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As married men w/ kids, How often do you hang out with one of your guy friends

Guy friend just asked me to grab dinner one day and I realiz...
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.
  12/22/25
you go out to dinner with a single guy friend? Do you suck e...
hank_scorpio
  12/22/25
Yes. I prefer coffee or grabbing a beer or something though
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.
  12/22/25
grabbing a beer is cr, but you need a hook otherwise, go bow...
hank_scorpio
  12/22/25
LOL man, this is retarded and gay. i can understand young in...
semenacre
  12/22/25
but that isn't how men are supposed to interact without purp...
hank_scorpio
  12/22/25
(gay)
CapTTTainFalcon
  12/22/25
OP has a wife and kids. So they are home eating spaghetti-os...
Candy Ride
  12/22/25
This. lol. Maybe I go to Christmas parties but that&rsquo...
paranoid 1L
  12/22/25
...
nude chinaman
  12/22/25
Going somewhere casual like a brewery or Mexican or some shi...
schizophrenic jew
  12/22/25
I have one guy friend who I still grab lunch or dinner with ...
luis navidad
  12/22/25
lunch is definitively not gay, anybody can do lunch, drinks ...
hank_scorpio
  12/22/25
Ok, maybe it is pretty gay now that I think about it
luis navidad
  12/22/25
"Bro, I miss you" *farts cum*
hank_scorpio
  12/22/25
...
paranoid 1L
  12/22/25
Sad post
GOY SUPERSTAR
  12/22/25
married men in america are the most pathetic people on earth
Ozzie Canseco
  12/22/25
Why’s that?
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.
  12/22/25
if you told your kids that after 15 years of holocaust studi...
Ozzie Canseco
  12/22/25
Wow
luis navidad
  12/22/25
...
Many people are saying this!
  12/22/25
...
ruinous phenotype
  12/22/25
...
.,.,..,.,.,..,.,.,...,..,...
  12/22/25
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Rampart
  12/22/25
...
CapTTTainFalcon
  12/22/25
Imagine your father crying because he can't play video games...
Candy Ride
  12/22/25
One of my high school friends is married with two kids. He t...
...,.,,.....,,.,...,......,...,....,..
  12/22/25
Zero desire to honestly Sometimes a friend I call nubs c...
i gave my cousin head
  12/22/25
how old are your kids?
;::;:;;::;;;;;::::
  12/22/25
You must be new here
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,....,:,..,:.:.,:.::,
  12/22/25
fairly regularly, but mostly guys in my neighborhood who als...
Trust If Aryan
  12/22/25
seems well established 99% of this boart is convinced the re...
peeface
  12/22/25
...
As far as they will go but even farther
  12/22/25
...
luis navidad
  12/22/25
not often, but mainly because i dont have any friends
online lawyer friend
  12/22/25
Like once a month
White Shoe & Magic Circle, TP
  12/22/25
every single day, on autoadmit.com
santa's top guy
  12/22/25
...
Candy Ride
  12/22/25
...
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  12/22/25
...
Kenneth Play
  12/22/25
Does hanging out with your husband count?
Judas Jones
  12/22/25
Which husband
ruinous phenotype
  12/22/25
these days it’s mostly just neighbors and brothers in ...
.,.,...,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,....,:,..;,..,
  12/22/25
This is the only way that you can ever hang out with married...
GOY SUPERSTAR
  12/22/25
sorry I couldn't make it to last week's Cards Against Humani...
santa's top guy
  12/22/25
I unironically spend more time with my gay internet lawyer f...
GOY SUPERSTAR
  12/22/25
cr and the "Cards against humanity" comment is not...
santa's top guy
  12/22/25
You're just coping when you say to yourself, ho hum, is this...
GOY SUPERSTAR
  12/22/25
this is why ortho jewish men go to shul
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  12/22/25
4-5 nights a week online on discord
fully online and responsive
  12/22/25
i'm single, but most of my guy friends who are married with ...
Kenneth Play
  12/22/25
...
GOY SUPERSTAR
  12/22/25
Lmao
Candy Ride
  12/22/25
Literally all of my "social" interactions have at ...
the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)
  12/22/25
oh you said "guy." nevermind then.
Roblox
  12/22/25
Lol you are all such gay little queens splitting fettuccine ...
fulano
  12/22/25
Xo bros can meet me at the Visalia Texas Roadhouse or Panda...
luis navidad
  12/22/25


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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:05 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.


Guy friend just asked me to grab dinner one day and I realized I haven’t done that with a friend in like a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529627)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:06 AM
Author: hank_scorpio

you go out to dinner with a single guy friend? Do you suck each other off before or after?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529636)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:07 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.


Yes. I prefer coffee or grabbing a beer or something though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529637)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:29 AM
Author: hank_scorpio

grabbing a beer is cr, but you need a hook otherwise, go bowling or catch a movie for bros or fucking something, you can't just be inviting a grown man to come out to dinner with just you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529677)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 2:57 AM
Author: semenacre

LOL man, this is retarded and gay. i can understand young insecure dudes feeling TITCR but many middle aged or older people who are socially mature will just go to dinner with a friend. sometimes it's the only time you have to meaningfully catch up with somebody, so it's opportune if you're in their area or they're in your's.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529818)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 3:03 AM
Author: hank_scorpio

but that isn't how men are supposed to interact without purpose, you need a group dynamic to just be shooting the shit, otherwise something needs to be happening, go to a game, play golf, and get dinner as part of it, but you need a reason or it's gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529822)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:02 PM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon

(gay)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530822)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:02 PM
Author: Candy Ride

OP has a wife and kids. So they are home eating spaghetti-os while OP is wining and dining with his gay friend? How is that fair or normal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530820)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:07 AM
Author: paranoid 1L

This. lol.

