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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:34 PM Author: vivacious massive property
Today, I received a lot of information from (of all places) the hospital that had previously treated him. This is not where he experienced the events causing his death.
First, I received a phone call from the assistant to his surgeon (after hours). She told me she heard what happened, that she's extremely sorry for my loss, etc. She also told me the entire staff is shocked. She told me his doctor would be calling me within the next 10-15 minutes, but that she wanted to help me get whatever info I wanted. She literally logged into Epic and went to his charts at the other hospitals, provided timestamps of when procedures occurred, gave me doctors' names and numbers, etc.
Minutes later, I received a call from the surgeon. Her assistant had actually taken great notes and passed them over to the surgeon and we basically went through the list one-by-one.
Yesterday at 13:45, his blood pressure at MGH was 108/78, pulse 63 bpm, O2 98% on room air. He was then transported to Spaulding Hospital in Cambridge.
He arrived at Spaulding at 14:11. He was "chatting away" according to the intake notes. His vitals were normal.
At 15:56, I received a call from my mom--she was bawling.
At 16:01, I received a call from the doctor at Spaulding: Apparently my dad was in cardiac arrest. He noticed a large amount of "coffee ground emesis" occluding his airway. He called 9-1-1 and EMS was able to secure the airway. All the while, CPR was being performed. It was an unwitnessed arrest.
He arrived at Cambridge Alliance Hospital roughly 10 minutes later (it's only 1000 feet away). We were waiting for updates for another three hours. All the while, he had been going in and hour of cardiac arrest. By about 19:30, the doctor called me to explain the grim news. I explained my father's wishes, and then told him that after four rounds of ACLS drugs, an unwitnessed arrest, etc. I would agree that it is now appropriate to discontinue resuscitation efforts.
Maybe 20 minutes later, the doctor called me back to let me know that he had a pulse, but it was weak and thready. I told him that if he keeps that pulse or if it improves, we will resume resuscitation efforts.
At 20:39, he called me to let me know that my dad passed away at 20:37.
Talking to the surgeon today was incredible. She told me that there's a formal review process happening at MGH for this specific incident and that the same thing his happening at Cambridge Health Alliance. She also strongly suggested getting an autopsy and told me that I need to immediately contact the medical examiner. She mentioned that the entire ICU staff is gutted and they brought in grief counselors specifically for this event.
The medical examiner referred me to the Cambridge Police Department and an officer wants to meet with me tomorrow.
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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:52 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle Factory Reset Button
This is true; it is better to get four plots if you want an actual headstone than some flat placed stone.
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This has been a message from the United States Secretary of Health and Human Services Robert F. Kennedy, Jr.
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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:58 AM Author: Laughsome cordovan liquid oxygen business firm
Was he on Coumadin?
Sounds like there was a possible GI bleed
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Date: April 30th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: floppy bat-shit-crazy church building
Very sorry to hear about your dad, and you're not alone in wanting to find a reason to blame someone for a loved one's passing when you weren't there and it looked like he was doing better.
Can you explain what the care facility should have done better? As much as it sucks to say it given what happened, it doesn't sound unreasonable for the facility to leave a man with good vitals alone for one hour without checking on him. Was he on a heart monitor and no one came when it was picking up signs that he was in distress?
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:21 PM Author: sooty coldplay fan
Why do you keep calling it murder and not just a nigger competency crisis and too much immigration. Gross negligence isn’t homicide imho.
Call it what it is, the whole country is retarded, sometimes you get lucky sometimes you don’t. Doctors just care about their GPAs and Porsches. If a nursing home goes under it just makes insurance more expensive. Healthcare gets more expensive and then gets more Greedily Rationed by PE owners.
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:17 PM Author: pink nursing home roommate
lol 😂
You told us 5/2 charges had been taken out against the random black foreigner you blame for dads passing
Just stop. Don’t make dads sad passing the subject of xo fodder on your incapacity to tell the truth ever
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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:40 AM Author: Cerebral codepig
I know it's hard to accept and I hope he rests in peace but the truth is he likely had a ton of co morbidities and acute issues and there was no way to revive him without causing another problem. You should know this as a former EMT.
I've been in hundreds of MET calls and they are never straightforward.
You don't need to go down this route just because you are surrounded by a board full of scum (lawyers).
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