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Date: October 13th, 2025 11:47 PM Author: Rage Problems I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, seemed inconceivable there’d be an issue, I still get along great with her and we haven’t missed a beat. Only strange thing is we never talk about it, instead seemed to have channeled the whole thing into actual work - late night phone calls and slacks about this or that email or thing we want to accomplish.
Anyway, turns out she asked HR about relocating to my city and they wanted to know how I feel about that. They said she’s clearly extremely engaged at work and I’m done an amazing job with the team. Wanted to laugh |
Date: October 14th, 2025 12:06 AM Author: Rape as a service private equity naglfar Hope it works out The company I've been employed at for years was revealed as having an extremely spotty record wrt its female employees and women's issues in the workplace so I'm probably going to be quitting and finding a lower tech position |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:28 AM Author: Rage Problems What (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49347732) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:00 PM Author: A Dick is Not Dispositive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357984) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:46 PM Author: dirigible behemothaur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358227) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:08 AM Author: jewish rat scurrying through underground tunnels promising shtick plz keep it going
hopefully we can get some work holiday party action this december |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:32 AM Author: Rage Problems All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49347735) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:40 AM Author: Paralegal Jahangir someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname. you should call her your "alive girl". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49347746) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:48 AM Author: Rage Problems Bezos wasn’t her boss though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49347750) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:39 PM Author: 130k in childhood bedroom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357821) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:42 AM Author: Rage Problems Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party. I told her I wouldn’t be able to swing it and she got pouty about it. I’m going to another office where her female rival works. I told her I plan to swing by her location soon though and she said “ooo things I like to hear.” I also told her we’re going to be particularly busy the next couple months with a project and she’s like “is it weird that really excites me?” This should be an interesting ride. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49349904) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: jewish rat scurrying through underground tunnels (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49350307) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:41 AM Author: Trust If Aryan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49350311) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 6:57 PM Author: Online Men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49349183) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:27 PM Author: screenman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360539) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: sealclubber as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate figures to be more interesting if she's like your younger sister or something along those lines. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49349906) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 1:58 AM Author: Rage Problems Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49349973) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Trust If Aryan this could be schtick of the year if you follow through (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49350312) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:41 PM Author: jewish rat scurrying through underground tunnels (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357831) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Juan Eighty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357979) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:52 AM Author: Rage Problems She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bus with HR”. Then she wrote “actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR.” Later she called me from the gym with her sister, topic turned to my weekend plans. I told her my wife has a school reunion. She asked how many years. I had no idea, so we worked it back from her age (wife is 29). She said wow lucky man, forgot she was that young. She then slacked me at like 10pm to confirm her next travel plans to my city. Well, at least life is interesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357329) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:01 AM Author: i gave my cousin head women r the devil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357331) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 6:50 AM Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.; You are going to be fired for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357369) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 7:20 AM Author: Rage Problems Is it frowned upon? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357376) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 6:04 PM Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.; You will be told that you had a duty to report any relationship involving a conflict of interest, which would include a romantic relationship with a subordinate whose pay and tasks you control, so that the company could evaluate how to handle that (e.g., changing the reporting structure). You will technically be fired for not reporting, as opposed to there being per se something inappropriate about a romantic relationship. (Of course there is something per se inappropriate in these circumstances but the company will rely on the technical aspect of not reporting a conflict). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360426) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:21 AM Author: Rage Problems I don’t think so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361374) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:43 PM Author: 130k in childhood bedroom get her pregnant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357838) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 2:04 PM Author: you know what isn't gay? