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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy asks: is your man pornsick?

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e8eaz...
Underhanded Drab Den Wrinkle
  08/07/20
JFC
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  08/07/20
Some of these are ridiculous. I don’t like handjobs ei...
Nudist locale
  08/07/20
it's crowdsourced from all the respondents in that thread, w...
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  08/07/20
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Mustard bossy trump supporter
  08/08/20
uses the word "cum" to describe orgasming, instead...
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  08/11/20
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rusted excitant hospital
  08/11/20
A lot of this is v cr and a good thing to check your own beh...
pale talented party of the first part
  08/07/20
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Underhanded Drab Den Wrinkle
  08/07/20
180 synergy at work here
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Fluffy Mint Partner Lodge
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woman with black bf "not at all, thats part of the supe...
Trip range
  08/08/20
I am a leering dravidian. Bumble 5, take my eyes.
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I check a lot of the greenflag boxes but still am pornsick
garnet bawdyhouse
  08/08/20
- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive...
Chocolate slap-happy parlor fortuitous meteor
  08/11/20
greenflag guy has lots of homo redflags
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xo is filled with pornography addicts, so they're not going ...
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yeah you can tell this is reddit because only 30% of these a...
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vibrant famous landscape painting
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Greenflag - He has female friends (actual friends). He view...
adventurous house mad cow disease
  08/11/20
yeah, those are signs that you're dating a homo
free-loading theatre sex offender
  08/11/20
Red flags listed get you pussy
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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:00 PM
Author: Underhanded Drab Den Wrinkle

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e8eaz2/how_to_detect_pornsick_men_share_you_experience/

Redflag "Shit, he's pornsick!".

- Talks about sex way too early in the relationship.

- Gives off that "pervert vibe" that once upon a time only old creeps used to give. Now even young, good looking, "normal" guys that are pornsick give off that vibe. It's the vibe people who are constantly thinking about sex give. He's constantly imagining sex scenarios in his head because he's brain is distorted by the image he's viewing.

- "Follows lots of half naked insta models and real girls he just uses to jerk off to and maybe inappropriately msg."

- "Completely without concern telling disgusting anecdotes in mixed company after a few drinks."

- "They need more than just nice underwear to get hard."

- "Taking bis phone to the bathroom every single time is a red flag."

- "mentions sex acts or positions that are popular in porn, like anal. I had a boyfriend that would ask if we could switch to doggy style when he started losing his erection"

- "erectile dysfunction at a young age (20s)"

- "feeling rushed whenever you’re intimate"

- "if he zones out or seems like he’s in his head when you’re intimate. Again, same boyfriend as before was LESS affectionate during sex, and wouldn’t make as much eye contact as normal."

- "insecure about the size of his dick even though it’s normal or above average"

- "Is he looking at you the way an innocuous man would, or is he leering at you like you’re about to get down on your knees and make his day? The eyes reveal all."

- "It’s also in the way he speaks. If he is reading sexual tones into non sexual things, that’s a dead give away."

- "If he is not hard while kissing"

- " If his idea of sex is no foreplay, and just jackhammering"

- "Are more likely to brag about how good they are in bed. They are actually terrible in bed: either they can't get hard, they can't maintain an erection, or they can't finish easily so sex lasts way too long. Sex is mechanical and he'll never bother to find out what pleases you, because he's going through a list in his head or performing for an imaginary audience"

- "Have a full list of kinks that they want to try with you, all with pornified language, before he even gets to know you. It seems like he's checking off a list mentally and actually fulfilling any of those kinks makes him push for more. Soon you are no longer having anything resembling vanilla sex. Kinks he may ask for include: Anal, choking, slapping, spanking, asking to finish on your face or hair, wanting you to swallow or deep throat, wanting to be pegged, threesomes, gangbangs, hot wife or cuckhold fetishes, obsession with feet, degrading slurs slung at you in bed. Wants you to perform for him: lingerie, stripping, lap dance, asks you to get loud during sex."

- "Uses the word 'cum' to describe orgasming."

- "Doesn't enjoy handjobs. His fist has been gripping far too tight for yours to compare."

- "Talk sexually about their exes, random people on the street, coworkers"

- "Always looking at women in public"

- "Implies that men are visual creatures and women aren't."

- "Will always lie about porn use. He won't ever give it up for you. He also will defend his porn"

- "Does not give a fuck about women who are trafficked and raped to provide him free entertainment."

- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive to enjoy watching videos of rape."

- "Vocally sex-negative, but most of his vitriol is aimed at women. Acts like men are slaves to their libidos. Jerks off to pictures of the women he calls slutty for showing skin when he says he's working."

- "Uses porn in public places or at work."

- "Thinks sex dolls are feminist"

- Uses pornified language.

- "They also get very touchy too fast."

- "Argues with you about what you like"

- "spending too much time playing video games seems to be common."

- "Socially inept."

- "Be weary of anime watchers, a lot of shows are hypersexualized & we all know hentai."

Greenflag "Yes, his dick will work!".

- Doesn't talk about sex right away. To him sex is intimate and needs to be brought on slowly (to be truly enjoyed)

- He has female friends (actual friends). He views women as actual humans with feelings and enjoy their company without sexing them.

