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Incredibly good-looking, successful nd wants me to move to Falls Church, VA

so I'm sure you guys won't believe in saying a really good l...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
LMAO Couldn’t handle Box getting some attention, c...
Cream Brunch Pozpig
  07/31/21
Is the Box back too? Awesome! Hey girl, holla at a sis...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
❤❤❤ hello! we briefly talked in the other thread - i ...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
Why do you want to live in the city so bad? Dc isn't NYC
massive hall
  07/31/21
I know; I've been spending a lot of time there since its whe...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
What is there to do in DC?
massive hall
  07/31/21
Bars, clubs, restaurants, shopping, tons of museuMs/gallerie...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
are you within a reasonable distance to just go out in the c...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
It should only take like 20 minutes to half an hour but some...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
yeah it can get rly bad on the beltway etc. same shit in LA...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
How is your life going? Are you still in a band? Are you...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
still in the band and it's my favorite thing ever! and omg ...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
Yeah I'm definitely not sticking around for long. I am so...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
FC is a great place to live. One of the nation’s best ...
talking regret background story
  07/31/21
LMAO I prob couldn't afford to live there on my own. I'm...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
I'm sure you can find a heroin dealer in Falls Church, don't...
comical base gunner
  07/31/21
lol I haven't done any opiates in years I didn't even use...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
So what exactly do you do together? Do you go to the country...
startling brilliant mediation
  07/31/21
I go visit him for long periods of time bc I can work from w...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
"He doesn't want to move though and he says we will nee...
High-end institution
  07/31/21
You must be new to BSthreading. Her interests start and end ...
comical base gunner
  07/31/21
Inagine my basing my major life decisions on what will make ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Nothing is wrong with it but I want to eke out a few more ye...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
you should pop out kids now otherwise they will get autism p...
High-end institution
  07/31/21
lol who's Chris Chan
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Which club? DC country clubs are fairly stratified
passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete
  07/31/21
(Doobs)
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
(NOT welcome at Chevy Chase, Bannockburn, or Congressional)
passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete
  07/31/21
I dont know what those are but I doubt his club is one of th...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
At least you’re honest about it
passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete
  07/31/21
I hope you froze your eggs Get a condo in the city for w...
crawly market
  07/31/21
I don't think he's go for this He makes a lot of money bu...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Wait, so your last LDR didn’t work out? Lol
gay university potus
  07/31/21
Since no one asked for proof... https://imgur.com/a/xDjnI...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
BS, you're now childless and pushing 40. Any port in a storm...
Mustard bateful space multi-billionaire
  07/31/21
...
Cream Brunch Pozpig
  07/31/21
You don't understand ... she NEEDS to be with her fellow hoo...
comical base gunner
  07/31/21
lol...hoodrats? Do you think of my life as a Megan the St...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Lots of heroin addicts from the ivy league, eh?
comical base gunner
  07/31/21
I don't think I have ever had a "friend" who was a...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Nope, she *has* to live in the city, or else!
gay university potus
  07/31/21
Spinsterhood may be preferable to Falls Church.
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
My bad https://ibb.co/kKSwBkH Thoughts?
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
fulano, evan39, earl ... your thoughts?
comical base gunner
  07/31/21
White genetics and good nutrition have given him light skin ...
talking regret background story
  07/31/21
That's another thing. Both of us are white as fuck so our...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Dark Ben Affleck
Cowardly fragrant associate roommate
  07/31/21
I think he is incredibly good looking. I honestly dont kn...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
he's gay
azure balding business firm laser beams
  07/31/21
I knew xoxo would say that! Well if he's gay why is he ch...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
needs to start on family at this age
azure balding business firm laser beams
  07/31/21
he is super attractive, u guys are prob so cute together ...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
No I know him. We have been dating over a year lol. I woul...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
no like there's that thing ppl say about how marriage is a c...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
...
odious burgundy idiot
  07/31/21
An aesthetic bro
flatulent cocky property
  07/31/21
Yeah I think our kids would be really good looking (if white...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
You need to lock this down. The guy has a model face and rea...
flatulent cocky property
  07/31/21
Didn’t even ask about height. Flame
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  07/31/21
He's 6'2! Its amazing right!
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
gorgeous dude, u should move to VA and pop out kids
High-end institution
  07/31/21
:-D
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
I thought you were getting married to that psychiatrist. ...
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  07/31/21
The psychiatrist thing was flame. I said as much itt. ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Well I assume if he proposes you’ll move down there. W...
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  07/31/21
it sounds like he's rly close to DC; you can just uber or dr...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
Nlog
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  07/31/21
I've never liked you but I'll give some real advice itt. You...
appetizing pearly twinkling uncleanness
  07/31/21
why don't you like me :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