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49359988) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:24 PM Author: SkaddenArse Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357915) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: Rage Problems I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then she crawled on top of me. She said I was going too fast and we should slow down, almost in a bossy way, turned me on. Then she got really romantic, wanting to make it some special moment, and kept saying my name over and over as she kind of built a cocoon around us with her long golden blonde hair, staring into my eyes and saying my name over and over until I came in her. Then I immediately left, had to get home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357967) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:54 PM Author: Rage Problems Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it because I was drunk so I had blood all over me when I got home. On my shirt especially. Got some on our sheets because I fingered her and then my finger was scrawling blood all over. Fortunately wife was pissed so wasn’t home and when I woke up had time to cover it all up and shower. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357971) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:59 PM Author: Juan Eighty complete twist from your other post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49357982) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: Rage Problems There are layers to this thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358018) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:02 PM Author: habeas penem "wife was pissed so wasn’t home"
Is this meant to parse as your wife staying out all night drunk? |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Rage Problems I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard to explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358295) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: I only jerk off to Hailee Steinfeld You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash your hands when you get home??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360536) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:05 PM Author: Rage Problems I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that point. I wasn’t thinking straight, just saw no one was home and plopped into bed. Woke up and saw blood. Thank god wife wasn’t actually waiting for me at home or she’d have noticed it for sure. My shirt especially had blood all over it. Had to wash everything and flip the pillows and suggest we wash the next morning. Then snuck it in laundry without her noticing the huge blood stains (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49362575) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:18 AM Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( ) Club Mandingo fan? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361199) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: Rage Problems I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was there a few hours, stumbled home with phone dead. I made up a story about falling asleep on a park bench. This led to a bunch of stuff about how I have an out of control alcohol problem to do that but I thought it preferable all things considered. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49362583) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:08 PM Author: SCOTUS Hopeful Can someone link the original post? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358083) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:23 PM Author: habeas penem https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358184) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:31 PM Author: brentrambo Not a fan of this tbh
The fact the relationship has to be mediated through work is really really gay and depressing, talking about "projects" and her little quip about compliance is really deflating imo its insane we alloweed women into the workforce this is a giant retarded scam
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Rage Problems The whole thing does feel very unnatural (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358292) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:32 AM Author: .,.,..,..,.,.,,.,.,., TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually have to engage in real work with. A secretary or paralegal whose biggest concern is where they went to lunch that day is different, but not someone you’re actually “on projects” with. Could not imagine doing it, flipping between flirting and digging into the status of Project Blue with some chick, would blow my brains out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49359175) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 1:41 PM Author: Rage Problems I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapid fire drunk texting that broke the dam open yesterday the most. We were doing so well just putting it away and stupidly just pulled at the string. Now it’s something more and harder to shove back in. Really dumb move on my end. Now I don’t even know what talking with her looks like or if she starts randomly sending me late night texts that I have to try to hide. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49359944) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: .,.,..,..,.,.,,.,.,., There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside the immorality of it) if you’re gonna fuck someone who’s not your wife you do it with the random conference slut at the bar in Austin and call it a day. Fucking your coworker, nanny, neighbor, sister in law, etc., anyone who is routinely in your life, is inviting trouble. My earnest advice to you would be to try to cauterize the wound, don’t ever do it again, and try to get her to see it’s beneficial to move on too. By the way even if she doesn’t blow up your marriage she will perpetually have you by the balls at work so you better get ready to unequivocally support every retarded idea she ever has until she quits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360176) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:12 PM Author: Rage Problems Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in your life are for obvious reasons the most likely source of affairs. Coworkers more than anything because you’re constantly working together and can develop a rapport that spills over when you move it to another context like after work drinks. And yeah the wound was cauterizing until we randomly picked at it over the weekend two weeks later. Now it’s harder because she seems to prefer it in open now. She sent me a message today that I ignored. The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back. Messy stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360600) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:57 PM Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.; "The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back."
6 months later: She has put in about 20/mins per day of work over the past half year, when it comes time she is performance managed, the story is "Rage Problems is just sabotaging me because I refused to continue the brief affair that he coercively forced me into" |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:11 AM Author: Rage Problems I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworker noticing something, or one of our spouses finding evidence, etc. Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants. All probably more likely than a very ambitious employee who makes work a priority suddenly becoming bad at her job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361144) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 7:10 AM Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.; "Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants."
