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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
cordovan candlestick maker
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
cordovan candlestick maker
  04/20/26
you are brown
irradiated azure laser beams locus
  04/22/26
lmao
glittery sanctuary roast beef
  04/20/26
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mind-boggling frum water buffalo
  04/20/26
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vivacious macaca
  04/20/26
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mind-boggling frum water buffalo
  04/20/26
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Hyperventilating forum depressive
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
Ebony Yarmulke Party Of The First Part
  04/20/26
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soggy brethren
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
Cerebral Temple Goal In Life
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
Jade concupiscible doctorate
  04/20/26
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aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
Up-to-no-good territorial public bath
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
Up-to-no-good territorial public bath
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
Cerebral Temple Goal In Life
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
Up-to-no-good territorial public bath
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
aromatic giraffe toaster
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/21/26
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cordovan candlestick maker
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
Up-to-no-good territorial public bath
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
costumed station place of business
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
lake sexy piazza
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
Curious Pale Rehab
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
Milky mother liquid oxygen
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
Bossy Point Ceo
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
Insecure Apoplectic Tanning Salon
  04/20/26
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Maize stirring legal warrant
  04/20/26
you only live once
Cruel-hearted kitchen
  04/21/26
https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ra...
Brindle Wild Volcanic Crater
  04/21/26
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Medicated Razzle-dazzle Church Building Halford
  04/21/26
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khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Motley cream hospital
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
costumed station place of business
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Zippy vigorous hall
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
Galvanic internet-worthy chapel generalized bond
  04/21/26
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mind-boggling frum water buffalo
  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
cordovan candlestick maker
  04/22/26
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Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier
  04/22/26


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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: cordovan candlestick maker

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: cordovan candlestick maker

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830090)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: irradiated azure laser beams locus

you are brown

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833725)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: glittery sanctuary roast beef

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: mind-boggling frum water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830065)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: vivacious macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830621)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: mind-boggling frum water buffalo



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: Hyperventilating forum depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830076)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Ebony Yarmulke Party Of The First Part

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: soggy brethren



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49834882)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: Cerebral Temple Goal In Life

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Jade concupiscible doctorate

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good territorial public bath

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good territorial public bath

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Cerebral Temple Goal In Life

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good territorial public bath

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: aromatic giraffe toaster

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: cordovan candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833721)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good territorial public bath

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: costumed station place of business

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: lake sexy piazza

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: Curious Pale Rehab

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: Milky mother liquid oxygen

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: Bossy Point Ceo

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: Insecure Apoplectic Tanning Salon

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: Maize stirring legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted kitchen

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: Brindle Wild Volcanic Crater

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Medicated Razzle-dazzle Church Building Halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831448)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832081)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Motley cream hospital

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: khaki orchestra pit coldplay fan

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: costumed station place of business

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Zippy vigorous hall

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832323)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: Galvanic internet-worthy chapel generalized bond

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: mind-boggling frum water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833449)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: cordovan candlestick maker

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: Marvelous Grizzly Sound Barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49835150)