...
odious burgundy idiot
  07/31/21
...
odious burgundy idiot
  07/31/21
Oh he also has a big dick. 😍
crusty home
  07/31/21
Lmao at this don lemmon lookalike cornball brotha
Poppy roast beef
  07/31/21
You think he’s down low?
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  07/31/21
BS what are you doing these days?
flatulent cocky property
  07/31/21
I don't understand your desire to want to live in a 'big cit...
Grizzly striped hyena corn cake
  07/31/21
You should put a houseswap request on Craigslist. Your fall...
Razzle-dazzle ivory school
  07/31/21
Why don't you both move to Atlanta, the black people capital...
crawly market
  07/31/21
He has a really good job in DC and has no desire to change.
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
It sounds like you have a lot in common so I really see a br...
Dead hospital
  07/31/21
...
mewling bright fanboi location
  07/31/21
...
crusty home
  07/31/21
...
Multi-colored bull headed gas station old irish cottage
  08/01/21
I guess I don't get what "the city" gives you over...
Mind-boggling area elastic band
  07/31/21
The CULTURE
passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete
  07/31/21
I don't know man I'm just a city girl I was born and r...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
Put on a noise machine in your room. Or just plan on an Uber...
Mind-boggling area elastic band
  07/31/21
Sometimes I get second thoughts creeping into my head about ...
lemon motley forum
  07/31/21
I'm glad I can be a scapegoat for both your racism and misog...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
You are in the wrong here. This guy should ditch you for som...
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
LOL why? He is really into me for aome reason. No idea w...
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
because he's right. you're what, like 40? if you have no fri...
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
I will take this under advisement.
beady-eyed dun prole
  07/31/21
this is probably your best last chance at family life. but j...
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
I am as close to 34 as I am a to 40 you as whole. Closer ac...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
Yeah but post 35 fertility drops off a cliff
galvanic kitchen goal in life
  08/07/21
bc you're hot and funny and smart and well-educated and inte...
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
this has all been thoroughly debunked
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
false
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
link?
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
i've seen plenty of pix and poasts 😊
shimmering crackhouse
  07/31/21
non-responsive.
avocado principal's office
  07/31/21
Thanks boxy I think I am objectively smart (supported by ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
Oh come on You can't deny I'm well educated and interesti...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
I can and will. You seem boring irl
avocado principal's office
  08/01/21
So going to Stuyvesant and Yale and having a grad degree isn...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
Yeah I'm not sure how going to yale makes you well-educated....
avocado principal's office
  08/01/21
lol wow why the hostility? I don't even remember your nam...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
no, just being honest.
avocado principal's office
  08/01/21
But you're not... You're just tryinf to get my goat. I just...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
i am. no one is impressed by a druggie with a yale degree th...
avocado principal's office
  08/01/21
Oh god what did I do to get this rambling tirade that doesn'...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
non-responsive. I will accept your concession on all points,...
avocado principal's office
  08/01/21
lol I didn't concede to shit You're bringing up all sorts...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
Thank you box Its nice getting support from another femal...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
This will end well.
crusty home
  07/31/21
he's 100% a "down low" brother
Magical casino
  08/01/21
lol I knew xo would say that bc he's so hot and single
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
i hope you're wrapping it up
Magical casino
  08/01/21
I have poasted since 2005 but never interacted with you much...
Yapping spectacular brethren psychic
  08/01/21
Kids aren't especially important to me. Nor is marriage. ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
I don’t think you should be running around freaking ou...
Yapping spectacular brethren psychic
  08/01/21
But everyone says the passion ultimately dies anyway right? ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
I don’t think it’s true that the passion dies at...
Yapping spectacular brethren psychic
  08/01/21
I will take this under advisement. .I am retiring again tho...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/01/21
Flame
Federal free-loading parlor giraffe
  08/01/21
"I want him to sell his house and move to DC. Is this t...
Talented Milky Place Of Business
  08/01/21
Nightlife! https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BxWJeEXCIAE_LLg.jp...
Talented Milky Place Of Business
  08/01/21
lol weren’t you engaged to someone else like 6 mos ago
Excitant metal locale
  08/01/21
That's the most hilarious thing about this. She was doing l...
Multi-colored bull headed gas station old irish cottage
  08/01/21
Dude that was flame. I admitted that at the bottom of the t...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
You will be back here to say the same thing about this guy (...
Exhilarant persian gaming laptop
  08/07/21
I admitted that thread was flame the day I made it. WTF?
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
he dump your ass yet?
passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete
  08/03/21
lol no you silly goose He is madly in love with me. ...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
Bump in 1 month!
crusty home
  08/07/21
WANNA bet? If we are still dayinf in ine month you must lea...
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
This is not To Be Fair
crusty home
  08/07/21
I know.
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
I believe we are still waiting on the butt pic. Given your n...
Nudist Library Party Of The First Part
  08/07/21
Butt pic?
beady-eyed dun prole
  08/07/21
Yes. Promised to XO a year or two ago.
Nudist Library Party Of The First Part
  08/07/21
Update?
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  02/17/26
Didn’t he die like a week after this
N904PD
  02/18/26
Like 9 months apparently https://www.autoadmit.com/threa...
N904PD
  02/18/26
...
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  02/18/26
tp.
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  02/18/26


