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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
arrogant frisky patrolman cruise ship
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Medicated house
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Exciting walnut new version
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curious unhinged base
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
Naked becky halford
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Flatulent Offensive Stead
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
infuriating center
  06/28/25
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galvanic theater stage hominid
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
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Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Aphrodisiac rehab
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
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  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
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Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Medicated house
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  06/28/25
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  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
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Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
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  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
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  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
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  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Crimson contagious business firm gaping
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
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  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike
  06/28/25
a jew
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galvanic theater stage hominid
  06/29/25
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Talking Effete Hell
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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: arrogant frisky patrolman cruise ship

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Medicated house

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Exciting walnut new version

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: curious unhinged base



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Naked becky halford

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Flatulent Offensive Stead

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: infuriating center

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: galvanic theater stage hominid



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: racy hall gay wizard

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac rehab

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: curious unhinged base

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: sinister wonderful stain chad



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: stirring bull headed menage kitty

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Beady-eyed temple



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Crimson contagious business firm gaping



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: gay crawly national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Medicated house

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Hateful Property

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: galvanic theater stage hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: gay crawly national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Hateful Property

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Rebellious fishy telephone



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Pungent Cumskin

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: stirring bull headed menage kitty

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: galvanic theater stage hominid

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: slippery vibrant heaven

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: cowardly pit genital piercing

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: slippery vibrant heaven

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: purple appetizing sneaky criminal

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Crimson contagious business firm gaping

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: stirring bull headed menage kitty

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Bateful Mischievous Preventive Strike

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: stirring bull headed menage kitty

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: galvanic theater stage hominid



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: Talking Effete Hell

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056402)