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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
aggressive hunting ground
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
Up-to-no-good Hominid
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
aggressive hunting ground
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
Up-to-no-good Hominid
  04/20/26
you are brown
Ultramarine really tough guy
  04/22/26
lmao
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  04/20/26
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insane geriatric church telephone
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Learning Disabled Preventive Strike
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
aggressive hunting ground
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
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  04/20/26
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Misanthropic casino dragon
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
cobalt misunderstood twinkling uncleanness tanning salon
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
aggressive hunting ground
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
salmon messiness
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
Odious Carmine Theater Stage
  04/20/26
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salmon messiness
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
racy hall
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
aggressive hunting ground
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
racy hall
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
salmon messiness
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
cobalt misunderstood twinkling uncleanness tanning salon
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
salmon messiness
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
racy hall
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
salmon messiness
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
aggressive hunting ground
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
salmon messiness
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
aggressive hunting ground
  04/21/26
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Up-to-no-good Hominid
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
racy hall
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
Vibrant Coiffed Jap Center
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
shivering impertinent hell new version
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
Puce electric point athletic conference
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
rusted seedy indian lodge sweet tailpipe
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
Yellow titillating set
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
aggressive hunting ground
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
grizzly kitty
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
Excitant Step-uncle's House
  04/20/26
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Stimulating fuchsia piazza puppy
  04/20/26
you only live once
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  04/21/26
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Insanely creepy godawful gas station
  04/21/26
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grizzly kitty
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Chestnut Dashing Native Main People
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
grizzly kitty
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
Vibrant Coiffed Jap Center
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
aggressive hunting ground
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Shimmering Motley Multi-billionaire
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
aggressive hunting ground
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
cerebral insecure base
  04/21/26
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insane geriatric church telephone
  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
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  04/22/26
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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Hominid

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Hominid

You're fucked.

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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: Ultramarine really tough guy

you are brown

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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: lascivious state

lmao

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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: insane geriatric church telephone



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Onyx Slap-happy Rigpig Home



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: insane geriatric church telephone



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Preventive Strike



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Startled public bath

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: Misanthropic casino dragon



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: cobalt misunderstood twinkling uncleanness tanning salon

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: salmon messiness

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Odious Carmine Theater Stage

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: salmon messiness



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: racy hall

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: racy hall

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: salmon messiness

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: cobalt misunderstood twinkling uncleanness tanning salon

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: salmon messiness

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: racy hall

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: salmon messiness

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: salmon messiness

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good Hominid



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: racy hall

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: Vibrant Coiffed Jap Center

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: shivering impertinent hell new version

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: Puce electric point athletic conference

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: rusted seedy indian lodge sweet tailpipe

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: Yellow titillating set

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: grizzly kitty

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: Excitant Step-uncle's House

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: Stimulating fuchsia piazza puppy



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: sepia curious school cafeteria patrolman

you only live once

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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: ruby regret

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Insanely creepy godawful gas station



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: grizzly kitty



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Chestnut Dashing Native Main People

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: grizzly kitty

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: Vibrant Coiffed Jap Center

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Shimmering Motley Multi-billionaire

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground

She can’t breed

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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: cerebral insecure base

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: insane geriatric church telephone



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Hominid

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: aggressive hunting ground



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