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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
irradiated spot
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
Razzle-dazzle Menage
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
irradiated spot
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
Razzle-dazzle Menage
  04/20/26
you are brown
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  04/22/26
lmao
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  04/20/26
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  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
irradiated spot
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
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  04/20/26
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light theater
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
Stimulating piazza
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
irradiated spot
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
Appetizing copper plaza
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
mind-boggling lay new version
  04/20/26
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Appetizing copper plaza
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
irradiated spot
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
Appetizing copper plaza
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
Stimulating piazza
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
Appetizing copper plaza
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
Appetizing copper plaza
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
irradiated spot
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
Appetizing copper plaza
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
irradiated spot
  04/21/26
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Razzle-dazzle Menage
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
multi-colored stage
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
Aphrodisiac insanely creepy stead
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
floppy pontificating toilet seat milk
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
180 institution
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
maniacal marvelous dilemma chad
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
irradiated spot
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
vivacious hideous tattoo halford
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
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  04/20/26
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bull headed sticky mad cow disease
  04/20/26
you only live once
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  04/21/26
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vivacious hideous tattoo halford
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Citrine Rough-skinned Digit Ratio Fat Ankles
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
vivacious hideous tattoo halford
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
multi-colored stage
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
irradiated spot
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Swashbuckling fishy lodge
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
irradiated spot
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
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  04/21/26
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Lemon odious bawdyhouse macaca
  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
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  04/22/26
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  04/22/26


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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: irradiated spot

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Menage

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: irradiated spot

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Menage

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830090)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: Bespoke ratface patrolman

you are brown

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833725)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: fantasy-prone kitty

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Lemon odious bawdyhouse macaca



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: cordovan clown



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830621)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Lemon odious bawdyhouse macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830067)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: garnet casino



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: irradiated spot

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Razzle abode messiness

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: light theater



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: Stimulating piazza

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: irradiated spot

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: mind-boggling lay new version

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: irradiated spot

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Stimulating piazza

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: irradiated spot

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: Appetizing copper plaza

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: irradiated spot

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833721)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: Lascivious Carmine Locale Dog Poop

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: multi-colored stage

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac insanely creepy stead

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: floppy pontificating toilet seat milk

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: 180 institution

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: maniacal marvelous dilemma chad

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: irradiated spot

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: vivacious hideous tattoo halford

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: drab racy area

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: bull headed sticky mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Beta Weed Whacker

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: black aromatic university

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Sepia address friendly grandma



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: vivacious hideous tattoo halford



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Citrine Rough-skinned Digit Ratio Fat Ankles

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: vivacious hideous tattoo halford

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: multi-colored stage

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: irradiated spot

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Swashbuckling fishy lodge

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: irradiated spot

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49832323)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: mischievous histrionic place of business stage

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: Lemon odious bawdyhouse macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49833449)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Menage

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2)#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: irradiated spot



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