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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Brilliant lettuce
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Costumed Philosopher-king Messiness
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
cracking misanthropic principal's office
  06/28/25
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Low-t nowag
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
Umber passionate plaza national security agency
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Learning disabled elastic band
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Laughsome roommate famous landscape painting
  06/28/25
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chocolate senate trump supporter
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Fantasy-prone menage genital piercing
  06/28/25
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hot orchestra pit laser beams
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
appetizing range
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
Low-t nowag
  06/28/25
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Rough-skinned dun candlestick maker space
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
Shivering angry hell
  06/28/25
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Slimy Bearded Native Pisswyrm
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Bistre stirring box office fortuitous meteor
  06/28/25
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diverse stage giraffe
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Costumed Philosopher-king Messiness
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
purple hominid
  06/28/25
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chocolate senate trump supporter
  06/28/25
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diverse stage giraffe
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
purple hominid
  06/28/25
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adventurous main people
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
translucent ticket booth clown
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Shivering angry hell
  06/28/25
nobody cares
chocolate senate trump supporter
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Soul-stirring Nursing Home Private Investor
  06/28/25
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hot orchestra pit laser beams
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
big bipolar school cafeteria
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Soul-stirring Nursing Home Private Investor
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Hyperventilating indian lodge nibblets
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Bistre stirring box office fortuitous meteor
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Shivering angry hell
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
hot orchestra pit laser beams
  06/28/25
a jew
Shivering angry hell
  06/28/25
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chocolate senate trump supporter
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
balding avocado parlour
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Brilliant lettuce

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Costumed Philosopher-king Messiness

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: cracking misanthropic principal's office

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Low-t nowag



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Umber passionate plaza national security agency

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Learning disabled elastic band

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Laughsome roommate famous landscape painting

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: chocolate senate trump supporter



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Fantasy-prone menage genital piercing

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: hot orchestra pit laser beams



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: appetizing range

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Low-t nowag

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: Rough-skinned dun candlestick maker space



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Shivering angry hell

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Slimy Bearded Native Pisswyrm



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Bistre stirring box office fortuitous meteor



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: diverse stage giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Costumed Philosopher-king Messiness

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: purple hominid

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: chocolate senate trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: diverse stage giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: purple hominid

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: adventurous main people



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: translucent ticket booth clown

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Shivering angry hell

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: chocolate senate trump supporter

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Nursing Home Private Investor

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: hot orchestra pit laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: big bipolar school cafeteria

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Nursing Home Private Investor

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Hyperventilating indian lodge nibblets

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Bistre stirring box office fortuitous meteor

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Shivering angry hell

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: hot orchestra pit laser beams

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Shivering angry hell

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: chocolate senate trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: balding avocado parlour

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2).#49056402)