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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:39 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

so I'm sure you guys won't believe in saying a really good looking guy but he just texted me a selfie so ill screenshot it if you guys Really want proof that badly.

So I've found myself in an LDR...again. but this guy lives in Falls Church, VA which is a nice but boring suburb of DC. He wants me to move down there with him. He has a really lucrative job at a F500 company o it makes more sense for me to move than him to come to NYC (I have been working remotely ever since I got my new job last April and will be doing so for the foreseeable future).

So... I love him and am willing to leave my life and friends and family to be with him but... I do not want to live in the burbs. I want him to sell his house and move to DC. Is this too much to ask? I'm sacrificing to be with him and all that I ask is that we live in the city. It will be easier for him as well since he works in DC and he won't have to commute anymore. He doesn't want to move though and he says we will need a house once we marry and have kids so it makes no sense to move.

Who is in the right here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874432)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:40 AM
Author: Cream Brunch Pozpig

LMAO

Couldn’t handle Box getting some attention, could you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874437)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Is the Box back too?

Awesome!

Hey girl, holla at a sister.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874441)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:53 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

❤❤❤ hello! we briefly talked in the other thread - i think he sounds great, and no strong opinion on the location thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874713)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:40 AM
Author: massive hall

Why do you want to live in the city so bad? Dc isn't NYC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874438)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I know; I've been spending a lot of time there since its where we normally hang out there when I'm visiting him. But Falls Church is so, so boring. OMG there is nothing to do there.

He doesn't care bc all he does is play tennis and golf and he belongs to a country club there but I want restaurants, nightlife, shopping etc. He tells me to grow up and says those things won't matter since we plan to have kids in a few years anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874444)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:43 AM
Author: massive hall

What is there to do in DC?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874445)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Bars, clubs, restaurants, shopping, tons of museuMs/galleries, black people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874460)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:56 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

are you within a reasonable distance to just go out in the city? like when i lived in long beach i went out in LA all the time and that was like 25mi.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874723)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:59 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

It should only take like 20 minutes to half an hour but sometimes the traffic can be REALLY bad. You're from the DMV right?How was it following up in a random DC suburb?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874734)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:07 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

yeah it can get rly bad on the beltway etc. same shit in LA though... i just chilled in an uber. it wasn't rly a big deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874781)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:08 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

How is your life going?