- " high energy and has lots of hobbies or interests."

- " he has HVM as friends, doesnt keep contact if the friend is talking bad about women or objectifies women openly. His friends are respectful and have wonderful wives who seem to be really happy."

- " if he has a sex drive and gets randomly hard just by looking at you wearing something sexy (talking about underwear and that stuff) he probably isnt a consumer of porn all the time."

- "super outdoorsy"

- "doesn’t really use social media"

- "he's never been to a strip club"

- "your know all his passwords and he doesn't care"



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722540)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:04 PM
Author: transparent exhilarant personal credit line

JFC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722562)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:10 PM
Author: Nudist locale

Some of these are ridiculous. I don’t like handjobs either, but not because I’m “pornsick,” but because women are almost universally terrible at them. No woman can give a handjob as good as the man can give himself one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722581)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: Underhanded Drab Den Wrinkle

it's crowdsourced from all the respondents in that thread, which is why some of them are spot-on while others are stupid as shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722601)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:13 AM
Author: Mustard bossy trump supporter



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:12 PM
Author: Misanthropic puppy business firm

uses the word "cum" to describe orgasming, instead of the preferred terms "spunk" or "jizzblast"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40737931)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:19 PM
Author: rusted excitant hospital

I used to think this until I showed an ex some russian handjob videos. She actually studied them well and developed an HJ technique that kind of blew my mind, like it felt better than sex. Two hands, twisting, all of that stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40737947)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: pale talented party of the first part

A lot of this is v cr and a good thing to check your own behavior for

If you can’t be sexually intimate without dissociation or thinking of porn, that’s a serious problem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722600)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:14 PM
Author: Underhanded Drab Den Wrinkle



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Date: August 8th, 2020 1:20 PM
Author: pale talented party of the first part

180 synergy at work here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40724202)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:56 PM
Author: soul-stirring elastic band field



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:48 PM
Author: dark site milk



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:19 AM
Author: Unholy messiness station

Thanks for the great reddit content. Upvoted

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722761)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:21 AM
Author: cobalt cuckold library



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:03 PM
Author: Soggy hairy legs



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:37 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone meetinghouse macaca

(guy insecure about the size of his dick even though it’s normal or above average)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40725303)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:02 PM
Author: flirting elite gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40737871)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:42 PM
Author: free-loading theatre sex offender



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:56 PM
Author: Disgusting aromatic boltzmann digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#46935925)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:20 AM
Author: Slimy greedy property

the writer of all of this needs to kill herself. not only is she taking on a masculine persona by trying to write critical commentary in an authoritative voice, but she also sounds like a semi-literate retard, and is also way too sex obsessed, and jealous of the male experience and way of life. not only that, she is low iq, and way off the mark in her analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722765)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:46 PM
Author: Motley tan mad-dog skullcap



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Date: October 14th, 2023 5:02 PM
Author: Fluffy Mint Partner Lodge



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:23 AM
Author: Trip range

woman with black bf "not at all, thats part of the superior black male sex drive"

shitlib with white bf "yes" "jesus christ that creep is addicted to porn"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40722776)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 1:44 PM
Author: flirting elite gas station

I am a leering dravidian. Bumble 5, take my eyes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40724283)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 5:58 PM
Author: talking hairraiser deer antler



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:04 PM
Author: Bespoke light gunner plaza



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:09 PM
Author: Internet-worthy ebony public bath



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:09 PM
Author: grizzly place of business



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:01 PM
Author: garnet bawdyhouse

I check a lot of the greenflag boxes but still am pornsick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40725210)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:06 PM
Author: Chocolate slap-happy parlor fortuitous meteor

- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive to enjoy watching videos of rape."

- "Vocally sex-negative, but most of his vitriol is aimed at women. Acts like men are slaves to their libidos. Jerks off to pictures of the women he calls slutty for showing skin when he says he's working."

these "red flags" feel slightly contradictory

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40737903)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:29 PM
Author: bright fragrant jew parlour

greenflag guy has lots of homo redflags

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40738008)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:15 PM
Author: Soggy hairy legs



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:39 PM
Author: Jet-lagged floppy shitlib

xo is filled with pornography addicts, so they're not going to like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40738064)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:41 PM
Author: vibrant famous landscape painting

yeah you can tell this is reddit because only 30% of these are porn related

luckily I have extremely high blood pressure and am handsome so women don't care if I suffer from them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40738071)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:53 PM
Author: ungodly nibblets



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:54 PM
Author: cobalt cuckold library



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:35 PM
Author: vibrant famous landscape painting



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: adventurous house mad cow disease

Greenflag

- He has female friends (actual friends). He views women as actual humans with feelings and enjoy their company without sexing them.

I mean, sure, I view them as human, but enjoy their company as friends? Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40738088)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:54 PM
Author: free-loading theatre sex offender

yeah, those are signs that you're dating a homo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#40738631)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:40 PM
Author: High-end church building hissy fit

Red flags listed get you pussy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2).#46935877)



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Date: August 19th, 2025 3:37 AM
Author: artificial diaperintelligence



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