Heh, and neither will he, lil' breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50028798)

2. How long have you been separated?

3. How long has she been dating this guy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029283)

at least the kids is young enough that they'll never really view you as their father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50028943)

The only silver lining is things are going well with my subordinate. We remain in love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50028540)

His innocent children don't

This was all predicted a year ago

Every time Rage Problems poasts I think about OhNoes poasting about how he thinks it's flame because it's so ordinary. I still can't decide myself. This is all playing out exactly as expected, but without the fanfare you'd expect from flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031457)

is op really muscadine wine? i forget what he was poasting as when he started making threads about his subordinate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029003)

your wife seems to be acting erratically, which i guess is obvious and didn't need to be said. this whole situation is pretty fucked up.

are you and your subordinate shacked up or do you have plans to be? i assume you're still closeted at work, so maybe you can't.

you got this advice before from me and others, but be very wary of your subordinate. something is "off" about a woman who would be willing to break up a young family. my wife said that to me right after she caught me and i told her i was leaving, and she was right. the woman i left for is extremely selfish and self-centered - used to being told how beautiful she is and having guys pay for this and do that for her, etc. and it shows. turns out she had a disabled kid when she was 22 and she wrote him off. she also left her 13 year old kid in florida to move in with me. anyway, just look for red flags, brother. she went right back to florida, in her 40s with no job and not having worked since she was like 28, living off alimony, bouncing her loose pussy from man to man, according to what friends tell me.

anyway, i'm pulling for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029052)

i did not do that, i moved out in october 2020 and the other lady moved in on like november 6 and i got into it with my wife over introducing the kids to her, etc. i was such a shithead at the time. i tell you this so you are aware of what can happen (may not be all that applicable to you since almost all of it was driven by my alcoholism) - i neglected my kids badly for about 8 months (october to june) while i was bad off with booze: i left my kids in the apt one night to run across the street to get beer/wine and my older son, 5, had woken up and was in the living room bawling when i got back. my gf/fiancee went out for a few hours and came home and the older kid was on the couch looking dejected and she said "hey, what's wrong?" and he said "well i kept asking my dad if he'd take me to CVS to get a toy and he kept telling me we will go soon, but he kept drinking more and more and now he's in the bed sleeping" and she took him out and bought him a superman or marvel action figure. we took the kids to hershey park (when i had an ankle monitor LOL) and we stayed there for like 45 mins, i rode two roller coasters with the older kid and maybe one by myself and then we left. when i think about that stuff, i feel very bad about myself. don't ever get to that point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029553)

I drink a lot but haven’t around the kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029585)

this is pretty concerning all around.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029626)

Hopefully he knocks your wife up and some lesbian judge makes you pay child support

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029076)

How long did you and her take to go from dating to in a relaitonship to moving in together to married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029245)

I dated her for five years before we got married, but we moved in relatively quickly. But we didn’t have kids and she kept a separate place for the first like year just in case, just a different situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029543)

she is also clearly not herself. you traumatized her badly (not trying to make you feel bad), and part of this i think is she's not in her right mind and she also wants to hurt you or get back at you. that has to be going on as well. this situation is not going down very well, unfortunately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029554)

Is she smart enough to see that a guy very likely isn't a great long term prospect when he's (a) the first guy she happened to start something with, just weeks after her marriage dissolved (presumably...), and (b) strangely eager to date and move in with a newly single mom?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50029928)

do you go to AP Anonymous?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031456)

The weird thing is I’m suddenly the good guy. It’s an easy story now that she moved in with some random dude when we were separated and I of course had to move on, found the subordinate. The only slightly worrying thing is when I told my closest coworker yesterday that happens to also be a solid personal confidant and friend (wanted more recommendations on family lawyers), he was trying to cheer me up and was like no one died is the good thing and put it in perspective you have a healthy kid and a great job etc etc and you’ll find someone one day - I think (subordinate’s name) would be a good match. So now he’s going to feel like the match maker when it comes out and there’s an easy story in there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031527)

Remember how Milhouse's dad initiated the separation, and his option was a slore, while his Milhouse's mom was getting courted by Chad, and the Dad wound up begging to reunite?

This is how it works IRL. This is what everyone told you. Quality women are in short supply. When they're available, they get snapped up quick. Divorced scumbag Dads that cheated on their doting wives are abundant.

Welcome to the suck you retard. Don't say no one told you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031465)

She was depressed or having some sort of emotional crisis based on her change in attitude. It's understandable you'd want out. But you knew that doing so risk sending her into a tailspin and your kids would be weaponized. You knew this and proceeded anyway. Own it. You're not a victim.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031558)

-military widows

-lapsed guilty divorced Mormons

-nurses or flight attendants the moment they decide they're tired of the hours of their job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031676)

Nurses and flight attendants are unmarriagable past like 25. The good ones get locked down quick, the remainder have the highest levels of insanity. 180 to casually pumo tho.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2)#50031680)