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Have you found that “chicks dig assholes” or is it just phenotype irl

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is j...
Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
I thought this thread was about eating ass
180 Flushed Gaping Range
  08/15/26
same not flame
aromatic scarlet stag film gaming laptop
  08/15/26
Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?
180 Flushed Gaping Range
  08/15/26
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transparent area
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multi-colored tanning salon famous landscape painting
  08/15/26
100% same
bossy field half-breed
  08/16/26
If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it ...
fiercely-loyal mind-boggling ticket booth
  08/15/26
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Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does ...
Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. t...
appetizing self-centered station
  08/15/26
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Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all s...
misanthropic double fault giraffe
  08/15/26
i'm ready to learn
appetizing self-centered station
  08/15/26
dare I say, based
startled halford
  08/15/26
Cr
charismatic blue partner
  08/15/26
imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-respo...
Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
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dark insanely creepy business firm
  08/15/26
do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is hap...
Blathering Stubborn Headpube Weed Whacker
  08/15/26
they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas conside...
demanding brunch
  08/15/26
It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole i...
slimy cruise ship hominid
  08/15/26
(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a ...
misanthropic double fault giraffe
  08/15/26
imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still...
chocolate box office
  08/15/26
i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime
fear-inspiring meetinghouse mental disorder
  08/15/26
I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no mat...
charismatic blue partner
  08/15/26
Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps wit...
Obsidian laughsome locale toilet seat
  08/15/26
iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming
Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
Girls like assertive and confident men. Dorks are very bi...
dark insanely creepy business firm
  08/15/26
I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the...
Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor
  08/15/26
Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whe...
dark insanely creepy business firm
  08/15/26
chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.
awkward thriller garrison potus
  08/15/26
You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her...
Learning Disabled Indirect Expression
  08/15/26
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chocolate box office
  08/16/26
I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their...
bossy field half-breed
  08/16/26
they enjoy emotional and physical abuse. they are gratifi...
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Date: August 15th, 2026 8:56 AM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is just a Jock or Tall Guy with a 7”+ dick and the Nice Guy has a worse phenotype. Rarely is there a sharp distinction in their Personalities afaict.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069333)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:00 AM
Author: 180 Flushed Gaping Range

I thought this thread was about eating ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069336)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:01 AM
Author: aromatic scarlet stag film gaming laptop

same not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069337)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:12 AM
Author: 180 Flushed Gaping Range

Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069349)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:11 AM
Author: transparent area



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069348)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: multi-colored tanning salon famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069646)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:05 PM
Author: bossy field half-breed

100% same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50071105)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: fiercely-loyal mind-boggling ticket booth

If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it as “being an asshole”, they see it as “being decisive” or “knowing what he wants”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069388)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:34 AM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069510)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor

yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does that mean in practice and why does it matter? like does a Nice Loser not know where to go for dinner or whatever and Asks the Woman and they go back and forth for hours?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069512)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: appetizing self-centered station

xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. the meta has moved on. do try to keep up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069537)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069542)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:08 PM
Author: misanthropic double fault giraffe

Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all socially incapable and ugly losers who are addicted to screens say because it allows them to justify not trying to improve their social skills and instead they can just keep being screen addicted losers. Autists don’t get: 1) that girls register flirting as effort and balls, and guys who flirt clumsily or badly will still get more points than guys who are too scared and in their heads to try at all. 2) beyond purely spur of the moment, after 2 am and still at the bar pure hook up contexts every girl is primarily evaluating for resource extraction. So a guy who can credibly seem confident and self-assured will always help his cause immensely and way more than a guy who drops 5% of his bodyfat to get under 15% or who wears lifts to appear 1.5” taller. And 3) yes there is a subset of guys who can literally say nothing and/or completely botch any kind of social capability test and still fuck girls whose names they don’t bother to learn, but they are generally either very rare super elite 1/100k level phenotypes or they’re fucking way down relative to their phenotypes looksmatch or both. I guess I get why a balding 5’9” nerd would fantasize about easily fucking an endless parade of anonymous 6s, but I encourage you to dream a little bigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069551)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:09 PM
Author: appetizing self-centered station

i'm ready to learn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069555)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: startled halford

dare I say, based

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069645)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:16 PM
Author: charismatic blue partner

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069791)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor

imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-responsive imho (jmo). I was just trying to understand who these "assholes" are. Guys who get laid nbd irl don't seem like bigger assholes than anyone else afaik

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069834)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: dark insanely creepy business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069935)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:53 PM
Author: Blathering Stubborn Headpube Weed Whacker

do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is happening anymore. it's whether you give them resources or you increase their social media status

i have no idea what u people are talking about tbh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50070017)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:26 PM
Author: demanding brunch

they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas consider assholes, and tbf they often are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069650)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:31 PM
Author: slimy cruise ship hominid

It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole if you have a good phenotype, else youre referred to as an asshole/miserable/bitter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069660)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:52 PM
Author: misanthropic double fault giraffe

(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a dim, incurious mind and never spent much time observing them and thinking about why they are effective)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069693)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 2:38 PM
Author: chocolate box office

imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still fringe losers who are disagreeable and abrasive, and also many lawyers, who are both assholes and yet not attractive to women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069747)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: fear-inspiring meetinghouse mental disorder

i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069793)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: charismatic blue partner

I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no matter how attractive, successful, etc. Just not my thing.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069794)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:37 PM
Author: Obsidian laughsome locale toilet seat

Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps with dudes who want an easy lay. They interpret getting fucked and ghosted as the guy being an asshole or "playing games." That's why so many chicks have shit like "not here for hookups, tired of men playing games" etc in their profiles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069939)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:44 PM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor

iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069947)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:39 PM
Author: dark insanely creepy business firm

Girls like assertive and confident men.

Dorks are very biased to classify some dudebro as an asshole because 1) Sour grapes and 2) They got bullied by someone and associate anyone similar with being an asshole.

Dorks will call a Shane Gillis good hearted dudebro an asshole because they can't distinguish between them and evil jocks, and they don't want to understand the difference because they hate them for getting pussy and have crafted a mental fortress that the reason they get zero pussy is because they're better humans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069942)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:50 PM
Author: Racy Disturbing Hunting Ground Fortuitous Meteor

I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the nice guy with a good phenotype getting screwed over after like hs. In hs there are Scumbags who have natural game and stuff and the Jock who doesn't have his head in the game can't close the deal iirc. In college idk it's a hard reset. irl is a harder reset. everything just gets pre-screened on phenotype.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069952)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:15 PM
Author: dark insanely creepy business firm

Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whether bad phenotypes wind up as low condidence nice guys or whether low confidence nice guys are categorically bad phenotype. I subscribe to your school of thought that it starts with phenotype and their nature + nurture leads to this. Either way, of course you don't see high confidence losers, aside from PUA Mystery types faking it that have veered way out of their lane and are understandably mocked by all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069976)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:40 PM
Author: awkward thriller garrison potus

chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50069943)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:24 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Indirect Expression

You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her at a party and tell her that her breath smells than if you become friends with her and after months of hanging out you write her a love letter.

I don't think its that chicks "love assholes" it is that they are very turned off by desperation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50070186)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:04 PM
Author: chocolate box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50071102)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:06 PM
Author: bossy field half-breed

I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their weight and simp otherwise handsome bros that ended up with pigs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50071109)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:07 PM
Author: vigorous sienna plaza

they enjoy emotional and physical abuse.

they are gratified by rape fantasies, which constitute most of the plots in romance novels and 'womens lit'.

this is widely understood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2)#50071111)