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27year old never dated or kissed; how to get gf and be happy?
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:10 AM Author: laughsome pea-brained box office travel guidebook It's hard to hang out with people now because its weird when I am single and never talk about dating or girls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290080) |
Date: December 21st, 2012 12:13 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike In a similar situation
I would go balls to wall workaholic, then avoid work functions if possible. Generally speaking, coworkers won't pry too closely. |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:15 AM Author: laughsome pea-brained box office travel guidebook I like hanging out with ppl but they all start talking about their kids and getting married and vacations. It's embarrassing when I am like the fifth wheel of two couples where the doods are my friends
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike I dunno. It's a lot easier to live life this way if you're a hermit, or you only have a few friends who are also misfits. How awkward is it at this point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290110) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM Author: exhilarant crystalline private investor hall Stop equating women with happiness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290101) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:17 AM Author: laughsome pea-brained box office travel guidebook Ok how do I be happy? I actually am pretty happy cause my job is awesome, but I eat lonely sometimes and want someone to like me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290104) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:21 AM Author: exhilarant crystalline private investor hall I recommend a prostitute so you see sex as a commodity like everything else, it will help deconstruct your notion of how it's the greatest thing ever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290127) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM Author: turquoise native tank Protip: teach english in china, get chinese girl friend...self-esteem boost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290102) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:30 AM Author: ivory diverse national terrible advice
99% of chinese women are beyond worthless |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike Compared to modern, western sewer skunks? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290166) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:44 AM Author: ivory diverse national non anglo-saxon white women tend to pwn the fuck out of asian women bro.
also im strictly talking about mainland chinese women here. korean and japanese women, or even HK or taiwanese women, are much better. |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM Author: turquoise native tank they're not worthless in the "no communication required but will still fuck you dept"...plus im sort of into the whole acting like they don't like noises they make
too bad i don't want half-breed babies...too bad |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:43 AM Author: ivory diverse national "no communication required but will still fuck you dept"
so you basically use them as a human fleshlight. i don't see how that helps your self-esteem, it certainly wouldn't help mine.
they are worthless because communism represses and distorts sexuality, and as a result, very few chinese women have mannerisms that can be considered "sexy" or compatible with western sensibilities.
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:46 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike Can they at least be counted on to be faithful? Or is it like here where if you leave her alone for more than 5 mins you run the risk of being cucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290241) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:52 AM Author: ivory diverse national absolutely not.
post marital infidelity is rampant. younger unmarried women will straight up try to get with high status married men. Apparently, Chinese MBA program are notorious are enrolling older successful business men and young good looking women.
if a chinese person has an opportunity to "move up", be this in career, or relationship or whatever, you can count on that he/she will take it. these people have no morals.
also, i think staying faithful when you have options is mostly a function of self control and also courage, both of which the chinese lack dearly. |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:54 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike They can't even be trusted to be faithful with the older business doods tho? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290281) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:58 AM Author: ivory diverse national of course not. it's a business transaction at that point. do you expect faithfulness from trading partners? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290299) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike Well, on the one hand, if a woman is marrying you only for your money, I would imagine she doesn't care much for you and will be inclined to cheat. On the other hand, I would think she wouldn't want to risk being cut off from the dude's wealth. But how that plays out would depend perhaps on what the marriage laws are like in China, and I know nothing about that. I can't imagine they've gotten as bad as they are here in the U.S. though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290312) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:32 AM Author: ivory diverse national it's not really possible to answer, because "cheating" implies that two people are fully invested into each other at some point, and this simply does not happen in these gold digger relationships. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290440) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:50 AM Author: turquoise native tank yeah but OP is virgin, popping dat cherry has gotta give him some kinda boost
just trying to help the bro through the dark times... |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM Author: ivory diverse national just do squats breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290311) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM Author: laughsome pea-brained box office travel guidebook I have almost reached the point where I have stopped getting crushes on people. What to do then? I'll never like someone in that way again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290115) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:26 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike Obviously not an expert here, but I think crushes are really only something young people experience. I think the idea is that you start dating and then hopefully something more develops; and if it doesn't, you move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290141) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM Author: Domesticated excitant home Gf won't make you happy for more than a few months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290146) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM Author: Yellow multi-colored rehab you don't have a gf because you secretly don't want to. if someone called you right now, you'd be annoyed instead of catering to needy people. It's a self serving bias, which you can defeat with a lot of hard work. To start things off, I've found that dedicating a percentage of my time to relationships is a fruitful endeavor.
For example, instead of seeking short term gains excessively (being a lone, eating, videogames, neglecting health), seek long term gains. This usually means incurring an upfront cost in the present, maybe continually accruing losses for a while, then seeing the fruits of your investment pay off. Think of moments as opportunity costs. Spending an extra minute with that weird girl in your daily routine could blossom into a vicious cycle of reciprocity. For example, she may not be gf material, but she can introduce you to different circles, same with that weird guy you avoid for whatever reason. |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:28 AM Author: laughsome pea-brained box office travel guidebook This may be correct. What long term investments are you talking about? I am pretty introverted so like being alone a lot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290154) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:29 AM Author: Yellow multi-colored rehab A long term investment would be picturing yourself at 95 years old, lying next to a sweet old lady who just made you tea or hot chocolate or whatever. Neglecting the now can have serious repercussions in the future. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290157) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM Author: Titillating alcoholic site This sounds like hell. (not OP) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290167) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:32 AM Author: Yellow multi-colored rehab where do you see yourself far off into the future? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290170) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM Author: Titillating alcoholic site Dead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290173) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM Author: ruby den preventive strike Titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290174) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:16 AM Author: Effete razzmatazz shrine I am also in this position. I wonder if a relationship would actually make me happy. I have a feeling it wouldnt, in the long run at least (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290629) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM Author: stimulating round eye stfu doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290714) |
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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM Author: Buck-toothed church building impossible at this point. Have you considered killself? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#22290715) |
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Date: January 27th, 2026 9:44 AM Author: Marvelous Deer Antler update? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#49622965) |
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Date: January 31st, 2026 4:31 PM Author: actual white person with a turtleneck and MacBook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2!#49636320) |
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Date: January 31st, 2026 4:34 PM You have to be open about it and people will be understanding. You’ll grow and it will just be forgotten about.
Only way it lingers is if you hide it. Otherwise, you should be able to find some dates pretty soon.
Most important question..why is this the case? |