Are you still in a band? Are you still dating the black guy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874786)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

still in the band and it's my favorite thing ever! and omg ex turned out to be a disaster, there are threads abt it, he's out of the picture =D i'm boutta pass out, hope to catch u later (tho neither of us should stick around for long)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874811)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Yeah I'm definitely not sticking around for long.

I am so much more positive and happy when I am away from this place. It's just too negative.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874829)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:43 AM
Author: talking regret background story

FC is a great place to live. One of the nation’s best leafy, sleepy little towns. Really sad that it’s starting to slide into decay if the likes of you are able to move there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874446)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

LMAO

I prob couldn't afford to live there on my own. I'm just hypergamous and happen to be dating a guy who owns a home there.

What do you like about Falls Church? I find it to be so boring.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874455)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:51 AM
Author: comical base gunner

I'm sure you can find a heroin dealer in Falls Church, don't worry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874466)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:53 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol I haven't done any opiates in years

I didn't even use all of the Percocet I was prescribed for dental trouble in December.

Oh and there are most certainly NOT heroin dealers in this place LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874476)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:56 AM
Author: startling brilliant mediation

So what exactly do you do together? Do you go to the country club? Are you going into DC multiple times a week? Seems like you have very different interests.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874483)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:00 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I go visit him for long periods of time bc I can work from wherever. He rarely comea to NYC. WHEN I'M down in the DMV we go to restaurants, hang out at his club (I am horribly unathlwtic but he loves sports so he tries to teach me), we go to malls (never seen so many malls in one place), we hang out at his house, go visit his friends in the area... I don't know, old people stuff.

We don't have much in common and I don't know that I'm passionately in love with him but my family loves him and he is perfect on paper (tall, good-looking, Ivy-educated, UMC black man never married/no kids) and he wants to marry me for some reason. Oh he also has a big dick. 😍

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874497)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: High-end institution

"He doesn't want to move though and he says we will need a house once we marry and have kids so it makes no sense to move."

whats wrong with this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874492)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:00 AM
Author: comical base gunner

You must be new to BSthreading. Her interests start and end with MEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEME.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874495)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:04 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Inagine my basing my major life decisions on what will make me happy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874511)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:05 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Nothing is wrong with it but I want to eke out a few more years of quasi-youth/city-living. I want to marry at 38 and have a kid at 39.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874514)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:06 AM
Author: High-end institution

you should pop out kids now otherwise they will get autism pwned and end up like Chris-chan

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874518)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:17 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol who's Chris Chan

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874558)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:08 AM
Author: passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete

Which club? DC country clubs are fairly stratified

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874522)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:17 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

(Doobs)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874562)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:50 AM
Author: passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete

(NOT welcome at Chevy Chase, Bannockburn, or Congressional)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874690)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:55 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I dont know what those are but I doubt his club is one of the "top" ones.

Hes black and only 39.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874719)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM
Author: passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete

At least you’re honest about it

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:11 AM
Author: crawly market

I hope you froze your eggs

Get a condo in the city for weekends and live in falls church

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874536)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:18 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I don't think he's go for this

He makes a lot of money but he's frugal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874564)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:25 AM
Author: gay university potus

Wait, so your last LDR didn’t work out? Lol

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:30 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Since no one asked for proof...

https://imgur.com/a/xDjnIhX

What do you guys rate him?

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:32 AM
Author: Mustard bateful space multi-billionaire

BS, you're now childless and pushing 40. Any port in a storm.

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:33 AM
Author: Cream Brunch Pozpig



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:34 AM
Author: comical base gunner

You don't understand ... she NEEDS to be with her fellow hoodrats on nights and weekends ... she DESERVES her happiness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874630)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:41 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol...hoodrats?

Do you think of my life as a Megan the Stallion video?

Most of my friends are like accountants who went to Princeton or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874652)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:42 AM
Author: comical base gunner

Lots of heroin addicts from the ivy league, eh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874655)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:51 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I don't think I have ever had a "friend" who was a heroin addict

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:35 AM
Author: gay university potus

Nope, she *has* to live in the city, or else!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874637)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:40 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Spinsterhood may be preferable to Falls Church.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874648)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:38 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

My bad

https://ibb.co/kKSwBkH

Thoughts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874642)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:40 AM
Author: comical base gunner

fulano, evan39, earl ... your thoughts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874646)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:45 AM
Author: talking regret background story

White genetics and good nutrition have given him light skin and some length of bone, but he’s just 3 generations from living in a house with a dirt floor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874671)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:57 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

That's another thing.

