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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
godawful old irish cottage
  05/20/22
Jfc
sable stead
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
charcoal spot
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
godawful old irish cottage
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
Link?
sable stead
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Histrionic Zippy Rigpig
  05/20/22
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Bat-shit-crazy talented mental disorder garrison
  05/20/22
no
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
good for you two.
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
Excitant Alcoholic Friendly Grandma
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
ungodly rehab
  05/20/22
for the most part.
haunting flesh resort juggernaut
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
Impertinent Doctorate
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
Awkward base
  05/21/22
rare honesty
shimmering titillating round eye
  05/20/22
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bistre soul-stirring pit
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
sooty university
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
sooty university
  05/20/22
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shimmering titillating round eye
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
sooty university
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
sooty university
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
sooty university
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Buck-toothed useless brakes
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
sooty university
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
sooty university
  05/20/22
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180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
well this response for one
shimmering titillating round eye
  05/20/22
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Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
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self-centered haunted graveyard
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
sooty university
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship
  05/20/22
fair
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
sooty university
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Transparent comical address
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Unholy Violent Principal's Office
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
passionate cyan business firm personal credit line
  05/21/22
...
Multi-colored electric furnace
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: godawful old irish cottage

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: sable stead

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: charcoal spot

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: godawful old irish cottage

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: sable stead

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Histrionic Zippy Rigpig

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy talented mental disorder garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: Excitant Alcoholic Friendly Grandma

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: ungodly rehab

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: haunting flesh resort juggernaut

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Impertinent Doctorate

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Awkward base

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: shimmering titillating round eye

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: bistre soul-stirring pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: sooty university

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: sooty university

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: shimmering titillating round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: sooty university

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: sooty university

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: sooty university

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Buck-toothed useless brakes

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: sooty university

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: sooty university

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: 180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: 180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: shimmering titillating round eye

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: self-centered haunted graveyard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: sooty university

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: magenta pontificating ratface cruise ship

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: sooty university

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: 180 Mildly Autistic Piazza People Who Are Hurt

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Transparent comical address

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Unholy Violent Principal's Office

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: passionate cyan business firm personal credit line

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: Multi-colored electric furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2)#50093931)