Yes, probably more likely. Same result for you. "Rage Problems denied me the compensation adjustment I merited because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." "Rage Problems is giving favorable treatment in work assignments to a co-worker because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." If she's a very ambitious, intelligent lawyer, she's going to realize that you handed her the ability to coast at her job, shielded from any criticism, then leave with a 24 month severance package offered by HR to shut her up. This will be a "resignation" to avoid any career stigma to her, then she'll just move onto the next role with a couple hundred grand in her pocket. I work in this area, this is how these stories play out. Seems you are betting on "spurned female lawyer logically accepts affair was a bad idea, will not use it to her advantage, and fastidiously refocuses herself in a business-like way on company goals", good luck buddy
At this point your best move may actually be to bang her again, ensuring you have many messages making explicitly clear the whole thing is/was consensual, otherwise she's possibly going to say you raped her in that hotel room |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:55 AM Author: Rage Problems There are already a ton, including one that said “you should be more careful, women are a bit crazy these days,” but I panic deleted them to make sure I didn’t have anything on my phone. She is not quiet about her support of me at work, including post hookup. Her suddenly claiming that seems the least likely scenario. I honestly think it’s very unlikely she will ever try to leverage it for anything too. It’s more that if I came out it would be a logistical mess. There would be no easy solution to have her report to anyone but me without demoting her or it coming across like a demotion. We would have to just say it was a one time thing and everyone is over it and hope that is the end of it. I think that is plausible now if I can get it back into the box, but if we continue down this path one or both of us will catch real feelings and it will be hard to have a real working relationship when that falls apart or one of us wants more or wants to break it off. That’s why I need to stop being a dumbass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361324) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: ruinous phenotype back into the box tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361333) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:17 AM Author: lsd “one of our spouses finding evidence”
Wait this chick is married? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:49 AM Author: Rage Problems Yes, and recently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361313) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 9:18 PM Author: .,.,..,..,.,.,,.,.,., Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I don’t have to be tactful: I think that’s a retarded after the fact justification. You need to stop thinking with your dick before your life gets blown up. Not saying this to be malicious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49360722) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:58 AM Author: Rage Problems I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we texted. There’s no chance of a hookup anytime soon, likely won’t see her for a month or two at least. That was more just tension release and curiosity on how we each felt about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361327) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 11:57 PM Author: Rage Problems I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked about everything. I am now on written record saying a ton of shit to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49358908) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 4:17 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) such as? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361160) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:18 AM Author: Rage Problems I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I should behave myself. Then she asked me to describe in detail what I want to do to her. Fortunately for didn’t go down that path. No sexting. Just lots of emotional talk. Felt like a date. She asked a lot of stuff to get to know my backstory more. Our opinions on things. I don’t even know how we texted so long. I didn’t have it in me to reread the whole thing. I tried to delete them one by one but it was hundreds and hundreds of messages, just panic deleted the whole conversation because I was out and about with my wife the next day and I was worried she’d somehow notice it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361370) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:31 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) yikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361388) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:54 AM Author: Rage Problems Yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361418) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:25 PM Author: Have YOU been injured in an accident? Your age and hers?
Your total comp and hers? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: Rage Problems 43, think she’s 32 I am at over 500k all in plus equity She is at around 175 |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:58 AM Author: gujarattt free thread ((zurich is stained)) this could potentially go very wrong for you.
i think you described elsewhere, but how often do you have sex with your wife? you might want to focus on shoring that up (if there's an issue) there and gently disengage from this situation
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Date: October 20th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: Rage Problems I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just went blind to potential consequences and wanted to feel something again. Have only had sex with wife like twice in last 7-8 months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361472) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: Juan Eighty suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option for me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361572) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Rage Problems (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49362222) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:14 AM Author: ....,.,.;;;,.,,:,.,.,::,.....,:,..,.. “Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a real job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2)#49361193) |