Both of us are white as fuck so our kids would have absolutely no melanin. 😞 I have always wanted to have brown children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874726)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:58 AM
Author: Cowardly fragrant associate roommate

Dark Ben Affleck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874730)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:00 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I think he is incredibly good looking.

I honestly dont know how he went this long without some woman snapping him up. Hes like perfect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874741)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:10 AM
Author: azure balding business firm laser beams

he's gay

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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I knew xoxo would say that!

Well if he's gay why is he choosing to marry a beard now rather than all the other chances he must have had before?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874824)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM
Author: azure balding business firm laser beams

needs to start on family at this age

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874838)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:02 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

he is super attractive, u guys are prob so cute together 😭

obviously don't ignore any 🚩🚩🚩s or irreconcilable preferences. but if it's more a matter of u thinking he's kinda boring... ur still getting to know him, which some ppl say is the best part of relationships!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874753)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:05 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

No I know him. We have been dating over a year lol. I would never consider moving to live with some guy I had just started dating.

And thank you I think we are really cute together too.

No lie: One time we were on the DC metro and this old white lady came up to us and was like "You two young people are so good looking." I wish I could have filmed it because no one believes us when we tell the story.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874772)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:08 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

no like there's that thing ppl say about how marriage is a constant process of getting to know each other and that's the beauty of it!!

THAT'S AMAZING. CALLED IT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874788)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:09 AM
Author: odious burgundy idiot



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:10 AM
Author: flatulent cocky property

An aesthetic bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874799)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Yeah I think our kids would be really good looking (if white).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874808)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:16 AM
Author: flatulent cocky property

You need to lock this down. The guy has a model face and really strong features. As long as his personality is tolerable, hard to do better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874844)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:20 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

Didn’t even ask about height. Flame

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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:22 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

He's 6'2!

Its amazing right!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874874)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM
Author: High-end institution

gorgeous dude, u should move to VA and pop out kids

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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

:-D

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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:45 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

I thought you were getting married to that psychiatrist.

Anyway let us know when he actually puts on a ring on it. That or pull the goalie and try to get oops pregnant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874673)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:47 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

The psychiatrist thing was flame.

I said as much itt.

anyway he's certainly not going to marry me unless I move to be with him. do you think I should? or should I try to force him to come to dc?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874684)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:01 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

Well I assume if he proposes you’ll move down there. Why not wait for the ring? Make him show some commitment. He looks like a player

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874746)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:04 AM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

it sounds like he's rly close to DC; you can just uber or drive there!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874762)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

Nlog

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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:12 AM
Author: appetizing pearly twinkling uncleanness

I've never liked you but I'll give some real advice itt. You're either all the way in or all the way out here. Making him move to DC so you can party means starting the next phase of the relationship in a shitty compromise for both of you, it's going to amp up the conflict every weekend when it comes to social activities, and it's still just kicking the can down the road for the eventual fight over a move back out of the city.

Also DC proper sucks now but that's neither here nor there.

Your boy is a housecat. That's fine but either accept it or don't. Don't try and turn a housewife into a ho.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874819)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:14 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

why don't you like me :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874834)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM
Author: odious burgundy idiot



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM
Author: odious burgundy idiot



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:37 PM
Author: crusty home

Oh he also has a big dick. 😍

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877778)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:16 AM
Author: Poppy roast beef

Lmao at this don lemmon lookalike cornball brotha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874846)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

You think he’s down low?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874855)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM
Author: flatulent cocky property

BS what are you doing these days?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874854)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:18 AM
Author: Grizzly striped hyena corn cake

