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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
mischievous kitchen boiling water
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
well-lubricated mewling mad cow disease hell
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Chestnut Liquid Oxygen
  06/28/25
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Dead appetizing legend hominid
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
Odious Pea-brained Reading Party Garrison
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
buff razzle-dazzle location
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
diverse french candlestick maker
  06/28/25
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titillating puppy
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Vibrant Dragon Business Firm
  06/28/25
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embarrassed to the bone public bath
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Sadistic Spot Hunting Ground
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
Dead appetizing legend hominid
  06/28/25
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contagious anal weed whacker
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
Coral insecure locale
  06/28/25
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burgundy narrow-minded circlehead
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Concupiscible Cream Sweet Tailpipe
  06/28/25
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Outnumbered rehab
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
well-lubricated mewling mad cow disease hell
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
Cruel-hearted market
  06/28/25
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titillating puppy
  06/28/25
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Outnumbered rehab
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
Cruel-hearted market
  06/28/25
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Lilac confused university
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Jet-lagged Aggressive Death Wish Fanboi
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Coral insecure locale
  06/28/25
nobody cares
titillating puppy
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Crusty Den
  06/28/25
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embarrassed to the bone public bath
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
Fuchsia theater stage
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Crusty Den
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Sooty Property
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Concupiscible Cream Sweet Tailpipe
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Coral insecure locale
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
embarrassed to the bone public bath
  06/28/25
a jew
Coral insecure locale
  06/28/25
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titillating puppy
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
low-t orchestra pit
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: mischievous kitchen boiling water

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: well-lubricated mewling mad cow disease hell

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Chestnut Liquid Oxygen

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Dead appetizing legend hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056415)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Odious Pea-brained Reading Party Garrison

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: buff razzle-dazzle location

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: diverse french candlestick maker

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: titillating puppy



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Vibrant Dragon Business Firm

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056088)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Sadistic Spot Hunting Ground

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Dead appetizing legend hominid

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: contagious anal weed whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Coral insecure locale

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: burgundy narrow-minded circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056032)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Concupiscible Cream Sweet Tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Outnumbered rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: well-lubricated mewling mad cow disease hell

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted market

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: titillating puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Outnumbered rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted market

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Lilac confused university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Jet-lagged Aggressive Death Wish Fanboi

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Coral insecure locale

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: titillating puppy

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Crusty Den

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: Fuchsia theater stage

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Crusty Den

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Sooty Property

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Concupiscible Cream Sweet Tailpipe

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Coral insecure locale

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone public bath

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Coral insecure locale

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: titillating puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: low-t orchestra pit

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2)#49056402)