. You want something you can manage.
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I have a bad feeling this kind of long term goal oriented behavior is going to be anathema to someone who works in. Government. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:03 AM Author: transparent church building dog poop thats some king shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127659) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:12 AM Author: Aromatic mahogany base this thread is a very good illustration of the mental illness on display on this boart. the place collectively goes on and on about how wagecucking and working for someone else is for suckers, etc. then OP points out that he's in a position where he might be able to quit his job, and at least half the poasts are from faggots calling him a faggot for even considering not having a job.
there are so many loser faggot haters here. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:17 AM Author: vigorous up-to-no-good psychic Working sucks. Having a woman be your master also sucks.
Life sucks. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:22 AM Author: Aromatic mahogany base see, this poast is a good example of what i said.
this guy HIT THE LOTTERY, which someone pointed out above, and here you are going "yeah, i mean i guess you don't have to work but this also sucks."
fuck out of here with that. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:36 AM Author: seedy razzle area half-breed He can divorcepwn his wife, she ain’t his master (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127843) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 11:25 AM Author: Lascivious Aqua Field hell yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127989) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 11:51 AM Author: pearly public bath i like the real estate idea. your wife is probably a battle axe and it sounds like she works all the time. but overall this is better than your wife *not* making partner. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128079) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:11 PM Author: hateful deep skinny woman For a while, she’s made it clear she considers my job more of a hobby/inconvenience than anything that contributes. If I stayed at it, I would to deal with basically taking all the family tasks anyway, I would never get her to prioritize my job over hers or the family stuff, and I dont think it earns me much respect anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128128) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 11:20 AM Author: pearly public bath that doesn't sound like a healthy attitude from your wife. i guess if you're looking for our permission to SAHD, ok. i would honestly review the divorce laws in such a situation just to build a record, just in case. no one ever expects things to fail. can you coach kids sports? or get involved in something that involves masculine leadership (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131604) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 1:39 PM Author: grizzly prole boiling water Nice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128388) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 2:18 PM Author: Big Peach Spot now is a perfect opportunity to life frugally before the kids get truly expensive. you could consider rolling back to part-time or maybe if nothing else is feasible, you become an SAHD for 4-5 years. maybe you can find something full-time remote.
that way you can fire the nanny and the kids get a better childhood with someone around during the early developmental stages. once they are approaching high school and will be bratty and have social demands, you guys can settle somewhere cheaper with a nice $$$ situation from your wife grinding partnership for years.
what you don't want to do is continue toiling something like 40 hours a week at a go-nowhere job while she's making seven figures. in addition to the fact that this scenario often drives a wedge into marriages IME, it will handcuff you to her salary once the kids are older and expensive private schools, college, housing, etc all starts to blow you out. you will be able to afford it but she'll have to continue working.
stack cash for as long as it works, then both get out and move somewhere you like but cheaper and easier. you keep practicing so you can have some semblance of a career and she will be able to get something lucrative but not to scale with what she was doing. then you can both have a more chill and balanced lifestyle as your kids become more independent. and the money will be all good. if she has some trajectory after paying back in or whatever needs to happen and you're not getting wrecked by lifestyle creep wherever you are, you could put away several million easily and be very comfortable for the next phase. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 7:57 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman She fucking loves her job. Lives for it. She isnt leaving and we arent moving unless she gets canned which isnt likely.
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:11 PM Author: Aggressive roast beef library Will you have your own money or will it strictly be her money? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128640) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:20 PM Author: Abusive judgmental theater boistinker What is the outlook on her comp as a first year partner vs next and in 5, 10 years?
Partners now can make like legit rich incomes of $4-6 million *average* at the top 30 shops. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 5:13 PM Author: Aromatic mahogany base (guy who calls law firms "shops") (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128943) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 7:54 AM Author: hateful deep skinny woman Without too many details, she is in a firm/practice area that caps much lower. Probably in the 1-2 range for the foreseeable future. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131206) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 6:01 PM Author: Aromatic mahogany base your wife's deal is a basket full of 180s. i was a partner at BAKER AND HOSTETLER in dc and not flame i was in my fifth year as a partner and i made 350k. i wish i were kidding but i am not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46133248) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 5:13 PM Author: well-lubricated bisexual lay potus Thank you for your honesty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46602176) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 4:52 PM Author: histrionic parlour nowag Go into politics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128879) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 5:12 PM Author: vibrant frisky ape fanboi Update: he's divorcing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46602171) |