I don't understand your desire to want to live in a 'big city' environment if you're already in a serious relationship and are on the older side to go club hopping or whatever (although some people never lose that thirst even as they age, I guess), but are you aware that Falls Church is a 30 minute Metro ride away from downtown DC? You can park in the lot on Friday at 5pm, wait 15 minutes at most for the next train, and be in downtown DC 30 minutes later. Even if you have to Uber back at night, between you and your F500 man it shouldn't be too much of a financial hit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874860)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:25 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle ivory school

You should put a houseswap request on Craigslist. Your falls church SFH for DC condo. You’ll be inundated with offers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874887)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:26 AM
Author: crawly market

Why don't you both move to Atlanta, the black people capital of the US?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874895)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

He has a really good job in DC and has no desire to change.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874898)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:31 AM
Author: Dead hospital

It sounds like you have a lot in common so I really see a bright future ahead for you two. Best of luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874918)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 8:56 PM
Author: mewling bright fanboi location



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:33 PM
Author: crusty home



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:11 AM
Author: Multi-colored bull headed gas station old irish cottage



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Mind-boggling area elastic band

I guess I don't get what "the city" gives you over Falls Church.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874939)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:43 AM
Author: passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete

The CULTURE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42874966)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I don't know man

I'm just a city girl

I was born and raised in one of the largest cities in the world. I've never lived outside of a city except for grad school and that was different because the school had its own vibe going on.

I like noise and lots of people and shit going on all times of night. I'm just used to it. Is this wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877260)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:44 PM
Author: Mind-boggling area elastic band

Put on a noise machine in your room. Or just plan on an Uber to the city for a fix on regular occasion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877558)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:13 PM
Author: lemon motley forum

Sometimes I get second thoughts creeping into my head about spamming misogynistic and racist posts on this board but then I see something like this that re-assures me that I need to re-double my efforts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877237)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:18 PM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I'm glad I can be a scapegoat for both your racism and misogyny -killing two birds with one stone 😉

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877255)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:30 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

You are in the wrong here. This guy should ditch you for someone better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877285)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:20 PM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

LOL why?

He is really into me for aome reason. No idea why. We have a ton of mutual friends on Facebook so it suggested us to each other. He messaged me and said he thought I was beautiful. 😍

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877704)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:23 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

because he's right. you're what, like 40? if you have no friends or family down there who are you going to club with? what's the point at that age? you're not 34 anymore, and isn't clubbing just about getting drunk and coppin strange?

making him move is ridiculous. he probably wants a family, so moving into dc (which is a complete shithole) is insane and stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877713)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:25 PM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I will take this under advisement.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877715)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

this is probably your best last chance at family life. but judging by your op you won't realize it's too late until it's already 2-3 years too late

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877723)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:57 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I am as close to 34 as I am a to 40 you as whole. Closer actually. I have only been 37 for 3 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911213)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:58 AM
Author: galvanic kitchen goal in life

Yeah but post 35 fertility drops off a cliff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911215)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:26 PM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

bc you're hot and funny and smart and well-educated and interesting!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877722)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

this has all been thoroughly debunked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877725)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:31 PM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

false

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877753)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:32 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

link?

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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:33 PM
Author: shimmering crackhouse

i've seen plenty of pix and poasts 😊

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877761)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:37 PM
Author: avocado principal's office

non-responsive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877783)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:15 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Thanks boxy

I think I am objectively smart (supported by my perrformance on the Specialized HS Admissions Test, the SAT, the LSAT and acceptances to various schools which I need not list), well educated (as I said Stuy, Yale and grad degree from a decent if not stellar school is well educated to 99% of people) and interesting (I don't want to go into it here but I really have found myself in some crazy life situations)

sorta funny for a girl

somewhat attractive - maybe considered hot to guys who are really into my body type but just ok to most

If we're being honest.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878121)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:36 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Oh come on

You can't deny I'm well educated and interesting. 😉

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878000)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:38 AM
Author: avocado principal's office

I can and will. You seem boring irl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878003)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:40 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

So going to Stuyvesant and Yale and having a grad degree isn't well educated? What must one do to be well educated then?

My IRL is even more interesting. All my friends are always telling me I should write a book about my life. I have been in a lot of...unusual situations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878009)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:46 AM
Author: avocado principal's office

Yeah I'm not sure how going to yale makes you well-educated. well, maybe you are "well-educated", but I wouldn't say you're learned in anything. Also, you're a former junkie who hasn't really utilized the degree you have.

