2. I’ve almost been caught by my wife several times. She’s caught me messaging her a few times and demanded to know who it is and I’ve just told her no. Things are stressed.

3. I have couples therapy with my wife and things are nuclear at home.

4. Subordinate also has marriage problems predictably. She told him she wants a divorce. He wants to fix things. He took her to dinner to try to rekindle things with her and she spent the whole time sending me secret messages, felt bad for the guy.

5. It’s a little exhausting juggling all this. Subordinate wants to chat literally say long morning til night. My wife wants her cut. I have to work. Subordinate makes me happy and horny but yes it complicates my life a lot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49643818)

You are clearly retarded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49643831)

You are chasing an object here and if you end up with her you’ll think she sucks and pine for something else

Whatever you do you will regret it Ala Kierkegaard

You’re fucking up your kid though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49643928)

https://commons.wikimannia.org/images/Judith_S._Wallerstein_-_Unexpected_Legacy_of_Divorce.pdf

here's the study, it's the gold standard, do what you want but be aware that you are fucking your kid up period

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49644038)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stay_Together_for_the_Kids#Background

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49644073)

hard topic to study

could easily point to hetherington to say 75-80% of kids are resilient and adapt well

that said divorce out of boredom and chasing a younger woman seems ttt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49645361)

But whatever. It's almost certainly better for the kids to resist the temptation to smash younger pussy, but that's not realistic for most men if the opportunity is there. And if the OP has a 7-figure income, most likely his wife will get over it if he gets caught, because the alternative is to downgrade her lifestyle significantly. That said, if the OP can salvage his marriage for his kid's sake, he probably should.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49646006)

You say "well I'll be there for my kid" but don't consider that your dad probably said the same thing.

You say "well you never know the mother could turn him against me, but he'll figure it out later on." Did your mom do that? Sounds like maybe you've still got beef with her, too.

This entire situation is a response to your childhood. You still have a chance to break the cycle IMO if you cut it off now and commit to your family. Whatever you do from here on out will imprint on your child in a way that you hopefully understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49646143)

"Dad! I made $3 million last year! Why aren't you proud of me?!!??"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49646249)

It’s very hard to resist . Those whose parents stayed together can’t understand this as a lived experience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49646609)

my dad is shit and I haven’t spoken to him in 25+ years. I’ve got nothing to prove to him and he doesn’t enter into my daily thinking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5830515&forum_id=2"#49646678)