Maybe I go to Christmas parties but that’s it. I’m also single and Philippine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529638)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:07 AM
Author: nude chinaman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529639)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:15 AM
Author: schizophrenic jew

Going somewhere casual like a brewery or Mexican or some shit to eat together and hang out isn’t that gay. Maybe this is why Americans don’t have guy friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529655)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:26 AM
Author: luis navidad (luis)

I have one guy friend who I still grab lunch or dinner with when we’re both in town but we’ve been hanging out since high school. I agree with the other guy that it’s not gay if you go somewhere chill

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529672)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:28 AM
Author: hank_scorpio

lunch is definitively not gay, anybody can do lunch, drinks are also not gay

but asking another dood to go out with just you to have dinner and catch up is the faggiest thing I've ever heard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529675)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:30 AM
Author: luis navidad (luis)

Ok, maybe it is pretty gay now that I think about it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529681)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:31 AM
Author: hank_scorpio

"Bro, I miss you" *farts cum*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529683)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:52 AM
Author: paranoid 1L



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529720)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 9:24 AM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

Sad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530333)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:07 AM
Author: Ozzie Canseco

married men in america are the most pathetic people on earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529641)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:10 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::.,.


Why’s that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529648)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:16 AM
Author: Ozzie Canseco

if you told your kids that after 15 years of holocaust studies and college they cant ever see their friends again they would rightfully look at you and (hopefully) call you a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529657)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:21 AM
Author: luis navidad (luis)

Wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529666)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:38 AM
Author: Many people are saying this!



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529688)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 9:31 AM
Author: ruinous phenotype



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530366)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:16 AM
Author: .,.,..,.,.,..,.,.,...,..,...




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529746)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 10:07 AM
Author: Rampart ( )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530485)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:03 PM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530828)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:23 PM
Author: Candy Ride

Imagine your father crying because he can't play video games with his friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530917)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:18 AM
Author: ...,.,,.....,,.,...,......,...,....,..


One of my high school friends is married with two kids. He texted me a few years ago and I assured him we'd hang out at some point. Haven't heard from him since. His wife is overweight and he just turned 44.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529749)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:23 AM
Author: i gave my cousin head

Zero desire to honestly

Sometimes a friend I call nubs comes over to go fishing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529756)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 5:18 AM
Author: ;::;:;;::;;;;;::::

how old are your kids?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49529906)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 8:23 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,....,:,..,:.:.,:.::,


You must be new here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530148)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 8:51 AM
Author: Trust If Aryan

fairly regularly, but mostly guys in my neighborhood who also have kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530229)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 8:54 AM
Author: peeface

seems well established 99% of this boart is convinced the reason they have no friends is that having friends is gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530240)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 9:35 AM
Author: As far as they will go but even farther (🧐)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530379)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:35 PM
Author: luis navidad (luis)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531147)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 10:01 AM
Author: online lawyer friend

not often, but mainly because i dont have any friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530475)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 10:19 AM
Author: White Shoe & Magic Circle, TP

Like once a month

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530513)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: santa's top guy

every single day, on autoadmit.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530619)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:01 PM
Author: Candy Ride



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530813)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:07 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530850)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530894)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:01 PM
Author: Judas Jones

Does hanging out with your husband count?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530818)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:38 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype

Which husband

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531153)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:04 PM
Author: .,.,...,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,....,:,..;,..,


these days it’s mostly just neighbors and brothers in law

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530829)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:04 PM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

This is the only way that you can ever hang out with married guys btw. Lol just lol at a married guy actually being able to participate in a real activity with his friends. Meeting for dinner or drinks is the best you're ever going to get out of them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530835)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: santa's top guy

sorry I couldn't make it to last week's Cards Against Humanity night bro, we'll catch up in the new year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530862)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

I unironically spend more time with my gay internet lawyer friends than I spend with my irl married friends

Fuentes is right about The Modern Cult Of "Fatherhood"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530893)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: santa's top guy

cr and the "Cards against humanity" comment is not a whimsical hypothetical but an actual irl example along with going to see "stand up comedy shows." The disconnect I suppose is seeing this as some huge loss.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530973)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:43 PM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

You're just coping when you say to yourself, ho hum, is this really such a huge loss

We all cope about things, I cope about things too, life isn't perfect. But it's cope nonetheless

If all we are is a bunch of beta dad drones, then we're going to be conquered and ruled by others, which is in fact what has happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531168)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


this is why ortho jewish men go to shul

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530860)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: fully online and responsive

4-5 nights a week online on discord

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530880)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth)

i'm single, but most of my guy friends who are married with kids can get out for a friday night guys dinner once a month or so

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530898)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:17 PM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530901)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 12:23 PM
Author: Candy Ride

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49530920)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:46 PM
Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)

Literally all of my "social" interactions have at least a professional subtext, and most are explicitly professional. I have a law partner I like (although we don't "go to dinner" lol), and otherwise, this is what I use xo for.

There is a lawyer I'm handling a case for (rich guy, not a very good lawyer) who keeps asking me to go out to weird but kind of cool-seeming random shit like "the tracks". This guy got divorced 2 years ago and is pulling a crazy amount of primo ass; I've seen him with like 4 different chicks at various christmas parties this month alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531188)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:47 PM
Author: Roblox

oh you said "guy." nevermind then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531189)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 1:49 PM
Author: fulano

Lol you are all such gay little queens splitting fettuccine Alfredo with your boyfriend at a little Italian white table cloth bistro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531198)



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Date: December 22nd, 2025 2:14 PM
Author: luis navidad (luis)

Xo bros can meet me at the Visalia Texas Roadhouse or Panda Express. Both conveniently located within a mile of my House. (I can host)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812987&forum_id=2)#49531312)