Are all these friends also telling you to continue partying it up, offering empty Yasss KWEEEN! compliments that only push you to continue making the same bad decisions you always make?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878031)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol wow why the hostility?

I don't even remember your name so I cant have done anything to you

Did I call you an aspire at some point? If so I apologize; that wasn't very nice of me. 😞

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878036)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:49 AM
Author: avocado principal's office

no, just being honest.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878040)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:53 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

But you're not... You're just tryinf to get my goat. I just dont see a world in which I'm not well educated

You realize only 25% of Americans even have a college degree right? Someone who went to one of the most selective high schools in the country and one of the most selective colleges and has a grad degree is way ahead of most

I never said I was successful, just educated and I'm not sure what drug use has to do with being educated.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878055)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:59 AM
Author: avocado principal's office

i am. no one is impressed by a druggie with a yale degree that's not being used. I know plenty of ivy league trustafarians who are just like you. no one considers them "well-educated", and there's a difference between being "educated" and being "learned". it's actually more of a negative mark. like, wow, ivy league degree and couldn't do anything with it? what is wrong with them?

sure. you were ahead of people who didn't get the opportunities that you did, but you also squandered them, so you're back on their level. which imo makes you dumber than they are. they didn't have the unfair privilege you did, and yet you're still on their level, unable to get ahead of them.

you also didn't respond to the empty yass kween section, so I assume that's correct.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878071)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:01 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Oh god what did I do to get this rambling tirade that doesn't respond to any of my points? I wonder what "unfair privilege" got me into Stuyvesant, a school to which admissions is solely based on pwning an exam and no affirmative action is utilized. Oh well.

Good night man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878077)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:03 AM
Author: avocado principal's office

non-responsive. I will accept your concession on all points, even after you edited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878083)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:16 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol I didn't concede to shit

You're bringing up all sorts of weird shit that has nothing to do with being uneducated or educated. Doing drugs cancels out your education or something? Not being successful financially means you're not well educated? So all the HYP grads who go on to be teachers or social workers or work for non profit have their educations stripped of them? lol

And who said anything about being "learned" or "impressive"? I never even said I was smart because, although I am, I wanted to stick to something that was obvious and objective, like my level of education.

You are not very good at arguing.

P.S. What unfair advantages did I get and how do they explain why I owned the SSHAT, SAT and LSAT? I sincerely thank you in advance for what I am sure will be an illuminating answer. 😉



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911283)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:37 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Thank you box

Its nice getting support from another female

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878001)



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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:38 PM
Author: crusty home

This will end well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42877786)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:47 AM
Author: Magical casino

he's 100% a "down low" brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878033)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol I knew xo would say that bc he's so hot and single

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878038)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:49 AM
Author: Magical casino

i hope you're wrapping it up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878042)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:59 AM
Author: Yapping spectacular brethren psychic

I have poasted since 2005 but never interacted with you much. There is an xo racist/misogyny contingent here that gives you way too much shit but this thread is really not a great look for you. You’re you’re considering marrying a guy that you’re not really in love with and you’re over 35 and the thing you’re hung up on is the damn city? Fuck man you’re not going to be. enjoying “night life” for much longer anyway. He’s 100% in the right here. What you should be hung up on is that you don’t really love him and also that this is probably your last shot at kids. Are kids even important to you? It sounds like no. If they were you would not be thinking this way about being close to “night life” are your age. All that said don’t marry somebody you’re not crazy about especially if you don’t really care about kids. It will be a disaster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878073)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:08 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Kids aren't especially important to me. Nor is marriage.

I am not a fan of permanent things that cannot be undone and kids are aorta the definition of that.

I know xoxo thinks I should be running atound like a chicken with my head cut off because I'm 37 and unmarried but I just don't really care... Perhaps that makes me weird.

