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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Narrow-minded university
  05/20/22
Jfc
Vivacious location
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
irradiated unhinged theater stage
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Narrow-minded university
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
Link?
Vivacious location
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Mentally impaired flickering theater potus
  05/20/22
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lime stubborn mood immigrant
  05/20/22
no
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
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  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
Ebony rigpig boiling water
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Smoky Resort Cumskin
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
kink-friendly den mental disorder
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
Ocher razzle-dazzle piazza
  05/21/22
rare honesty
ruby marvelous filthpig
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Wine Mad-dog Skullcap Famous Landscape Painting
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
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ruby marvelous filthpig
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
khaki temple
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
khaki temple
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
khaki temple
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
brilliant stimulating ape
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
khaki temple
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
khaki temple
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
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Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena
  05/20/22
well this response for one
ruby marvelous filthpig
  05/20/22
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sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
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khaki temple
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
vigorous locale
  05/20/22
fair
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Saffron Effete Gas Station
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
amber self-absorbed forum black woman
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Honey-headed Range Travel Guidebook
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
trip avocado nursing home toaster
  05/21/22
...
sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Narrow-minded university

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Vivacious location

Jfc

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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: irradiated unhinged theater stage

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Narrow-minded university

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Vivacious location

Link?

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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Mentally impaired flickering theater potus

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: lime stubborn mood immigrant



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: vigorous locale

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: vigorous locale

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: vigorous locale

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: vigorous locale

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: contagious citrine police squad native

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: Ebony rigpig boiling water

Life is miserable isn’t it

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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Smoky Resort Cumskin

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: kink-friendly den mental disorder

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: vigorous locale

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Ocher razzle-dazzle piazza

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: ruby marvelous filthpig

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: Wine Mad-dog Skullcap Famous Landscape Painting



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: ruby marvelous filthpig



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: khaki temple

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: khaki temple

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: khaki temple

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: brilliant stimulating ape

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: khaki temple

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: khaki temple

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: ruby marvelous filthpig

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: khaki temple



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: vigorous locale

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: vigorous locale

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: vigorous locale

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Saffron Effete Gas Station

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac ultramarine menage striped hyena

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: amber self-absorbed forum black woman

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Honey-headed Range Travel Guidebook

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: trip avocado nursing home toaster

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: sickened thriller whorehouse circlehead



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2).#50093931)