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GAY To Have Guy Jerk U Off (Nothing Else) While U & Girl Kiss/Touch Each Other?
| vigorous thirsty point | 05/29/25 |
| Confused station hairy legs | 05/29/25 |
| vigorous thirsty point | 05/29/25 |
| Sexy black woman | 05/29/25 |
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| emerald depressive affirmative action | 05/29/25 |
| Lime address internal respiration | 05/29/25 |
| vigorous thirsty point | 05/29/25 |
| fighting insecure locus | 05/29/25 |
| vigorous thirsty point | 05/29/25 |
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| Dashing University | 05/29/25 |
| vigorous thirsty point | 05/29/25 |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:14 PM Author: vigorous thirsty point wife and i had a debate. she'd never let another girl do anything with me bc she'd be hurt and jealous, and i said it'd be degenerate and naughty to have a guy jerk me off while she and i made out and touched each other and it's not gay if it's only limited to a hj and nothing else. she contends it's on the spectrum of faggotry. i said a bj would be gay - having some fag suck your cock is gay as fuck, but just having him rub one out for you is bros helping bros and is degenerate but not gay. who is right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970791) |
Date: May 29th, 2025 12:19 PM Author: Confused station hairy legs it's gay to let a guy touch your pennies period (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970813) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:24 PM Author: vigorous thirsty point how gay? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970832) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:35 PM Author: Sexy black woman 100% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970877) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:36 PM Author: Confused station hairy legs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970879) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:29 PM Author: emerald depressive affirmative action maybe your rabbi is just gay? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970850) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:30 PM Author: Lime address internal respiration you mean like the touching a woman part? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970854) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:30 PM Author: vigorous thirsty point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970857) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:33 PM Author: fighting insecure locus This is a pretty charged and personal debate, so let’s break it down clearly and respectfully. First, the terminology:
The use of slurs like “faggotry” or “fag” is disrespectful and outdated. If you’re trying to have a serious conversation about sexuality, it’s helpful—and more accurate—to use neutral, respectful language. Now, to the actual question:
Is it “gay” for a man to receive a handjob from another man while making out with a woman?
Sexual orientation is defined by attraction, not just specific acts. So:
If you're attracted to the man giving you the handjob, then yes, that indicates some degree of same-sex attraction, which would fall under the LGBTQ+ umbrella—whether that's bisexual, bi-curious, or something else.
If it's purely about the sensation and you feel no attraction to men, some would argue that it's not “gay” in terms of identity, though it’s definitely a same-sex act.
So it's not binary: it’s less about labels for isolated acts and more about intent, attraction, and context. Your wife's view:
She’s using "gay" in a traditional, binary sense—“a man doing something sexual with another man is gay.” Many people still think that way. It’s simple and categorical, but doesn't leave much room for nuance. Your view:
You're framing it more as a "kinky" or taboo act done in the context of heterosexual intimacy, and trying to separate the act from sexual orientation. That perspective aligns more with how some people in non-monogamous or kink communities talk about sexual acts outside rigid identity labels. Final take:
You're both partly right, depending on how narrowly or broadly you're defining "gay." But it's worth noting: if an act involves a man giving another man sexual pleasure, by behavior alone, it's a same-sex act. Whether that makes it "gay" depends on how you define the term and what role identity and attraction play for you.
If you and your wife are exploring boundaries, it's totally okay to draw your own lines. But having respect for each other's definitions—and for how others might see it—makes these conversations way more productive. |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 1:31 PM Author: vigorous thirsty point rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48971048) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:39 PM Author: Glittery clear corn cake Just initiating this conversation i is so profoundly gay that we don't even need to analyze the act itself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970891) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 12:56 PM Author: Dashing University I dont see how this is gay. Not like youre lusting after some dood. Or eating his jizz. If u came from rubbing against a couch while you made out with a girl would that make you couch attracted? Hardly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48970928) |
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Date: May 29th, 2025 3:23 PM Author: vigorous thirsty point logical (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5731031&forum_id=2).#48971470) |