I love my bf I just don't feel intense passion for him. I have been told that marriage isn't about that anyway, that its about finding someone you are compatible with whom you can count on to be a hood life partner and have your back through thick and thin and I think this is him. I care about him a great deal, don't think otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878097)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:14 AM
Author: Yapping spectacular brethren psychic

I don’t think you should be running around freaking out if you don’t want kids. In fact I don’t think you should have them at all if you’re lukewarm about them. Kids are irreversible and a big ass deal and not for people who don’t really want kids IMO.

I don’t think you should marry anyone you’re not passionately into. My advice is don’t move and dump him. Marriage is a compromise and a partnership but you need more than deeply caring about someone. Ive been in those relationships and married someone I’m passionate about and firmly believe you can’t do it any other way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878118)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:20 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

But everyone says the passion ultimately dies anyway right?

Why pass up soneone who I love/care about who loves me and will be a good partner/father (should we decide to go that route)?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878134)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:23 AM
Author: Yapping spectacular brethren psychic

I don’t think it’s true that the passion dies at all. The initial lust waxes and wanes but that’s distinct from passion. Especially if you don’t really care about kids you shouldn’t be compromising on that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878144)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 2:07 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I will take this under advisement.

.I am retiring again though.

Bye!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878281)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 3:00 AM
Author: Federal free-loading parlor giraffe

Flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878363)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 8:48 AM
Author: Talented Milky Place Of Business

"I want him to sell his house and move to DC. Is this too much to ask? I'm sacrificing to be with him and all that I ask is that we live in the city."

Flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878766)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 8:53 AM
Author: Talented Milky Place Of Business

Nightlife!

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BxWJeEXCIAE_LLg.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42878772)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 10:32 AM
Author: Excitant metal locale

lol weren’t you engaged to someone else like 6 mos ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42879068)



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Date: August 1st, 2021 2:58 PM
Author: Multi-colored bull headed gas station old irish cottage

That's the most hilarious thing about this. She was doing long distance with some white guy, assured XO they were getting married soon. We were all like "uh, what?" but she was like "none of you understand our beautiful passionate love and I'm so great he'll walk across the Sahara desert for me!" Fast forward to today and here we are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42880003)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:55 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Dude that was flame. I admitted that at the bottom of the thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911207)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Exhilarant persian gaming laptop

You will be back here to say the same thing about this guy (give it a year)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911217)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:06 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I admitted that thread was flame the day I made it.

WTF?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911253)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 6:36 AM
Author: passionate bat shit crazy dilemma keepsake machete

he dump your ass yet?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42888253)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:56 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

lol no you silly goose

He is madly in love with me.

Last weekend we had a 2 hour phone conversation about the Civil War. We are both huge nerds. But yea we talk about nothing for hours and the time just flies. 😄

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911211)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: crusty home
Subject: Bump in 1 month!

Date: August 7th, 2021 9:56 AM

Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,..,,::,..,:,.,.:...:..,:.::,.

lol no you silly goose

He is madly in love with me.

Last weekend we had a 2 hour phone conversation about the Civil War. We are both huge nerds. But yea we talk about nothing for hours and the time just flies. 😄

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2#42911211)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911219)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:08 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

WANNA bet? If we are still dayinf in ine month you must leave? I have already retired and don't really care if I have to leave this place so you'll have to think of another forfeit for me in case I lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911259)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:22 AM
Author: crusty home

This is not To Be Fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911295)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:28 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

I know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911318)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:31 AM
Author: Nudist Library Party Of The First Part

I believe we are still waiting on the butt pic. Given your new relationship you should have lots of fresh ones.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911326)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 11:12 AM
Author: beady-eyed dun prole

Butt pic?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911518)



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Date: August 7th, 2021 11:24 AM
Author: Nudist Library Party Of The First Part

Yes. Promised to XO a year or two ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#42911550)



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Date: February 17th, 2026 10:30 PM
Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'

Update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#49677009)



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Date: February 18th, 2026 8:41 PM
Author: N904PD

Didn’t he die like a week after this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#49679151)



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Date: February 18th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: N904PD

Like 9 months apparently

https://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5065079&mc=166&forum_id=2#44196382

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Date: February 18th, 2026 8:33 PM
Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'



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Date: February 18th, 2026 8:34 PM
Author: frutiger aero

tp.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2).#49679137)